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Wednesday, October 13, 1999
Subject: Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

My name is Michael and I am a senior at Henderson State University in Arkadelphia, Arkansas. I am doing a study for my senior research on road rage. My study's main focus is what interpersonal and nonverbal communication takes place before the development of road rage. I am trying to gather as much knowledge and information as possible. If you have any information that could help with this study I would deeply appreciate it. Thank you for your time. -- Michael
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Thursday, October 14, 1999

Subject: Fact-check for Men's Health

Dear Dr. Driving:

Following is information which I am fact-checking before we publish it in an upcoming issue of Men's Health (per your conversation with one of our writers). If you could please look over the paragraph and let me know as soon as possible if there are any corrections or changes I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks for your help and I look forward to hearing from you! -- S.

Material:

Why is everyone driving SUVs? It's not that we have to cross river beds to get to work. Yet, sports utes are the fastest growing segment of the auto market since 1994, and account for about a fifth of the total market. Social psychologist Leon James, Ph.D., University of Hawaii, Alias "Dr. Driving," thinks it's all about control. "They're big and you're sitting higher, and you command over those who sit below you." People like the height, and surveys rate driver seat visibility as high as comfort and performance, when shopping for a car. Call it "automotive Darwinism," but we believe that even on the road it's survival of the fittest. The higher we are, the safer we think it is for us.


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Thursday, October 14, 1999

Subject: not hardly

Dear Dr. Driving:

That is some poor reasoning and only tells part of what's taught. Only by expecting other drivers to do it wrong can you be prepared to cope safely and smoothly with their actions. If they do surprise you it's for the good and no allowances are necessary on your part and you have lost nothing. Not only have I driven 4 million accident free miles, BUT accidents don't seem to happen around me. I think that's pretty amazing considering I have spent the majority of the last 27 years on the roads either driving a truck or teaching someone else to or teaching people to drive safely around them. I generally drive as fast as I think it is safe to go. This keeps you paying attention at all times to everything around you, trying to anticipate what can happen before it does and decide before hand what you will do, where your "out" is before you need it. This may result in driving less than the posted speed limit, if that is what is safe. I haven't had a ticket I earned in over 20 years and only one I did not back in '83. This works, in all kind of vehicles in all kinds of traffic, with the proper driving skills, a courteous attitude and a desire to see no one die out there. -- Ms. B

Friday, October 15, 1999

Dear Ms. B: Thanks for your letter, I appreciate it. I entirely agree with your idea of driving with alertness and compassion! That is my ideal too. I guess we have a little semantic disagreement about calling this "defensive" or something else. The reason "defensive" is not preferable is because it is close to "offensive" in the sense of creating suspicion in advance and a tendency to see other drivers as enemies. This is a disadvantage of the word and idea "defensive" as it has been used and practiced. Also, defensive doesn't encourage mutual support and compassion. The compassion you said you added to it, is your own addition, it is not part of "defensive." I would prefer supportive driving as an idea and then part of it would relate to anticipation, which is a term you used. Maybe Anticipation Driving or something like that. This is better than defensive because it lacks suspiciousness and hostility, and yet if focuses on what you said is critical: To be alert so you can anticipate so you can correct in time and avoid. What do you think?

DrDriving
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Thursday, October 14, 1999

Subject: prevention

Dear Dr. Driving:

Can be as simple as changing our expectations of other drivers. I always taught my students to expect the other driver to always do the wrong thing, this act alone seems to usually prevent anger because one the driver is not surprised and scared by the close call that follows and unexpected maneuver, and anger usually follows fear. Two, it can become a challenge to anticipate their wrong actions and be prepared and therefore safe and unruffled. I am amazed that people still drive with the assumption that the other driver IS GOING TO DO WHAT THEY SHOULD, sure leave you flat footed when they don't . . . -- Ms. B


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Thursday, October 14, 1999

Subject: Requesting Information

Dear Dr. Driving:

Greetings: I am a Deputy Sheriff with the Bourbon County Sheriff's Department in Fort Scott, Kansas; working on my Bachelor's degree with the goals on obtaining my Master's degree. I am working on a research paper at this present time. The topic of the research paper is Road Rage. To obtain the content of the paper we are to review abstracts from Academic Journals. By surfing the internet I came across your name on several entries. I am having difficulties obtaining any information on this topic. Do you have any ideas of where I can obtain this information? Your help will be highly appreciative. -- B. Martin S-3, Deputy Sheriff, Bourbon County Sheriff's Department

Friday, October 15, 1999

Dear Sheriff M:

You can consult this file of Academic References on Drivers, Road Rage, etc.  

Also, you can consult the ERIC DATABASE (look up in a search engine). Good luck. Please write back if you need more consultations.

DrDriving

 


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Friday, October 15, 1999

Subject: Request to use materials

Dear Dr. Driving:

I am requesting permission to use DrDriving's CARRworkbook and its Driving Awareness Forms and Activities. -- Rick

Dear Rick:

With respect to your request below, I need for you to explain what you're going to use it for, with who, which parts, and how many copies. When I get the details, I shall respond. Thanks.

DrDriving


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Friday, October 15 1999

Subject: Links broken and other

Dear Dr. Driving:

I took one of the surveys yesterday and found some questions ambiguous. For example, one was something like, "If everyone drove friendly, do you think the world would be a better place? Will this happen?"

I was torn between my eternal pessimism and my preference to try to practice what you preach. There will always be assholes. I try not to be among them, but they will always be there.

I also haven't found anything that mentions motorcycling. I have many friends who ride motorcycles and have done so for many years. We all firmly believe that surviving cyclists (as opposed to the others) have a finely developed sense of ESP so that we see things developing in traffic far ahead of others. It might be interesting to study whether such survival is simple Darwinian statistics or whether the cycle is a stimulus to greatly developed avoidance due to vulnerability. On the other hand, the new cyclist is tempted to aggression by the sheer performance of the machine. Some learn the hard way that they are mistaken.

Will send some other material from another machine. You might find it amusing.

Good Site! Good Cause! -- R.M.

Dear Mr. M.: Great list! Do you want me to post it? Is there a Reference?

Thanks for your trouble. Please respond.

DrDriving
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Friday, October 15, 1999

Subject: I Need Help

Dear Dr. Driving:

My name is Paul and I am a senior at Garinger High School in Charlotte, NC. I am writing my Senior Exit Essay on road rage. I am trying to prove that road rage is a habit acquired in child hood...but the only info I have found is what you wrote in your testimony to the US Subcommittee on Surface Transportation and Infrastructrual Hearings. I am writing this letter in request of any information you might have on this subject. Any information you can provide would be greatly appreciated. -- Respectfully, Paul

Dear Paul:

I don't know of research showing the connection between road rage and childhood--it's obvious to me but think of what kind of research would be able to prove it! Maybe that should be part of your essay, I think. What kind of proof are you expecting or can you expect?? There is a study in Central Michigan University I saw somewhere on the Web today showing that when you ask people who have road rage where they got it from, the majority say from their parents. Is this proof?? I have some evidence like this too--asking people about their aggressive driving and what they can remember about their parents. You can see the article and data here: http://DrDriving.org/surveys/

DrDriving
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Friday, October 15, 1999

Subject: Help for victims

Dear Dr. Driving: I am sure your readers will appreciate this story.

The cure for ROAD RAGE! I drive to work each day in a medium size city. Everyday I could count on, at least, two tailgaters; some of these were quite threatening. 60 miles an hour isn't fast enough for these mad fools. If I go any faster, it's unsafe and I could get an expensive ticket. Then, one day I saw an ad for a security camera / recorder called "AutoCam". The address is: http://www.bctonline.com/users/macrohard  

I got the low cost model ($69.00), installed it, and WHAT a difference. NO more tailgaters! The camera mounts in the rear window in plain view of the on coming driver. They see the flashing red light, then the camera, and then read the accompanying window sticker that says "SMILE you're on AUTOCAM". Within 3 minutes the tailgater / troublemaker slows down or falls back at least 3 car lengths, realizing that his every move and license plate number is caught on tape.

It's incredible, everyone wants to see the tape, the police, judges, the press, TV news and TV shows. It may even lower your insurance cost. This is the video system that has been shown on TV as a new product to stop road rage. The more cameras that are out there, the safer we will all be. So join the team and get your camera today. It really works! -- macrohard

Saturday, October 16, 1999

Dear macrohard: Thanks for the AUTOCAM info. I'll check it out. It's astonishing to think that soon most cars might have these...Sure will change things on highways.

DrDriving
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Friday, October 15, 1999

Subject: story

Dear Dr. Driving:

Hello. Tracked you down after reading about you in a WSJ reference. We are AAA New York's magazine, and I would like to review some of your materials. If I provide you with a fed ex # for free postage, would you send me what you have? -- Sincerely, C. K, Assistant Editor Car & Travel Monthly

Monday, October 18, 1999

Dear C. : Just let me know what you want from my site.

Photos available here.

RoadRageous Video Tape and Course available here: http://www.aipsnews.com/
DrDriving

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Saturday, October 16, 1999

Subject: Driving and using e-mail

Dear Dr. Driving:

First of all, I would like to identify myself before asking you several important issues with regard to driving and using an email system simultaneously. I am an engineering student at the University of Toronto (Canada) and am currently taking a course in Human-Centered System Design. Currently, I am conducting a research project which involves using an email system while driving on the road. Matters of significant interests to me are the psychology of driving, sources of distraction (diverging attention) and the management of attention suitable for driving while using an email system.

I would like to ask you the following questions:

How much attention driver has to give in order to drive safely?
Will the use of sound activated email system divert the driver's attention significantly?
If so, to what degree and what are the possible ways to divide the attention to both activities (driving and using email) ?


What kind of interfaces are appropriate for the email system?
What kind of affordances, constraints and mappings should the system have?
How is this email system compared to the use of cellular phones while driving, with respect to safety, attention, and responsiveness?
 

Thank you for reading this email and addressing my concerns. -- Sincerely, H.T.

Dear Mr. T: The questions you ask about attention management of drivers with e-mail are the issues we indeed need to find out about, and I don't think the answers are known. I hope you go forward with your investigation.

Perhaps you can share with me what sort of design you might be trying. Of course sub-task analysis on various types of simulation data is a logical step to identify the factors that should be monitored in actual driving. So the final step of this investigation should therefore be data from actual driving trips.

One further suggestion: In terms of dependent measures involving errors, accuracy, steadiness, etc., one should always use measures in all three behavioral systems of a driver: affective, cognitive, and sensorimotor. These distinctions are explained in this CHART.
 

DrDriving

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Saturday, October 16, 1999

Subject: doctororganic.com / Threestep

Dear Dr. Driving:

I was wondering if you could check out my article on driving. It's at my website www.doctororganic.com . In the opinions area titled, THE ART AND ZEN OF DRIVING. Thanks, and let me know what you think. -- Matthew

Dear Matthew:

Thanks for letting me see your article on the Zen of Driving. Excellent! You're doing what I advise all drivers: the Threestep Program:

acknowledge you need to change the way you drive witness yourself while driving (like you're doing)
modify one step at a type and recycle the last two steps.  I recommend you look at at delightful little book called The Zen of Driving by Steve Berger (Bantam books--probably Amazon.com can find a copy).

By the way, you can link to my site from your article, if you want people to read more about the Threestep Program.

DrDriving

 

Thursday, November 5, 1999

Subject: Re: Threestep

Dear Dr. Driving:

I put your link on the driving article of www.doctororganic.com. Can you provide me with a reciprocal link? If so, I have provided you with an image. -- Matthew
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Sunday, October 17, 1999

Subject: Medstar credit

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you for crediting Medstar on your homepage list of interviews! I'd like to let you know about one thing...and request another.

First, if you'd like to link to a transcript of the story you were featured in, check out "Medstar.com", our new web page...which is just getting started. The search engine and other properties aren't working yet, but you can find the transcript, and our research summary, if you click on the "Medical News Clients Only" section, and then click on the 'archive'...and look under 'Mental Health".

Secondly, you list the story as "a Bill Flood" production, which would be wonderful...if it were true. In fact, while I developed the idea and did some initial research, the production was all Diana's. She gathered all the information and boiled it down into something both entertaining and educational. She did much more than just interview you! So, take my name off, and leave Diana's up, the next time you update your media listings.

Many thanks--I hope you enjoyed working with Medstar. -- B. F, Managing Editor, Medical News

Dear Mr. F: Thanks for the correction and the link for the transcript--it's been updated.

By the way, our book Road Rage and Aggressive Driving will be published by Prometheus Books in September 2000. Our RoadRageous video tape and course by AIPS is now on the market (http://aipsnews.com). And my latest Web site is on Air Rage, a new specialty I'm building now. Perhaps one day MEDSTAR might do a piece on air rage as it is becoming more widespread. My new site is at: http://DrDriving.org/rages/index.htm

Take care, and thanks again.

DrDriving


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Monday, October 18, 1999

Subject: courtesy first

Dear Dr. Driving: I do like anticipation driving. I never looked at defensive driving as anything but being prepared and never got any feedback that anyone else did, so its news to me. I taught less than 10 years so I don't claim to know everything. Someone somewhere taught you differently, but I see nothing wrong with your term especially as I always knew that common [uncommon actually] courtesy would eliminate most crashes even without increased driving skills, they would drop 50%. But you don't need to perpetuate your, maybe not so wildly shared, connotation of the word. It does not help since so many professional and trained drivers see it as just the opposite. Your energy would be better placed elsewhere. Adding in your term and reasons it is good, not what is wrong with the other term would better benefit everyone. If all of us that care or know spent all our energy on teaching positive skills and attitudes we still wouldn't be enough, so we have nothing we can spare is my point. Have a great day. -- Daren


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Monday, October 18, 1999

Subject: Male sex roles and drunk driving

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a health educator in Canada, and I am giving a seminar at a Teens Against Drunk Driving Conference on male sex roles and their contribution to drunk driving. Can you suggest any articles, quisize="3es, videos, etc. I tried clicking on the student's list of Drivers Behaving Badly- e.g., car chases etc in movies, but I couldn't get it (wrong URL). Any websites, writers, about what cars and driving mean to men (besides a way of getting from A to B).

Do you have any other suggestions? -- J.A. L, Communications Coordinator, Canadian Mental Health Association, Ontario Division

Dear Ms. L: I need more specifics on what you're looking for. For instance, have you checked these two:

http://www.dogpile.com  a search engine that queries a dozen other search engines so you have a variety of results. There are a lot of statistics on drunk driving you'll find, and many of them give gender information and age, etc.
 

ERIC database in most academic libraries, but also online through the Web. Then if you find reports or journal articles, they can be obtained by fax by your library services.
If you have already explored these types of sources then what did you not find you still want? Once you answer this, I can pursue it from there. Please feel free to write back, and thank you for consulting me.
 

DrDriving

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Tuesday, October 19, 1999

Subject: a basic plan for my project

Dear Dr. Driving:

I was thinking what my project is going to be, and I am quite interested in a behavior of motorcyclists, who are not like "easy rider" rather speed freaks!

A main point of my project is focusing on a relationship between their personality and their behavior when they ride on the toy. Also, I am interested in the behavior when they drive a car. I think they have a car for usual occasion, and drive it everyday.

My assumption is that when they ride on the toy for fun, they do not think about the other users or somewhat...on the contrary, they might drive a car like the other drivers do And their personality is a bit aggressive compared to Mr. average.

I will employ 3 questionnaires

personality test
self-measured questionnaire (on the bike)
self-measured questionnaire (on the car)
Is this a fine project or anything else.....

Please give me a comment on this. Yours sincerely, Shojiro

P.S. I cannot wear an aloha when I drive 'cause the weather is really but it is like rainy day is everyday, and my car does not have a roof.

Dear, S:

 I think your plan is good, but you could use one more dependent measure: I wonder if the riders could tape record themselves by wearing a head speaker connected to a portable tape recorder--or would there be too much background noise? It's worth trying out to see if this would work. Of course it does work in a car. And instead of a tape recorder, it could be a cellular phone and the recording could be made at the other end. And you only need samples of a few minutes on several trips by a few individuals, both experienced and less experienced, both male and female, both young and older--to the extent possible.

Once you have the recording you can

analyze it yourself and get further data from the riders and drivers by letting them hear it and comment on (a) what they meant and (b) what they feel and think about it now as they listen to it.
When the time comes, you can consult me about how to analyze the tapes, but basically it's pretty much common sense, except you count things as well. You can consult this CHART which will help you CATEGORIZE the statements they make on the tape.
http://DrDriving.org/articles/chart.htm

In the instructions to the riders or drivers, you can say to them: Just give a blow by blow description of what's happening, what you're noticing, what you're thinking, what emotions you feel, how you react to others or what you see, etc. Just keep talking, keeping up a stream of talk, as if you're talking out loud everything your mind is doing or thinking. -- Something like that. You understand?

The above data is immensely more powerful and convincing and direct in comparison to the paper and pencil personality tests and surveys you can give them to fill out--all these are INDIRECT measures of the cyclist's driver's thoughts and feelings.

What do you think?

By the way, are you a cyclist and a driver? Do you switch your thoughts and emotions for the two situations?

DrDriving


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Tuesday, October 19, 1999

Subject: CARR

By the way these links are very useful and thought-provoking. I took some of the tests and learned I am aggressive (though never actually violent). I plan to change. I would like to learn more about CARR too. -- Debbie

Dear Debbie: Thanks for your kind comments. I fixed the link--thanks for telling me (few people bother yet it's so important).

Write again after you explore CARR and let me know if you get the impulse to want to do something for the cause. Like forming a Quality Driving Circle, or developing the Drivers Behaving Badly ratings for TV (you'll see what I started in the CARRworkbook). And I'm glad you made the first step--A for Acknowledging that you need to tone yourself down in aggressiveness (that happened to me--which is how I became DrDriving--trying to tone down my being a Rushing Maniac--you'll find my story if you explore the site further...).

See my Threestep Program here. Take care and write back!

DrDriving


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Tuesday, October 19, 1999

Subject: Some more thoughts and reflections

Dear Dr. Driving:

Since I came across your site(s) a few days ago I've been reviewing my own driving and how I came to drive the way I do. The short conclusion seems to be that I spent thousands of hours watching my parents drive. I think you could say that my driving and that of my father are indistinguishable.

In some cases, this wouldn't be good. But in my case, it's something that seems to be pretty workable. You see, my father flew Navy jets for a living and seems to have been raised to see that hard work, good instruction, continuing improvement and mature behavior are all important, positive things. He says that his attention to maintenance and operation of the jets he flew are what kept him from having to jettison an aircraft on many occasions. He taught me to drive with the same attitude and approach to machinery. In fact, he was teaching me to fly light planes at the same time as driving. The methodical, reasoned approach to flying can be of benefit in driving as well. I practically start the car using a checklist! Perhaps my own Navy service, 5 years as a nuclear submariner, also reinforced this behavior.

Anyway, I don't know how much of my driving success to attribute to family environment, early training, and my own personality. But I suspect that starting life with the goal of operating machinery smoothly, safely, and increasingly skillfully is a positive approach. It's the one you wish your airline captain is taking. It's the one you want your 18wheel driver taking. It's the one you want your kids taking.

Is it possible that we are so horrible as a nation because driver licensing is so easy to obtain that it's valueless and has no meaning? I worked far harder for my pilot's license and subsequently my license to instruct. Could it be that some positive incentives for skill and excellence would be the way to get folks to wake up and pay attention to what they are doing?

I often wish that I could hire a professional driving instructor in order to obtain a "checkup". But I figure that anybody who is actually doing driver instruction is pretty much buried at the basic level working with new drivers. The kind of checkup I'm thinking of has NO RELATION to the so-called "advanced driving schools" which are really racing schools. I want to get better at the mind games on the road. I'm not entirely confident that having been on the do-it-yourself plan for 25 years I will have covered all the material.

OK, that's my ramble for today. I suppose that some folks would regard zero accidents in 26 years and 250,000 mi as success but I keep getting the feeling that I might have missed something...Best Wishes -- R.

Thursday, October 21, 1999

Dear Mr. Rr: Thanks for the thoughts. There are several good ideas in your last message. Yes, positive rewards for excellence--that's a possible plan for both government and insurance industry, even greater rebates from manufacturers. The idea of constant improvement of skills that you were taught by your father--very important and few drivers realize that, or even want to right now. We need a complete overhaul of driver training and what it means to be excellent.

Your desire to know more about your attitude and thinking behind the wheel is also very healthy and positive. One method I used for years: carrying a tape recorder and recording myself while I talk out loud whatever stream of thoughts and emotions I have behind the wheel. When I listen--it's very revealing. I wonder if you would try it and write back with the results.

You are an unsung hero. Our country needs lots of people like you. Take care!

Leon James
DrDriving

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Wednesday, October 20, 1999

Subject: Sequence of road rage steps

Dear Dr. Driving: I would like to inform you that in your sequence of road rage steps, the lady that caused the accident would not be charged with vehicular homicide because, a person can only be guilty of homicide if they kill a person and by definition a baby must be born in order to be a person. Therefore an unborn baby is not subject to the rights of a person, and it is not homicide if an unborn baby is "killed". Sad but true! -- Brent

Tuesday, October 21, 1999

Dear Brent: ...

Which is why we were all surprised. This was the first legal case in any county to invoke the vehicular manslaughter charge for an unborn child--and the woman was convicted--but you'll need to check exactly what the conviction was.
 

DrDriving

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Wednesday, October 20, 1999

Subject: statistics

Dear Dr. Driving:

I am impressed by the info on your website, but cannot get any of the links to work. I like visual representations - any advice you can give would be appreciated. Thanks -- Jim

Dear Jim: Thank you so much for letting me know--so few people do that! I fixed it, and I hope you can get back to the document soon!
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Thursday, October 21, 1999

Subject: paper on road rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

 Hi, my name is Erin. I am doing a paper on speculating about causes and I chose to do mine on Why we have road rage. I looked at everything on the web site, but I was wondering if you happened to have anymore information that could be helpful in my paper. If you don't that is okay. My paper is due Monday, but it is just a rough draft so there is always room to add more. Thank you for your time. -- Erin


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Thursday, October 21, 1999

Subject: Cause and Effect of Road Rage?

Dear Dr. Driving:

What is your opinion of the Cause and Effect of "Road Rage?" -- AW

Dear AWi:

You'll find a complete answer to your question in this document on my site. Write back after you read it. Thanks.

DrDriving
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Thursday, October 21, 1999

Subject: Road Rage Information

Dear Dr. Driving:

I have found on the internet you seem to be the expert on road rage. I have been asked by my supervisors to give a presentation on road rage, mainly it's impact in Hawaii. I was curious where I may be able to get more information about this subject? Your web site is very informative, are there any brochures, flyers, or posters that may be available to me and my audience. I am also located on Oahu. Any help would be greatly appreciated. -- W. P III, CTM2, US Navy

Friday, October 22, 1999

Dear Mr. P: You might like to look around the dozens of documents I have--you can use the search engine on my site. Perhaps you might like to start directly with an "overview" article here: http://DrDriving.org/articles/philosophy.htm and use the links to go to other documents.

I might also mention a survey I did on Hawaii drivers (UH college students) and the results here. I think you'll find plenty to present to your audience. Once you know what might be suitable, just select that material (for example a Table or a Test or some Paragraphs or a cartoon), give the Copy command and then paste it into your Word processor. From there you can add things, etc. then print the whole thing for your copy. All this is allowed as part of being on the Web.

If you want a handout also, just let me know what, when, for whom, I will give you permission by return e-mail.

Feel free to write back after you've had a chance to explore.

DrDriving

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Friday, October 22, 1999

Subject: Road rage protection

Dear Dr. Driving:

Hello my name is Gwen and I am doing an expository research essay on Road rage and how to protect yourself from becoming a victim. Do you have any specific information on this? I need 2 credible book sources still and I am coming up with nothing in my college library. Anything you could tell me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks -- Gwen
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Friday, October 22, 1999

Subject: Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

Allow me to introduce myself. I am a second year graduate student in the field of clinical psychology (MA program). I have been currently been given a topic that I found by searching the web is of great interest to you. Due to your vast experience with the topic of road rage, I was wondering if you could lead me to some Journal Sources where I might go to gather more information about the topic. Please keep in mind that our data base is a medium size and that obscure journals are not carried by our library. To give you some background, the paper is related to social concepts. I was thinking about linking road rage to gender, norms, attribution theory, and maybe some social cognitive ideas. At this point, any journal references would be helpful so that I may define the concept better and develop my literature review. Thank you for your time. -- Cristen

Saturday, October 23, 1999

Dear Christen: Here are the three files where you'll find what you asked for:

For Journal articles  

For Gender differences: http://DrDriving.org/articles/gender.htm

For social attribution and schema formation

Good luck.

DrDriving


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Friday, October 22, 1999

Subject: smart cars--ITS

Dear Dr. Driving:

FCC SETS ASIDE SMART DRIVING SPECTRUM The Federal Communications Commission has allocated a portion of the radio spectrum for intelligent transportation services, saying it hopes to jumpstart the development of technology for high-tech highways. Such services could alert drivers to dangerous ice conditions, and could encourage payment via electronic "tags" for parking and gas. (TechWeb 21 Oct 99) http://www.techweb.com/wire/story/TWB19991921S0015
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Sunday, October 24, 1999

Subject: interview

Dear Dr. Driving:

My name is Carrie and I am a student of Bowling Green State University of Ohio. I have to interview someone for my paper on road rage that I'm writing for my English class. If you could please take a few minutes to answer my questions I would really appreciate it. If not please let me know as well. Thank you! -- Carrie

What are the most likely causes of road rage?
Why has it been increasing so rapidly over the past few years?
What group of people are the most likely perpetrators of road rage?
Who are the most likely victims?
How much impact do the media have in the increase of this trend?
Will road rage continue to rise in the future? Why or why not?
Does what a person drives effect how that person drives? Why or why not?
 

Dear Carrie: I can't take the time now. However, if it's allowed by your instructor, you can find my answers to each question in the articles I wrote. Then you can select a piece for the answer--and that's almost like an interview. I would score it higher in fact, because it's more work than just getting the answers from me. Good luck in convincing your teacher, and let me know if you can't find the answers that fit--use the search engine on my site to locate things.

Monday, October 25, 1999

Dear Dr. Driving:

Thank you. I'll ask my teacher if I can just quote your website. -- Carrie
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Monday, October 25, 1999

Subject: Need pictures of road rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

I enjoyed your site and have gotten a lot of info for my term paper due November 18, but I need pictures of road rage and cannot seem to find them. I am hoping you can help me. If you have any could you please e-mail me, or at least point me in the right direction? Thanks in advance. -- RLSPGB

Dear RLSPGB:

Some pictures can be found here, and also, if you go to the originals.
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Monday, October 25, 1999

Subject: Not a firm believer. . .

Dear Dr. Driving: I would like to see somebody stand up and say, "A lot of road rage can be eliminated if people would simply follow the law, and use common courtesy when driving on the road."

For instance, if you're driving down the highway (we'll say four lane), and somebody is driving slower than you in the passing lane, it's the law that you yield to the upcoming traffic and merge your vehicle to the right. People don't seem to realize that this is the law (in MI at least). People like to stare straight ahead with both hands on the wheel, totally oblivious to what is going on around them. I don't know what you teach in your corrective behavior classes, but I'll tell you what, when people don't pay attention to traffic around them and decide they'll drive anyway they like with complete disregard to other drivers on the road around them, I get very upset. I don't get upset to the point of using my car as a battering ram, but it does get me hot under the collar.

Maybe you can enlighten me as to how you see people getting to the point of "Road Rage" because I hear a lot about road rage on T.V., but nothing is ever said on how to correct it, i.e. be respectful of your fellow commuters. Please advise. -- K. Hall

Dear Mr. Hall: You wrote: "I would like to see somebody stand up and say, "A lot of road rage can be eliminated if people would simply follow the law, and use common courtesy when driving on the road."

Mr. Hall, your wish has been fulfilled: I Placed your statement on my site (look at the bottom) with an email button for people's comments. I agree with you. The problem is this: Most drivers will not do this, and it won't work if you put them all in jail or fine them--there'll be a rebellion. Therefore we must give people the tools to be able to follow the law, and that means to respect the law. Few people can do what you have done, if you succeed in following the law on all your trips.

Now here is one thing I'd like to raise from what you wrote: you express sentiments similar to what I call automotive vigilantism--and that is against the law as well as against the morality. So I'm wondering if you'd like to go into this some more. May I suggest you start with filling out my 26-item questionnaire that lists the common things vigilantism makes you do, think, or feel.


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Monday, October 25, 1999

Subject: Re: Some more thoughts and reflections

Dear Dr. Driving: Boy, if I'd tape recorded myself during the 3 days I was traveling in Fremont, CA. I'd have learned a lot. Compared to my usual routes, it was dense and fast traffic. Combine that with not knowing exactly how and when to turn and it makes for stress. I wish I'd had a sign in the back window saying "I'm not being stupid, I've just never been here before!"

My wife had a thought for an article she "someday" might write. She thinks it would be useful to advise young women to judge the driving of the men they date. After all, if it progresses to marriage, you'll be riding with this guy for 40 or 50 years. Not only might your lifespan be determined by how he drives but your children's survival and THEIR driving habits will be determined by how this guy drives. Sort of puts a whole different spin on how girls ought to look at the 18-year-old guys who drive new Trans Ams, doesn't it? - R. Miller

Dear Mr. Miller: You always write messages that are so quotable I feel like putting them in my book!! Your wife's observation is brilliant indeed!

This one I shall quote anonymously--it's great: " I wish I'd had a sign in the back window saying "I'm not being stupid, I've just never been here before!"


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Monday, October 25, 1999

Subject: Re: Some more thoughts and reflections

Dear Dr. Driving: Seems to be a family trait that we try to encapsulate significant thoughts with recallable stories. :-)

You might be amused to know that my favorite saying is - "Experience is what you get when you were expecting something else." This seems to apply to SO MANY things!

I'm sure my wife would be flattered if you somehow incorporated her thoughts about spouses' driving in your courses. While it's kind of gender-biased, it does reflect the truth of how most of us live (gender roles happen anyway).

Feel free to use any of the thoughts or material as your own. Just don't make a $M without sharing :-) -- R. Miller

"Old enough to know better but young enough to do it anyway."
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Monday, October 25, 1999

Subject: From your leon.html File

Dear Dr. Driving:

I'm heavily involved with a neighborhood traffic calming effort which has focused heavily on enforcement and engineering but limited to use of radar trailer for education. When recently informed that many of the speeders on our collector road come directly from our own neighborhood, we decided to look closer at educational opportunities.

My recent discovery of your Web site has opened up both new educational directions and resources to support them. I would appreciate a catalogue of your varied resources. Also of interest are any agencies which may be distributing your materials free of charge, or for a rental fee. Thanks. -- E.

Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Dear Mr. E: Thanks for your interest. I don't have a directory of available materials because all the materials I publish on the Web are for free use by individuals for study and education. For commercial use, or where there's payment for materials or services using the materials, written permission is required, after mutual agreement is reached.

You can explore the hundreds of files on my site and put those you want into a list of addresses, then send it to me for confirmation or publication.

There's also a search engine on my site. Typing in "traffic calming" gives 12 documents to look at (though they're but brief statements). Let me know what you think of traffic calming and what the trend is. I'd like to have more on this on my site. One issue that needs to be looked at is the "clash" between those who pass through and those who live there. I'm wondering what kind of traffic calming devices enrage motorists and try to evade them vs. those that are more acceptable. Are you aware of such a distinction? I have not seen it mentioned by transportation engineers, but you can see that a psychologist would think of that first!
 

DrDriving

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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: revised plan

Dear Dr. Driving: During this weekend, I totally revised my project, an outline of the project is as below :

driving behavior and pleasure experience for motorcyclist

Subject: 20 male experience rider (least 5 years experience); 20 male inexperience rider (less than 5 years experience)

method

there might be 3 questionnaires are employed

flow questionnaire : independent variable (see below)
personality test : dependent variable (see below)
driving behavior questionnaire : dependent variable (see below)
Independent variable: flow questionnaire, which would measure 8 dimensions of flow as below:

intense involvement
clarity of goals and feedback
transcendence of self
lack of self-consciousness
loss of a sense of time
intrinsically rewarding experience
balance between skill and challenge
deep concentration


*see Csikszentmihalyi, M (1998) "the flow experience and its significance for human psychology in optimal experience, psychological studies of flow in consciousness

Dependent variable (1): personality test, which would measure aggressiveness and moral of the subjects

Dependent variable (2): driving attitude questionnaire, which measures how the subjects rage on the road

Dependent variable (?): their experience range might affect the independent variable (flow)

This was an actual design of my proposal project, and it has been banned by me by some reasons, but I felt this would be a great project for me

Do you think this is a good project design or ? Please give me a comment on the project design. I do not know which one should be the independent variable, the "flow" or driving attitude? -- Shojiro

P.S. Can you believe that a toy of the subjects could reach 100m/h in 64 sec from 0. Wearing crash helmet slash information of perception that I felt.

Dear Mr. S: Your project is good and the design is adequate. It doesn't make a difference which is the DV and which the IV--you can do either, then switch. This is because this design is semi-experimental or correlational, though it allows you to "pretend" by arbitrarily (or theoretically) assign one variable as the DV and another as the IV, and then do an ANOVA test between the sub-means.

In order to do a "true" experiment, you must designate the IV in advance, then use random assignment to put subjects into the different IV conditions (treatment conditions).

In terms of your DVs, you can use some of my tests if you like.

DrDriving


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: your comments

Dear Kevin: Thanks for your comments on the survey and the mistake you caught. I agree with you that we "experts" need to shift our focus to cover the drivers who are a source of irritation by the way they drive (seemingly unaware or uncaring).

One suggestion I have is that IN THE MEANTIME drivers need to learn how not to let these uncaring or careless drivers upset you. Why give them the power to upset you? I discovered that it's possible to reduce the intensity of our emotions, despite those drivers. And I think it's desirable to do so. So, I basically agree with you but I recommend you work on your own passion against those people.

Which is why the survey you filled out could be of help by leading you to examine the basis of that intensity. Please go to this file where I discuss the survey and it will lead you to the larger survey (takes much longer to fill out). But it will again lead you to the thought process and emotions we have that need to be trained better (no matter what those other drivers are doing!!!). (see here)

I hope you write back after you see these other articles and surveys. Since you're also an expert at this (by daily experience for years), it would be useful if you could make up various items I can add to the survey, or else make a new one, that would help me bring out more awareness of the problem you see from your perspective--which is shared by many many other motorists.

DrDriving


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: Help please: "Tab's no drug week info"

Dear Dr. Driving: My school is having their NO DRUG WEEK and I was wondering is you being police associated, could help me find out drug info like what the fines are for doing certain drugs. Stuff like that, if I turn this info in to my class my teacher said she would like it. -- Tabitha

Dear Tabitha: Check this file for the information you want: http://www.drugsmartusa.com/  


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: Help! Road Rage Info Needed

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm currently doing a research report on road rage, and I could use your help. I've found a tremendous amount of information on the psychology of adult road ragers, but very little on college students. Can you please provide me with any information you have regarding this, if any. -- JP2U

Dear JP2U: My students have done a number of reports on their own aggressive driving. Please survey this directory.


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: Your online study of road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a Social Psychology student and a sophomore at Whitworth College in Spokane, Washington. I was wondering if it would be possible to use some of your questions on your road rage survey for a small class project I am doing on road rage. Please email me back, if you have time, with your answer and any other information you think I would need on your survey. -- Maggie

Dear Maggie: Permission granted for the request below. I recommend that after they fill it out, you let them score it by going through each item and discussing why it's good or bad. (or some of the items...)

DrDriving


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: Unhappy airline passengers

Dear Dr. Driving: At the bottom of your page you have a chart entitled: "unhappy airline passengers". Are these numbers representing one particular airline? All in the states? World wide? Thanks a lot! -- Amanda

Dear Amanda: The bottom of the chart specifies the source of the information as the U.S. Dept. of Transportation. From this I conclude that these are annual numbers for the U.S.


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Tuesday, October 26, 1999

Subject: air rage

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Denise. I am a mature psychology student gathering information for my dissertation. I am interested in this relatively new phenomenon 'air rage.' However, I am finding it difficult to find any academic studies which have been carried out. I would be grateful for any advice you may be able to offer, or if you could point me in the right direction. I am specifically interested in the interaction between flight attendants and potentially irate passengers. Thank you. -- Denise

Wednesday, October 27, 1999

Dear Denise: The only information I have is what's on my site.


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Wednesday, October 27, 1999

Subject: road rage project: help needed

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a student at Vance High School and am writing my senior exit project on road rage. I have visited your web site but still need much more information. If you have any or know where I can receive some, it would be greatly appreciated. -- Ryan

Dear Ryan: Let me know what questions you want answered. If you don't know you need to read some articles on my site first.

Thursday, November 4, 1999

Dear Dr. Driving: Hey, thanks for writing back to me. I don't have any specific questions at the moment, but will definitely contact you later when I do. I need this information for a senior exit project. I am doing it on road rage and your site is my primary source. I would also consider an online interview at some point with you if at all possible. Thank you for your time and know how on the subject, and I'll keep in touch. -- Ryan


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Wednesday, October 27, 1999

Subject: Road Rage Survey

Dear Dr. Driving: I am an adult student at Potomac College in Washington, D.C. I am currently doing a paper and an oral report in my Psychology class on Road Rage. I am due for my presentation this coming Saturday (October 30th). I would like your permission to hand out copies of your World Road Rage Survey to my classmates (17 plus the professor).

Although I have not yet taken this survey (it was not available at this time) I have taken your Driver Personality Survey and I would like to make an observation. I think you might consider adding to your basic information the number of miles the person being surveyed drives annually. I believe that is an important factor. I have an aunt who received her license when she was in her forties and drives very little. I also have a seventeen year old who has had her license for about 18 months and probably has more experience driving in that time than my aunt has in the last twenty-five or more years.

I have enjoyed reading your information on road rage and driving in general, obviously in today's society it is a very important topic. Thank you in advance for your time and cooperation. -- P.C.

P.S. I would also like permission to distribute your Are You An Automotive Vigilante? and possibly the primer (if I can figure out how to download it). Thank you again.


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Wednesday, October 27, 1999

Subject: thank you

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you for giving me a comment on my project design that I really appreciate. Another thank you for giving me a permission to use or refer your materials. I will carry on my project. -- S


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Friday, October 29, 1999

Subject: Comments

Dear Dr. Driving: I just located your Dr. Driving website about two weeks ago, and found it original, entertaining and highly informative. A close friend of mine who lives in the mountains thought that she should search my name on the web to establish whether I was bullshitting about things or whether there was substance to my ramblings. She was very surprised to find so many locations linked to my name, and had to share it with me immediately. Needless to say, your site dominated. Congratulations!

I am presently the senior associate at the Alberta Centre for Injury Control and Research and Assistant Professor in the Faculty of Medicine, Department of Public Health Sciences at the University of Alberta. The Centre is located on campus, under the organizational umbrella of the Faculty of Medicine. I have been away from traffic safety for about four years, engaged in Health Canada research and evaluation projects on children and well being. I am now back in injury and traffic safety, managing two huge projects - Aboriginal community development and an in-depth study on EMS (ambulance services - also slated for a book similar to truckers).

I have recently completed a book on Qualitative Research and Injury Prevention/control, to be published by the University of Alberta Press. This leads me to the following point. I have been contracted to edit a book on the latest in traffic safety research/practice. I want to skip the traditional and highlight new ideas, provocative issues and alternative perspectives. We have a publisher interested. I wonder if you would be interested in such a venture by writing a chapter on stress and pressures of everyday drivers and alternative strategies that will/may work in addressing the stress. The book is sponsored by ACICR and AMA Mission Possible Traffic Safety Initiative.

There will be at least twenty authors. I have confirmed inclusions by people such as Herb Simpson (TIRF), Redemaier on cell phones, Sergio Schmidt (Brazil) on neuro psychology, Gerard Paris-Clavel (France) on underground communications and traffic safety, Robert Dow (Australia) on marketing road safety and Geral WIlde (Kingston) on bonus initiatives, Joe Flower on community change, Gunnerson (Sweden) on roadway calming and Ezra Hauer (Toronto) on roadway engineering among others. I will also write several articles and the overall design of the book will encompass a Cybernetic Framework - subsystems that interact amongst each other at strategic junctures to form a whole while maintaining integrity within the sub system.

The catch is that the sponsors want the first draft of the book submitted in Late January. But I think that is doable.

Please write back ASAP of your interest. I will send the guidelines after and a brief description of the framework. Also, I'd like to keep in touch with the happenings at your center. It looks intriguing. Take care. -- Peter Rothe


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Friday, October 29, 1999

Subject: Air Rage Research Info Wanted

Dear Dr. Driving:

I am an undergraduate at the University of Brighton in the UK and I am conducting research for my final year dissertation.

I am currently researching into Air Rage and wondered if you had any information you could let me have. I appreciate that you specialize in Road Rage but I am trying to investigate a possible link between the two subjects. -- D.

Dear Mr. D: Yes, there is a link with road rage. See in this file.  

Monday, November 1, 1999

Dear Dr. Driving: Many thanks for this info. Lots of late night reading is on the way. I can tell! Thanks again! -- David

Dear Mr. K: Thanks for your kind message. After you've had a chance to think about it, I wonder if you can summarize for me what you've learned and what you think we still need to learn. This is a new field so I'm learning about it from people who also think about this issue. Thanks!

DrDriving

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Dear Dr. Driving:

More than a pleasure! Not sure how long it will take though! I would be very interested to find out any other info you get on this subject. -- David


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Friday, October 29, 1999

Subject: Nothing can be done about road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello - Road rage hasn't even started to reach it's peak yet. There is very little that the police can do about it. Too many people with cars. It's all over. -- Russell.

Dear Russell: Thanks for your gloomy message! But what do you actually mean?


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Sunday, October 31, 1999

Subject: "RoadRageous - Aggressive Driver Course" Article by AIPS News

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello, my name is Kirstie. I am a 3rd Year (BSc (Hons)) Psychology student at the University of Huddersfield, England.

I am very interested in the area of aggression, particularly Road Rage, and I am intending to base my dissertation within this field. Whilst carrying out some research on the internet, I found the article RoadRageous which was produced by AIPS News and which referred to an Aggressive Driver Course which I understand yourself and Dr. Arnold Nerenberg have written to enable aggressive driving behavior to be unlearned.

I am very keen to find out more about the studies and research that you and Dr. Nerenberg carried out before the Course could be written. Please can you tell me where your article(s) has/have been published so that I can read your report in its entirety. I am particularly interested in the methods you chose to measure anger and behavior.

Any information you can provide will be gratefully received. Thank you in anticipation. -- Kirstie

Dear Ms. K: This is indeed a very good research area, and so congratulations for finding it and planning a project on it.

The RoadRageous video script represents my approach which is "social responsibility in driving" and "driving personality makeover" techniques of self-modification of behavior, and "lifelong driver self-improvement" through "quality driving circles" and K through 12 public school driving ed curriculum. If you go to my site and use the above words and phrases to search the site itself on the Pico Search button there, you will begin to see laid out, the pieces of text you can bring together in your own fashion, and that will constitute the position you can represent as mine. Just use the copy-paste technique (select in your Web browser any text, give the copy command, then switch to your word processor and give the paste command. Recycle as many times as you want and you've begun to accumulate or create my statements, as they serve your project and perspective.

A second method would be to look over the Topics file I have here.

I have not published or done experimental research on this topic. Those who have appear in my extensive bibliography of research on driving and drivers here: http://DrDriving.org/facts/references.htm

All my research is empirical field research because my interest is in "the thoughts and feelings of drivers behind the wheel." You can see that experimental research would only be able to get at this indirectly, so much so as to be uninformative as to what I want to know, namely, the actual thought sequences and emotional triggerings and variations in states, moment by moment, in actual traffic.

The empirical technique that allows me to come closest to this is the Self-Witnessing Technique which I developed 30 years ago in association with my colleague and wife, Dr. Diane Nahl. She applied it to what Herbert Simon (the famous information scientist who received the Nobel Prize) calls "Protocol Analysis" -- see his book with Ericsson by that title) and she used it with information searching behavior in libraries and online. I started using the self-witnessing behind the wheel in 1982 by carrying a tape recorder and speaking my thoughts out loud. Then many of my students tried it, and this is how I discovered that every driver at some time feels negative emotions behind the wheel and suffers impairment in judgment and civility.

These findings I have described in many ways and many contexts, as you'll find if you look at the many articles on my site.

An additional method I sometimes use is the Survey Method. You'll find several articles on my Road Rage Survey and Driver Personality Test, and what they mean in the context of managing aggressive driving behavior.

I hope you'll write back to keep me informed of your progress, and I'd be delighted to make comments on any theoretical issue, as well as on research design issues such as measurement, tests, treatment effects, sampling, and statistical analyses.

DrDriving

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Monday, November 1, 1999

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you so much for your prompt and very informative reply - you have certainly given me plenty to go at - I am very much looking forward to exploring your site.

I would love to keep you informed of my progress and would be very grateful for any comments you could make - it is very kind of you to take the time. -- Kirstie


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Sunday, October 31, 1999

Subject: Permission

Dear Dr. Driving: I am writing a persuasive speech for my speech class on driving safety, I would like to know if it would be ok to use your Test yourself questions and scale to pass out to my classmates so they can rate themselves. -- Christine

Dear Ms. C: Permission granted. If possible, give them my Web site address: http://DrDriving.org. Thanks and good luck with your test. It's a good idea to have them do through with it!

Sunday, October 31, 1999

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you and I will include your website address on it. -- Christine


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Sunday, October 31, 1999

Subject: Thanks

Dear Dr. Driving: Your information was very knowledgeable and interesting. I started researching road rage for my topic for Public Speaking class and I couldn't believe all the information I found out and how many Americans today are just out of control on the roads. Keep up the work on informing others of road rage and I will do the same. Thanks. -- Jenn


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Monday, November 1, 1999

Subject: Road Rage: what are the causes?

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello, My name is H. The reason that I am writing to you is because I am currently writing a paper on the causes of road rage and would be appreciate any kind of information you could give me that would help me out. I am going to write my paper on some of the different causes of road rage. Some of the causes that I will be looking at are peoples tempers, how hot headed people do stupid things when they get mad. Another thing is how anxiety affects a person while driving. These are just a some of the types of things I am looking for, if you can give me any help in finding other cause's for road rage I would be very grateful. -- H


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Tuesday, November 2, 1999

Subject: South African Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

I found your website while scanning the Internet for some information on road rage in South Africa, where I am a journalist for the New York newspaper Newsday. I have just begun doing research for a story on road rage, my interest having been sparked by the shooting death of a 9-year-old boy this week by a motorist who fired into the car in which he was riding. Has your research included anything from South Africa, and do you have figures on traffic fatalities in general worldwide? I'd be interested in speaking to you by phone this week, if you can tell me what time is convenient. I'm in Johannesburg, which is 10 hours ahead of California right now so about 13 hours ahead of you. Thanks. -- Tina

Dear Tina: I'd be delighted to give you a phone interview (I'll check ahead of time to see what I have on South Africa and other parts of the world).

DrDriving


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Tuesday, November 2, 1999

Subject: Driver Psychology

Dear B: Thanks for your message. I've added your name to the list for a newsletter to be created in the future.


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Tuesday, November 2, 1999

Subject: what to do

Dear Jo Goecke:

I'm looking forward to your article. Be sure to let me know where I can see it. Thanks!

About the woman you interviewed and got the red light running ticket and whom you advised to go to the police about it, and she said she can always go to court:

I've had several people write to me about just such a situation involving different types of violations, including threats of violence by enraged motorists. My advice for the woman you interviewed is: "Try to forget it, and learn your lessons from it and consider yourself ahead. It's not so much about you, as it is about fate, the law, chance events, etc. It's not worth fighting for. What will you get if you fight and what will you get if you forget it? Write down all your ideas in two columns. After you vent and get all excited again about it, you'll calm down, and then think about it again. What's at stake here? What really really will you be fighting for, at what cost in emotion, effort, time, and money?"

One way of letting go, is to do rational scenarios analysis of the event. First write out every step, and number the steps. Second, re-read it carefully and try to insert smaller steps you've omitted, like looking someone in the eye, or cussing out loud, or hesitating for a an extra moment that took up time, etc. Third, now re-read it again, and add what your thinking steps were. Now you'll have a lot more steps. Fourth, re-read it again, and insert what your emotions were, each emotion being a step. Now renumber all the steps and you should have at least 30 of them, if not go back and insert more steps. Fifth and finally, go over each step and ask yourself this crucial question: Could I have made a different step here?

The effect of this exercise is to help you let go and help you turn the experience into a plus for you by becoming an emotionally intelligent driver, smart and safe, and enjoying the driving experience, not hating it.

Sometimes people feel that it's somehow wrong to let injustice stand--and they have different reasons for it, valid reasons, no doubt. And yet I take them back to the same question: What are you fighting for really? Often people discover that their motivation comes from venting and feeling outraged and not wanting to let go. This is a psychological issue and my advice is that it's healthier to let go of it and use it to advance one's life.

DrDriving

Subject: Re: what to do

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you for your sage advice. How I would love to take your courses! Please be assured you will get e-mailed copies of the article for your portfolio and URLs to find it on-line so you can tell others where to find it. You will also be kept informed regarding reprints. I usually market an article for one year to 18 months.

Leon, I apologize that I was not clearer. The woman I interviewed says she experienced road rage and is fighting "leaving the scene of accident" in civil court. While she is awaiting this trial, she has run a red light (witnessed by a police officer) that I am certain will be used against her in the civil trial.

Given the credentials of the authorities I interviewed for the article, my ethical dilemma is do I continue to use her as the victim in my road rage article, knowing she has been ticketed for running a red light, or do I pull her from the article and simply interview another victim? My gut sense is I should just drop her part of the interview and quietly interview another road rage victim. Your job cannot be easy! -- Jo


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Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: From your leon.html file/interview

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Sherri and I'm writing an article for Traffic Safety Magazine, which is published by the National Safety Counsel. My topic is impaired driving, and I'm focusing on factors that get less attention than DWI. I would like to do a brief phone interview with you to discuss how emotional distress impairs driving. I personally think it's a broader topic than road rage, but I'd like your thoughts on the subject.

You can e-mail me or call me. I will need to reach you by Monday, November 8, to include your interview in my article. -- Sherri

Dear Ms. G:  I'd be happy to give you an interview. Please call at my office number any morning from 8 to 11 a.m. Hawaii time.
DrDriving

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Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: Road Rage Survey

Dear Dr. Driving: What has happened to your road rage survey? I cannot get there via any of the links on the website. I had taken the survey a year ago and now I am in a group in a personality development class and we are doing a project on road rage and we wanted to use that survey to give to the class and also examine the results from your survey for comparison. The personality test is too long for our purposes even though it is probably more directly related to the class.

Is this a temporary problem or are you just removing that survey from the site because you want people to complete the personality survey?

Is there any chance you would be willing to provide us with the road rage survey and your previous findings. Our class is small, only 10 students. The class is SS310 Personality Development at Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University, Ventura CA campus. Our professor is Dr. Liza S. Any assistance would be appreciated. -- Kelley

Dear Kelley : What you want has not been taken off, but is still there, namely: The Survey Blank (questions) that you can copy at: http://DrDriving.org/surveys/surveyblank.html

I hope this helps, and good luck!

DrDriving

Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: Re: Road Rage Survey

Dear Dr. Driving: Thanks for your quick response to my inquiry about the older survey. I was able to get to it via the link you provided in your message, but still had a few problems getting to some of the links, especially the various survey results. Luckily, I am still sure I have more than enough info to work with, your site is much more extensive this year than it was last year!

In any case, I wanted to tell you that since I first took your survey last year, my attention to my driving and aggression while driving has been greatly increased. I really try hard now not to get upset and to try to realize what could possibly be motivating the other person to change lanes without signaling (my personal #1 pet peeve), or to tailgate me in a dangerous fashion. Though it is often very difficult to empathize with them, I at least am doing better at not getting mad and just letting it go. So I just wanted to thank you for that.

It is interesting, though, because I lived in Germany for four years and drove all over Europe (put 75,000 miles on the car) and while there is a great deal of aggressive driving going on there, especially speeding, tailgating, and light flashing in Germany, there is very little actual road rage such as gesturing, yelling, and certainly never any stopping to fight. I wonder why this is? Gesturing is prohibited by law, but that does not stop them from speeding. And, as I'm sure you know, there are speed limits posted on almost all German roadways, including the infamous autobahn. One thing they will never do in Germany is pass on the right. They will tailgate and flash you for miles and miles but will never attempt to pass you on the right. In many ways this is a good thing since passing on the right is a very dangerous thing to do and I only very rarely resort to it. Of course, tailgating is very dangerous as well. Anyway, just something to think about. Thanks for everything. -- Kelley


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Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: road rage reduction web site

Dear Dr. Driving: I have just created a new web site for road rage reduction. Check it out web site: www.roadconnection.com  -- Rossiter


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Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: SELF Magazine Article

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi, I'm writing a very small article for SELF magazine on driving and was hoping to get your permission to use some of your terms and slogans. The driving makeover, and possibly Inner power at the wheel. Your website was a treasure trove of information! Thanks. -- L.

Dear Laura : Thanks for your very kind words! And yes, you have my permission to quote from my site. Please give the site address as DrDriving.org (all that's needed). Also, if you'd like an exclusive for your article, you can call me any morning between 8 and 11 AM Hawaii time. There are also photographs, logo, and cartoons accessible from my site. Let me know if you need assistance. Take care and remind your readers that "The way you drive is contagious".

DrDriving


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Wednesday, November 3, 1999

Subject: Problem Solved! Thanks for Support!

Dear Dr. Driving:

Thanks for your support! The road rage victim in question has been a difficult subject, very emotionally charged. Colleagues recommended I interview someone else. I think this would be best. I have told the woman I interviewed that her story is on hold for now until she gets through the civil lawsuit. I gave her your suggestions to help her move on with her life. I was very kind. I'll check on her from time to time to see how she is doing.

I have networked to get a couple of new referrals to interview. I expect this will be completed by Monday or Tuesday of next week. I'm going to interview several people and bring better balance to the article. This article will be ready for publication. Will keep you informed as promised. -- Jo Goecke
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Thursday, November 4, 1999

Subject: Permission request

Dear Dr. Driving:

I am writing to ask permission to use a few pages from your Dr. Driving site for my class booklet. My students at John Abbott College, Ste. Anne de Bellevue, Quebec will be viewing the film "Packing Heat," which includes a section on Road Rage. Thank you. -- Lois Siegel

Film Director - "Baseball Girls", "Lip Gloss", "Stunt People" http://www.cyberus.ca/~lsiege
 Montreal and Ottawa, Canada


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Thursday, November 4, 1999

Subject: Permission request

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello my name is Karin and I am a sophomore in College. In the English class I am taking we are required to write a paper on a problem in our communities and I have decided to write me paper on road rage. I would like to take some quotes from your articles on this web site. And I got the impression I needed to write and ask, so, I did. Do I have permission? I would really appreciate a reply! Thank You! -- Karin

Dear Ms. Price: Permission is granted. Good luck!

DrDriving
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Thursday, November 4, 1999

Subject: Refferral for AARP Article

Dear Dr. Driving: Sorry for e-mail problem at this end. Thank you for your support and the referral. I'll use him in the AARP article, as well as you, and keep his name in my database for expert opinions.

May I have your permission to take some quotes from the e-mail advice you gave me regarding helping the woman I interviewed, who had run a red light, to move on with her life? I'd like to add some of it to the present article. It could help many people. Take a moment and re-read that e-mail. I asked you for confidential advice and I want to honor that promise.

Got a call from California Automobile Association and the office of the president has "a dynamic road rage" victim for my consideration to interview. I'll try to call on Friday, if not, Monday. It's always sad when an interview compromises my professional ethics. -- Jo Goecke

 

Dear Jo:

But of course you have my permission to quote any or all of it, etc. Did I mention that my agent sent in a proposal to Modern Maturity about a year ago and we've heard nothing about it from them. It was about me as DrDriving summarizing what people ask me and what my advice is. If you do your article for them and plan to talk to Rothe, you might like to check out his book first (The Safety of Elderly Drivers, 1990). I have not met him but he's asked me by e-mail not too long ago to contribute to an edited book he was doing on the future of traffic safety.

About your upcoming interview with the road rager, you might like to read something I wrote about how drivers think and feel, as part of my current ongoing Driver Personality Survey on the Web.

Uncharacteristically for me, it is a brief article, so easier to go through. And the reason it's so brief is that it's only part 1 for several that I need to add.

I'm curious about where in the final analysis, you'll come down on this issue: Road rage is a type of temporary insanity due to stress or extreme provocation vs. Road rage is choosing to throw away decency for the delight of vengeance, then justifying it as having been provoked by the other.

DrDriving


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Thursday, November 4, 1999

Subject: Re: info request

Dear Dr. Driving:

Thank you for the preview. It is very interesting, needless to say, especially about the Ho Chi Ming Trail. There are serious problems with the trucking industry and you have touched on a major sore point but honestly there is quite a deal more and most of it stems from lack of (or none at all) government interaction with the industry. Both the Canadian and USA government have failed dramatically in assisting drivers, carriers and customers from getting a safe trucking industry. The rates we are working on are the same (or even lower) from 1982 rates.

As we know, nothing else has stayed at these rates and needless to say the picture for new drivers is BLEAK and the shortage is growing every day (drivers are finding it more profitable being on welfare than in the drivers seat of a truck). As your article states, drivers are running illegal just to keep up with the "jones" and it isn't working. Another thought is that when the "baby boomer" drivers (age 40 to 50 at present) get ready to retire (in 10 years or less) there will be a HUGE shortage of professional drivers and needless to say, also a HUGE ROAD RAGE situation. People like yourself are one of the few hopes that the trucking industry will get the government (both Canada and the USA) to seriously look at what is happening and hopefully work on changing it (for the better?).

A good example of how ass backwards our government can be, last year when I emailed you I was working on getting a grant from our WCB to create a professional drivers look and prevention video on "Road Rage", I made it through all the gauntlets except for the last one where they required I have support from the provincial trucking association, well I don't because our local association has 230 members in BC and we have 10,081 carriers in BC and I am one who does not see them representing our drivers in the best interest and therefore being turned down for the video grant. I haven't stopped trying and I am still looking for a financial backer so I can do the video but times in trucking are not easy.

 I'm so adamant about trying to help the industry (trucking) I'm working on starting up my own trucking association and also a drug and alcohol consortium so professional drivers will have somebody on their side for help and training. All I can say, please keep up the good work as professional drivers want to get home tonight as well. Thank you. -- M.


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Friday, November 5, 1999

Subject: Aggressive Driving

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a reporter with the Baltimore Sun and I am writing a story on aggressive driving. I am interested in speaking with you about the problem and how driver's can change their attitudes. I would also like to know where I can go to get more information. Howard County Police Sgt. A.J. Bellido De Luna referred me to you.

So far, I have crunched a lot of accident data and found that there hasn't been an increase in aggressive driving related accidents. But some experts I've spoken with say that it's about to balloon as more drivers hit increasingly congested roadways.

Thanks for your time. I'd love to talk. -- D., Sun Staff Writer


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Friday, November 5, 1999

Subject: Re: Threestep

Dear Dr. Driving: I put your link on the driving article of doctororganic.com . Can you provide me with a reciprocal link? If so, I have provided you with an image. Take care. -- Matthew
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Saturday, November 6, 1999

Subject: Road Rage and Aggressive Driving Book

Dear Dr. Driving: I would like to be informed of the publication of your book. -- Dave
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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: Teenage driving

Dear Dr. Driving: I was wondering if you had any stats or info that could help me in a paper. I'm writing on why driving at age 16 might be more beneficial than at age 18. I was trying to find something on either having more experience or anything along those lines. So if you could help me out, I'd appreciate it. -- EEGPBD

Dear EEGPBD: Go back to my site at http://DrDriving.org and scroll down to the Pico Search Engine and type in three words:

teen teenaged graduated

and you'll get a bunch of files to click on.


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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: Your website

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello, my name is Marcia and I'm in the field of Traffic Safety. I am quite new to the Internet and would like to know if it is o.k. to print some of the material you have online, and whether or not there is a charge for doing so. I have only scratched the surface to all the information given at your site. I find it interesting and am sure I could spend hours reading different things. Please let me know what I can & cannot do. If you have other materials like videos or workbooks, I might be interested in purchasing some. Do you have a catalog?

Thank you for having such an informative site and I look forward to hearing back from you. goodbye for now. -- M.
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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: MIT cars and drivers

From: http://www.media.mit.edu/cc++/

CC++: The MIT Media Laboratory's Car Research Group The digital revolution is reconfiguring almost every aspect of our everyday lives. So why not our automobiles? Imagine a day in the not-too-distant future when your car can respond to your habits and intentions, or even sense the actions of other cars; when it will not only have its own personality and attitude, but also variable colors for its many moods.

Since its founding in 1985, the MIT Media Laboratory has developed a reputation for "inventing the future," working closely with the newspapers, television, and computer industries to change business, education, entertainment, and daily life in a newly emerging digital society. Notions that were held to be at the lunatic fringe of computer science 15 years ago--such as multimedia computing and interface agents Pare now at the centers of their respective industries. The Media Lab's track record has been conspicuous and controversial, but usually right on target.

Today, we're continuing to look for ideas that are as outrageous in 1998 as "a personal computer in every home" was in 1980. This has led us to the embedding of computation in everyday household objects, and the implications of high-bandwidth interconnectivity for ordinary, daily activities.

Now the Media Lab's attention is turning toward the implications of digital technologies for the automotive industry: we are looking at ways that the digital revolution can "reinvent" the car as we know it. This includes understanding the changing demands of driving itself, and exploring creative opportunities for greater human interface. CC++ will also focus on the potential benefits of applying design methods and tools from media technology and medical research to auto manufacturing. We see this as an opportunity to fully redefine the future of automobiles and our lives with them. Instead of being "commoditized" hardware items, much as computers were until they started to become personalized, we envision a day when our cars will know as much about what we want as we ourselves do, and will take an active part in enhancing our enjoyment and sense of investment in our traveling partners.

The research program, whose members will be limited to companies that manufacture automobiles, will be defined in part by our industrial partners and in part by the skills of our faculty and staff. Four potential research areas are:

Automobiles as Interface: Exploring verbal and non-verbal communications between the driver and the automobile. Creating autos that learn about their owners, enhancing and directing awareness, sensing intent, and using new display technologies to communicate. Cars with Connections: Cars talking amongst themselves modulating traffic patterns, transient networks, and passing messages to one another along the roadway.

Design and Features: Experimenting with pioneering designer interfaces such as interactive holography and responsive paint.

Attitudes and Automobiles: Using cars to think about ourselves--and our relationship to our cars and our communities of drivers--in new ways. (Is it okay to have fun again?)

CC++ held its first meeting in July 1998. Leaders of the automotive industry from around the world were invited to hear about the Media Laboratory's vision for this newest research group, and about the ideas that will move it forward. CC++ began in January 1999. This fee also includes participation in one of the Media Lab's three major research consortia: Things That Think, Digital Life or News in the Future.
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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: Permission. This publication is distributed by the AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety in the interest of information exchange. The opinions, findings, and conclusions expressed in this publication are those of the authors and not necessarily those of the Foundation

Dear Dr. Driving: Please accept this written request to refer to an adapted version of your road rage outline. I am presenting a 20 minute talk on road rage to my class of 12 nursing students as a community health issue project. I found you website very useful in organizing the objectives I wish to convey. The items I wish to utilize will be appropriately referenced as plagiarism is not tolerated. -- M. RN


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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: Globe Online Recommendation

Dear Dr. Driving: Here's an article recommended to you by D. D'Alessandro from The Boston Globe Online http://www.boston.com/globe  

I recently reviewed your web site with my school bus drivers and we now drive with aloha style...Just thought this article would interest you. My bus co. is in N.H. and only 1 hour from the mentioned location!!! If you would like to get more involved with training school bus drivers, send me an e-mail. All your info on the web really interests my drivers. -- Deb

The following story appeared in The Globe Online:

Date: 11/08/99

Headline: Suspect says his car is firebombed

Story Intro:

LONDENDERRY, N.H. - A man charged with trying to kill another driver by ramming her car last week says he has since received threatening calls and his car has been firebombed. Yesterday, his house was damaged in a two-alarm fire.

Dear Deb: Thank you. I'd like more of your ideas on what is relevant. Perhaps I can post a special Page called DrDriving's School Bus Site. Let me know your ideas and suggestions!

DrDriving
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Monday, November 8, 1999

Subject: use of text for class

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi! I wish to use this workbook for class and for my research paper in my criminal justice class. I am also using your articles on road rage because they are great. If you have any concerns please email me. This workbook will be a great help in my presentation in class if don't mind. -- vsptrooper2b

Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Dear vsptrooper2b: You're welcome to use the materials for your studies. Maybe you can write later to tell me how you did. If you send me a copy of your essay or report, or portions thereof, I'd be glad to post it on my site where I place visitors' contributions.

DrDriving
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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: black box in cars

From Wired at http://www.wired.com/news/news/story/20010.html  

GM Watches You Drive, by Lindsey Arent

12:30 p.m. 3.Jun.99.PDT

An in-car surveillance system presently running inside many General Motors vehicles is a significant erosion of personal privacy, critics and consumer advocates said Thursday. "The biggest problem is that it appears that these devices were installed without the consumer's consent," said Barry Steinhardt, associate director of the American Civil Liberties Union.

"Clearly, the information will quickly get out of the control of the auto owner," Steinhardt said. "This may be as troublesome for what it portends for the future as what it can do now."

GM said its Sensing and Diagnostic Module (SDM) -- currently installed in hundreds of thousands of cars -- is only used for aggregate crash research, and poses no threat to consumer privacy.

Still, watchdogs are concerned that the latest SDM collects a little too much data for comfort.

The unit records and processes the last five seconds of vehicular data before a collision. The box determines the force of a collision, the speed at which the car was traveling, whether the brakes were applied, and how the airbag fared. The unit also tracks engine speed, the angle of the steering wheel, whether or not the seatbelt was worn, and the position of the accelerator pedal.

Presently, it is unclear exactly who will have access to the data collected and what the information will be used for.

The New York Times reported about the device -- and the value of the data culled -- on Saturday, but the device is nothing new.

Since 1974, GM cars equipped with airbags have collected crash data. The SDM is simply a superior version of those earlier diagnostic models, said Bob Lange, a GM engineering director.

"Our view is that the information recorded is the property of the vehicle owner, and we obviously won't collect data without an owner's permission," Lange said.

"When we collect [information] and use it for research data, no one will be able to identify a person or vehicle as being the source of an event. We will honor the privacy concerns that people might have."

With the help of a Santa Barbara firm, Vetronix, GM will develop software and a cable that will unlock the secrets of the box. For a few hundred dollars, consumers will be able to pull the SDM data into a laptop computer.

Steinhardt said that the data will inevitably end up in the hands of police. Further, it could end up being subpoenaed in a lawsuit.

Crash-analysis experts also questioned the box's reliability.

"An inexperienced person might not be able to interpret the data properly," said James Stratton, senior crash investigator at the William Lehman Injury Research Center at the University of Miami.

Stratton said that some SDMs produce a series of figures, or a code that might be meaningless without the proper documentation and training. But, he added, the SDM data is far more reliable than that turned up through a typical crash reconstruction.

With humans, he said, "there's more room for error."

Despite the fears of privacy activists, safety industry experts say the box is a giant step forward in vehicle safety and accident investigation.

"Current methods are clearly not as accurate as we'd like them to be. This could give us better information about how effective restraint systems are," said Adrian Lund, of the Insurance Institute for Highway Safety, a crash research group funded by insurance agencies.

But regulatory questions linger as well.

"Can or should owners be given the option of having the black box installed in their motor vehicles?" asked Lawrence Friedman, chairman of the motor vehicle liability division of the Association of Trial Lawyers of America.

"Are we going to have a state or national law on the books that's going to require the manufacturer to install it, like in aircraft?"

University of California law school professor Eugene Volokh said that data from the system would probably be admissible in court. "A reliable program that gives reliable conversion of the data -- that's like bringing in the eyewitness," he said.

That's exactly what makes the unit so menacing, Steinhardt said.

"Its entirely likely that...legislation will begin to require the installation of various tracking devices on the grounds that cars are a dangerous instrumentality," he said.

Sensing this apprehension, insurance companies aren't exactly gushing over the boxes.

"People may feel they have the right to privacy in their own vehicle," said Donald Griffin, spokesman for the National Association of Independent Insurers, which represents over 600 insurance carriers.

"[The SDM] could reduce fraud -- but it could also cause more lawsuits against insurance companies for using the information."

GM's Lange said he is not concerned that the box might turn consumers off, and that the company's research reveals that car buyers aren't particularly concerned.

But Steinhardt remains skeptical.

"The loss of personal civil liberties always begins with the best intentions of our government."

Declan McCullugh contributed to this story.
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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: men vs. women

Dear Dr. Driving:

Do you have any info on statistics about accidents involving men and women? ( who cause more accidents.) -- D. Peterson

Dear D.: Please try this file where I put whatever information I find about gender differences.  Please write back if you find more. Thanks.

DrDriving
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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: question 1

Dear Dr. Driving: I would say the answer would be just keep going. unless you would be blocking the yellow car. Stopping and waiting could cause a traffic jam and would piss people off. -- D.


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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: The statistics on your road rage web page

Dear Dr. Driving:

With all due respect, I feel that your survey is very bogus on your road rage web page. Very, very bogus, and conducted very unscientifically. How should it be conducted? I don't know. But the findings regarding the highest/lowest road rage states is highly ridiculous. I am not ridiculing you; I am merely pointing out, in a friendly way, no offense intended, that the "findings that were printed are wrong. New York unaggressive??????? What a laugh. You have obviously never been to the New York Metropolitan area. I guess that you are talking about uspstate New York. But the biggest concentration of people are in the New York Metropolitan area (such as New York City, Long Island, Westchester County, and part of New Jersey.

The drivers here on Long Island are UNBELIEVABLE. You are afraid to go out on the road. No matter how fast you drive, it is not fast enough for the guy/gal in back of you. Tailgating at high speeds. So close to your back bumper, it scares you to death. These people are ruthless animals when they get behind the wheel of a car. Totally selfish. People behind you on exit ramps pull onto the road in front of you, while you are trying to look to see if there is oncoming traffic. It doesn't matter if it is a man or a woman behind the wheel of the car; these people are SCARY. -- G.

Dear Mr. G: Thank you for your comments. I realize that there are large differences in local driving norms so that motorists behave differently in different parts of the same city, let alone state. Also, these results are not representative of the overall pattern, given that it's not a random sample but self-selected. Still, would you say that the experiences you've had can describe accurately the overall state of NY? So we need to take "average" statistics carefully, as you said.
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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: The Road Warrior

Dear Dr. Driving: Remember me? I e-mailed you about six months ago when I saw your remarks about "the daemon of road rage must be tamed." I said that it cannot be tamed; it must be evicted. This has not changed since the beginning of time.

I know who the real enemy is. And I did more than take my turns a little too fast.

I appreciate your website regardless of our foundations. And I have forged a new weapon in the battle against evil plans, strategies and tactics. It is not psychology that wins against these demons--whether they can be seen or not; it is spiritual power that wins. This is the crucial point that I make in my new book, Confessions of a Reformed Road Warrior. Look for it in the future on retail bookshelves. Until then, if you are interested, you can obtain a copy through my company, A Class Act. E-mail me for more details. And I would like a copy of your book.

No matter, we are on the same team. I am retired permanently against the unacceptability of aggressive driving leading to road rage. I thank you in your continued psychological resistance against the enemy. Until later. -- M.D. McGinley
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Tuesday, November 9, 1999

Subject: Copyright

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Dave. I am a 35-year veteran truck driver and occasionally give safety talks at my local library to young and middle aged persons, and to any one that will listen. I have found your website to be extremely helpful with information that could help me in this endeavor. What is involved with using excerpts (copyright) form your works. These are strictly free of charge presentations that I do because of my strong feeling's to get the word out about "road rage" and driver education in general. -- Dave


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Wednesday, November 10, 1999

Subject: Senior Citizens and licenses

Dear Dr. Driving: Can you please e-mail me anything you have on Senior Citizen license retakes? I am doing a project for school and I really can find anything on the subject? Or can you tell me your opinion on this subject? Are you for it or against it and why? -- Joe

Dear Joe: Try this page first to see if you can find what you want here.


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Wednesday, November 10, 1999

Subject: Road Rage and the School Bus Driver

Dear Dr. Driving: Great to hear from you...Do you travel to seminars? Are you willing to have someone else present your materials?

The NH School Transportation Association is always looking for speakers. I am a board member and would love to have your material presented to all interested drivers, managers, instructors in the school bus industry.

I am a certified NH school bus instructor and feel your positive approach on such a detailed topic could be enjoyed by many.

Let me know if any of the above can be accomplished. Also, visit http://www.nhsta.org  -- Deb

Dear Deb: Thank you for your kind words. Actually I don't travel for speeches this year as I'm doing most of my work online and taking care of daily duties I can't quit on. But in the future maybe.

Take care and let me know your ideas on what I should put on my projected site for School Bus Drivers.
 

DrDriving

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Wednesday, November 10, 1999

Subject: Thank you for the interview

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you for your time today, it was my pleasure. I reviewed our conversation and it looked and sounded good. Some very good sound bites as we like to say in TV. I look forward to working with you further as other projects present themselves. Aloha. -- S.
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Thursday, November 11, 1999

Subject: permission requested

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a senior attending Penn State University. I would like to use some of your information in a presentation on Road Rage in my Social Psychology class. It is an hour long comprehensive study on the cause and effects of road rage correlating with aggression. If you could give me any advise of information to assist me I would be very grateful. -- D.  


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Thursday, November 11, 1999

Subject: Failing to stop at a stop sign

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm a 6th grade student at Rosedale North in Bakersfield, CA. This year my science fair project is called, "Do People Really Stop At Stop Signs". I'm looking for a statistic on accident caused because of people failing to stop at a stop sign. Anything you might have would be great. -- Keith

Sunday, November 14, 1999

Dear Keith: Please go to my site and type in "stop sign" in the Search window there for DrDriving site. You can also do the same on any Web search engine. That will lead you to statistics. But I tried for a few minutes and didn't come up with statistics. Sorry. Now you try!

DrDriving
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Thursday, November 11, 1999

Subject: Road rage project

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm doing a project on road rage and I would like to know if it is a controversial issue. If it is will you please tell me how it is. Help would be appreciated. -- Travis

Sunday, November 14, 1999

Dear Travis: Start reading this file. It will lead you to what you're looking for: http://DrDriving.org/articles/book_toc.htm  

DrDriving
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Thursday, November 11, 1999

Subject: Road rage info

Dear Dr. Driving: I am doing a project on aggressive road rage and wondered if you had any information you could share for my part of it. -- fivfut02

Dear fivfut02: Please try this article that will help you: http://DrDriving.org/articles/book_toc.htm  


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Friday, November 12, 1999

Subject: Dr. Driving Website

Dear Dr. Driving: Wonderful! That is the only word I can think of to describe what a magnificent site you and Dr. Nahl have put together. I don't think that I have ever seen a site so chocked full of information dealing with a specific topic.

I happened to visit your site in an effort to research the topic of Road Rage. Unfortunately, I am not researching for myself. You see, I fell into that pit of anger and frustration which can drive one to un-characteristic behavior. To make a long story short, I took the leap from mild mannered to 'Epic Rage' in a matter of moments. As a result the court here in Ontario, thought that instead of throwing someone who has never been in trouble with the law before into prison, that a nice little research paper and sharing my experience with others might be a more suitable way of making retribution.

In closing Dr. James, I don't know if I will actually be able to spend the hours that I'm sure it would take to view all the information on your site, but I was wondering if some of your statistics in my report. I only ask because from a Canadian standpoint, there has been a lot less documented on the subject that in the U.S. -- J.

 

Dear Mr. W: Thank you so much for your very kind words about my site!

I'm so glad you wrote to tell me about the Court's alternative sentencing for your road rage outbreak, namely to do some research on the topic and to write it up as a paper and to present it publicly to others. First, I want to congratulate that judge for being flexible in a positive way and to have the foresight to recognize that mandating the offender to do a research paper for public presentation, would be superior to negative forms of punishment in this case.

I think Ontario law enforcement has been very keen on the education part that should go along with the enforcement part, and your case is another piece of evidence that shows it. See their Web site.

Second, I think it's a wonderful opportunity for you that was presented, and already from your first message I can tell that you've changed your driving philosophy, and now you're ready to implement your new philosophy by committing yourself to a Lifelong Driver Self-Improvement Program. I suggest that you can impress the judge, and also serve as a good role model for others, if you include in your report, a description of your plan to pursue this Lifelong Driver Self-Improvement Program. May I suggest you consult the technique that my students have used for making their own Driving Personality Makeover Projects. Please go to this Web Page.

Third, I hope you'll feel free to e-mail me as you work on your paper and plan. I can publish it on my site, if you give me permission and can e-mail it to me. I can learn a lot from your situation and solutions, and I have not yet been presented with this type of Court alternative--but I think it's an exciting possibility, and I'd like to introduce the idea to other places. If you don't mind, when you write back, you can sketch in the details for me. My head is busy with all sorts of questions like:

Is this done somewhere else?
Why did this judge think about it?
How can we make this a standard alternative that other judges could follow?
What would be the Instructions we should make up for the individual:

Should it include what you're doing?
Should it include more specific activities to be done?
How can the work be verified by competent authorities--should some third person be designated to supervise?

Could this supervision be done online, so any Court anywhere can assign this alternative?
See what I mean, Mr. W? You've got me busy. Thanks ever so much for writing and opening up a new dimension of application for my work! May God bless you in your effort at becoming a supportive driver. It happened to me. Years ago I had to give up being a Rushing Maniac, and I had to humble myself and let my wife coach me for years, and tone me down. I'm still struggling, but I've learned all sorts of techniques in the process--which is why I'm DrDriving today!

One final thing: Maybe you'll have the honor in history of creating the first QDC ever. Quality Driving Circles. I've been promoting it on my Web site as the only real answer to road rage and aggressive driving. But no one is listening. Such QDCs would be perfect for Court mandated alternative sentencing activities. The Page is here.

And, yes, Mr. Wilson, you can make use all the stats you see on my page for your research paper. You'll be interested in the Table comparing Canada and the US, and the Provinces in these Tables.  
 

DrDriving

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Sunday, November 14, 1999

Subject: Road rage research paper - help needed

Dear Dr. Driving: We are doing a research paper on aggressive women drivers. We are Seniors attending Irondale High School in Minnesota. Your web sites have been very helpful to us and we would like a chance to ask you some further questions. If you would allow us to call you and interview you for our paper we would appreciate it greatly. Our resources are low and hard to come by and any of your advice on road rage (specifically women drivers) would help!

If you could return us with an e-mail with your phone number and an appropriate time to call within the week of Nov. 15- Nov. 19 to interview you we would jump at the chance to talk to you! Or, if you would prefer to do an interview via internet or any other suggestions we would love to hear from you! -- C

Dear Ms. C: How about this: you e-mail me your numbered questions, say up to 5, and I will paste answers from my articles on the site. You can then edit them to make them shorter. How would that be? It's equivalent to an interview, maybe better, because a phone interview is hard to keep notes on in an accurate way.
 

DrDriving

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Sunday, November 14, 1999

Subject: Permission to use

Dear Dr. Driving: I am currently enrolled in the University of Phoenix online and would like your permission to cite some of the information on your Web site in a Cause and Effect Essay I am writing for my current Communications 101 class. I would also like to include your URL within my essay and within my references. Please let me know as soon as possible if this is permissible. Thank you for your time and your informative Web site. -- C.
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Sunday, November 14, 1999

Subject: Trucking web site

Dear Dr. Driving: I received your web site on Trucking Safety and deleted it inadvertently. I tried to access it and it would not let me in. I have also tried to access Music and Driving and can not gain access to that page either. Can you help in any way?

Subject: Trucking Web Site

Dear Dave: The trucking page is at: http://DrDriving.org/professionals/  

DrDriving
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Sunday, November 14, 1999

Subject: men vs. women and insurance rates

Dear Dr. Driving: Do men or women speed more, and does that affect insurance rates? If so, please tell me what the going rates are. -- Noah
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Monday, November 15, 1999

Subject: Road Rage in people whose jobs require driving

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a graduate student yet I have to work. I am a visiting nurse and thought about doing research on the nurses who are out in the community looking for patients' homes to do home health nursing in their homes. Sometimes I find it amazing that people can't give directions to their homes. In driving slow and calling from my cell phone, I eventually get there, yet people in those areas are honking the car horns at you, throwing their hands up in the air, yelling. I notice your work is geared toward the general public and not persons who use their cars to work out of. Do you think this is a good topic for a research paper? -- LB

Dear LB: Yes, great research topic--giving directions skills. My wife is better at it than me. I think it must relate to navigation skills (men drivers make mistakes instead of asking for directions). Please send me the results of your research so I can post it on my site. Good luck and write back if you want reactions from me. Thanks!

DrDriving

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Monday, November 15, 1999

Subject: Driving questionnaires

Dear Dr. Driving: I'll be quite honest with you. I need some help if at all possible. I am a student at Davenport college and for my exam I have to "teach the class" for thirty minutes on road rage along with the other members of my group. Unfortunately I am a procrastinator when it comes to work and I have to have as much research to present to my group by 11/16/99. I am requesting a copy of a questionnaire to possibly use as an exercise in class that "my students" could do and then discuss. Please help me any way that you can as fast as you can. I'm desperate!!! -- Kay


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Monday, November 15, 1999

Subject: need an address

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Lisa and I am doing an art project on road rage. I am a student at The Metropolitan State Collage of Denver. For this project I have to write two letters concerning the subject that I choose and I am looking for people to send the letters to. -- Lisa
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Monday, November 15, 1999

Subject: Question concerning Truck drivers?

Dear Dr. Driving: I know that California is the # 1 worse state for truck drivers, do you know the 2nd worst state for truck drivers? Thank you. -- Sara Tanaka


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Tuesday, November 16, 1999

Subject: speech on road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm giving a speech on road rage can you e-mail me info. Thank You. -- w


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Tuesday, November 16, 1999

Subject: road rage speech

Dear Sandra: Permission granted--and good luck! Thanks for your interest in our materials!

DrDriving
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Tuesday, November 16, 1999

Subject: old age drivers

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi! I am giving a persuasive speech on people at the age of 65 should retake their drivers test. Can you give or have any facts on what percent, statistics of accidents are caused be old drivers. Or anything on that line of information of that sort of old people causing car accidents? -- Kessler


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Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: DrDriving's Trucking Safety Page

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello. I'm sure I am becoming a pest and if so I apologize. I attempted to bring up the "driving connected.com" and received the message that is in the attachment of this e-mail. My wife tried at her place of business, and I went personally to my ISP office and they could not bring it up either. I tried my security setting to low settings and that did not work either. Could you mail me this report and I will be more than happy to pay for you time, materials, and postage. Let me know what the charges are. I was able to get the "How Music Affects Drivers" by going through the back door sort of speaking. -- D.

Dear Mr. C:

An alternate address to get there is this: http://DrDriving.org/professionals/  

It would be hard to send the page to you by e-mail since you would lose the formatting and the links and the pictures. But now it's almost impossible not to get there with the four addresses I give you above. By the way, I never type addresses because that introduces errors (like the extra space). Instead I try to select the address, give the copy command, then paste it into the address window. This always works better.

DrDriving

Subject: reply to my connecting to the web sights you sent to me

Dear Dr. Driving: Good try, but still no luck. I guess I will have to live the rest of my life not knowing what is there. If this is the worst that happens to me from now till I dye I am in great shape. thanks for trying to help. I will stay in touch and let you know how the rest turns out. -- D.


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Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: remember me?

Dear Mr. P: In early October we had an exchange after you indicated you'd like to do supportive activities (see message below). How are you doing?

Thanks for writing. Yes, it would be great if you were the first to actually try out a Quality Driving Circle in your neighborhood. It would give me a chance to hear from you what kind of materials I need to prepare. I'd be glad to help you do this. I suggest you first read about QDCs on my site. Try this as an entry point: http://DrDriving.org/articles/qdc.htm  

See if the material there can be printed out and used by group members. Be sure to read some of my student report links on that page. Then please write back with your ideas and we'll take it from there. Thanks very much!

DrDriving
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Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: speech

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Nathan and I go to Northern Virginia Community College. I am doing a speech on road rage in the DC Metropolitan area. I would definitely like to use some information I got off your web address. Any other information you have would be a tremendous help. Thank you for your cooperation. If there is anything you need please e-mail me back. -- Nathan

Dear Nathan: Permission granted for your request below, and good luck with your speech!

DrDriving
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Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: Aggressive Driving

Dear Dr. Driving:

My name is Michael. I put together the Congressional hearing on the subject of aggressive driving in 1997 at which you testified via videoconference. Currently I am taking classes at Cornell University and am preparing a research paper detailing the links between the public's interest in aggressive driving and the roles that Congressional and media attention played. If you have any information or data or insights that could be helpful I would greatly appreciate it. I hope all is well in Hawaii and thank you for your time. -- Michael

Dear Michael:

Hello, nice hearing from you again! All is well in Hawaii. Lots has happened since we last communicated, as the topic has matured. I've become a noted authority on the subject. If you check my Media Interview Page you'll see I'm listing over 1000 entries since then--national and local press, radio stations across the country and abroad, etc. My site delivers thousands of Pages a week to visitors and I'm consulting with agencies and law enforcement.

I'm mentioning all these details because in a very real sense my DrDriving persona has been a significant part of this media blitz on the topic. Why was I so successful?

Partly because I was the man of the hour at the right time in the right place--and you had something to do with by discovering me on the Web before others! But this is not a sufficient explanation. You have to include my message, or content, or rhetoric--which is unique. More than 1000 reporters have talked to me. At first they're un-enthused: they've been assigned a story to write, often due to some high profile incident in the area. They don't know much about the issues. But when they finish the interview, they are enthused and express gratitude. I am able to activate the rhetoric of aggressive driving in their mind so they can be inspired to write from their own understanding of what I explained.

So I think this is a partial explanation of the media effect on the development of the aggressive driving issue in our society: namely, the availability of a rhetoric from which reporters and readers can bring this topic to the fore in their awareness.

The most important aspect of this rhetoric is my special orientation of helping people to view aggressive driving and road rage as a culturally transmitted and maintained normative activity by which we give ourselves permission to express hostility under given conditions of felt provocation. The full rhetoric of my approach can be seen (a) by exploring my articles and materials on the DrDriving.org site and (b) by exploring how the reporters have written about it after my interviews with them (many of these can still be viewed on the Web--see my Media Interview page at: http://DrDriving.org/about/interviews4.htm  

I'd be delighted to consult with you on your project as you evolve your concept and data. My book ROAD RAGE AND AGGRESSIVE DRIVING is being published by Prometheus Books (Amherst, NY) in September 2000. My RoadRageous video course is now available and has been adopted by Driving Schools and several law enforcement departments. Legislation has been passed on aggressive driving laws in 16 states so far. This is the other part--besides media--that drives the topic: government and law enforcement.

Then a third part is driven by citizen activism (CASAD, Speedtrap Registry, DUD, etc.). These forces or trends are reviewed in my book which will be the first major work integrating and focusing the topic--thus creating a new category in Current Events (Yahoo has got it there, listing the Congressional Hearings, and my site under Road Rage).

Aloha,

Leon James
DrDriving

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Google
 

Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: Aggression

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a psych student at the University of Mo. at KC and I would like to know how you would interpret a more nature oriented view of road rage. My paper is a sort of nature vs. nurture approach. -- Keith Pattison


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Wednesday, November 17, 1999

Subject: Charming Alabama Story

Dear Dr. Driving: This one makes me wonder about folks living in Alabama; not so much the perpetrator and victim, but the comments attributed to the radio call-in show listeners.

The local Birmingham paper seemingly doesn't have much interest in this story; they reported on it, and I couldn't find a single editorial or letter on their website about the killing.

http://www.postherald.com/papers.shtml  


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Thursday, November 18, 1999

Subject: Our research paper!

Dear Dr. Driving: Sorry about not returning your Email quickly. I haven't quite mastered the computer yet and misplaced your response! But we thank you so much for returning a Email to us! We narrowed down our thousands of questions to just seven that we would feel would most benefit our paper! So if you could answer and return them at your convenience that would be great!

Our topic: Why are women becoming more aggressive behind the wheel?

Do you feel that women are becoming more aggressive behind the wheel? If so, why?
Do you feel that there is a certain personality characteristic (or other reason) that might make a female driver more aggressive than another driver (male or female)?
What do you think are the stereotypes or false notions about female drivers?
How has society played a role in the aggression of women drivers?
Do you think that aggressive female drivers are thought of differently than aggressive male drivers?
Why do you feel that people rate themselves as being better drivers than other motorists on the road?
Do you think that measures taken to curb road rage should be identical for males and females?
Thank you! -- A. and S.

Dear Ms. C and Ms. A:

It's a cultural norm we pick up as children while riding in cars and watching TV. Women have more freedom now, hence more freedom to express hostile norms in the way men do.
The same psychological issues are involved, namely, a driver feeling entitled to driving in a certain way and anyone in the way is annoying. Intolerance behind the wheel is a norm a woman learns, even as she shows tolerance in another area.

This is as much up to you as to me. I no longer have stereotypes about drivers since I've been studying them in detail for years.

Yes, More tolerance of society for women acting aggressively like men (military combat, boxing, wrestling).

Well, you can answer that as well as I can. I do not have data on this beyond the stereotyped thing above.
Most drivers place themselves on the top. This is their reputation of themselves. But when they start self-witnessing activities (observing and monitoring yourself while driving), and keep track with notes, they find out they drive with more mistakes than they thought.

Yes. Separating the genders is not politically feasible without discrimination.
You're welcome. Send me your report if possible!

DrDriving
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Thursday, November 18, 1999

Subject: web page

Dear Dr. Driving:

My personal thoughts on road rage are as follows.

RR is a media invention. Fatal accidents and assaults are on a decline and have been for several years. Don't believe the hype.

People in Canada have been getting out of their cars and telling each other off for at least 40 years. Sometimes even coming to blows. Seldom does anyone ever get hurt. In America these same interactions lead to shootings. This is because in Canada we lock up the criminals and in America you don't. Recent increases in serious altercations on Canadian highways can be directly traced to the decline in the Canadian criminal justice system.

When I drive a huge ugly old car ('78 Olds) and wear my baseball hat backward nobody ever tailgates me or cuts me off. I noticed the same effect in New York City in a ratty, horrible old pickup truck. Even the cabs stayed away from me. I call this the Kamikaze Effect. If you drive something so crappy that you clearly don't care what happens to it, the stupid suburban housewives, snowbirds and business geeks will not crowd you for fear you might ding their sheet metal. Old flat bed delivery trucks are my personal favorite street weapon. NOBODY *** with them.

When faced with an actual nut, who is clearly trying to hurt you, whip in behind them and stay there. This is the superior tactical position, and gives you all the advantages. You can pull over, turn off quickly, ram 'em, or just grind the bastard up against the guard rail, as it suits you. I find a couple of meetings with the guard rail will take the fight out of most SUV drivers and cabbies.

In Arizona I rarely have problems with people deliberately cutting me off and hitting the brakes. In New York it happened almost weekly. I attribute this to the fact that in Arizona people commonly go armed, and in NY they do not. An armed society is a polite society.

Never let them smell your fear. When merging, changing lanes or slowing for a turn, one must move inexorably like the juggernaut. Let that 2.5 tons of Detroit steel do it's job. People will see that you would like to crush them and will stay out of your way. If they think you are afraid of them, they will shut the gate on you instantly. So check traffic, put on the turn signal, and move into that space like a truckload of wet cement.
When in doubt, use force. Very few traffic situations cannot be resolved with a judicious application of the gas pedal, the front bumper, and a willingness to use the sidewalk.

Driving is combat, and you are alone in enemy territory. Remember that and you will make it home ok. -- The Phantom


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Thursday, November 18, 1999

Subject: Aloha philosophy

Dear Dr. Driving: Good evening. I'm from Israel and at my M.A degree I dealt with road rage. I am very excited from your idea of Aloha driving spirit and I will be very pleased to get more information in order to apply this model at my little town in Israel which is suffering from high level of road rage. Thank you in advance. -- AVNER.

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Thursday, November 18, 1999

Subject: Permission to use cartoons

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Bill and I work for Exxon. We are having a safety program on road rage and I would like to use your cartoons in the posters I am doing to advertise the event. I will give credit to show where the cartoons came from. Is that OK? -- Bill

Dear Bill: Permission granted for your request as long as my Web site address appears on the cartoon poster itself (corner or side). The address should read as follows: "From the Web at DrDriving.org"

Which one is it by the way? Can you send me a copy of the handouts you might have?

DrDriving

Friday, November 19, 1999

Subject: Re: Permission to use cartoons.

Dear Bill:

Thanks for the nice slide, Mr. B! I'm curious about your program--do you have a version I can see? One suggestion: you can use handout with a short test on it. That always goes off well. You can choose items from various tests and make one up of your own. The list is here.

DrDriving
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Thursday, November 18, 1999

Subject: road rage stats

Dear Dr. Driving: Road rage is a horrendous problem. I'm wondering if we can do something about it. -- John
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Friday, November 19, 1999

Subject: Thank You!

Dear Dr. Driving: We just received the responses for the interview and your answers are so helpful. We now have a really great source to look at and are excited to get the actual writing of our paper on the way. Thank you very much for all your help. We will be sure to send you a copy of our paper! Thanks again! -- S. and A.


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Friday, November 19, 1999

Subject: thanks

Dear Dr. Driving: Thanks very much for your kinds words of support for www.bullying.org  Thanks also for the references you have offered. I am in the process of finding these types of resources to be listed on the site. I would be very grateful if you would continue to provide your comments and feedback. It is my hope to have the site active early in the New Year. While the site is primarily intended to be focused on youth, I also would like to include references and issues such as the ones you are dealing with on the road. Thank you again very much for your support and feedback. -- William


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Friday, November 19, 1999

Subject: story

Dear Dr. Driving: I know that many people do well as a result of adversity. I had children to bring them up to have the best life and the best opportunities possible.

I have a very bright sensitive son and I have tried to put him in an environment where he will flourish. I learned from my parents that you have to for the best for your children.

Last year I had 2 children living in a middle class neighborhood going to private schools suited to their abilities.

Now my wife has moved to an inner city working class neighborhood, living in subsidized when, to quote my son, she "is acting poorer the the real poor".

She is starving and neglecting my son - deliberately and depriving him ]of the mental and physical stimulation that he needs. He also is without the affection he needs. I am the nurturing parent for him and I had guarded him from the hostilities of his mother for over 14 months.

Although she has 100 s of thousands of dollars - she is pretending to have no money.

I have spent all the money I have. I have spend all the money that would have paid for private school for the children till university.

Liam was a year younger than the next youngest child in the private school. The staff said that he was "a bit immature" then. Well, he has had to grow up a lot in the last 6 months. He has learned that neither the courts, the police, of Child Protection Agencies will protect him from him mother.

The children have witnessed his mother beating up his father, who never hit back, quite a few times. They have heard he scream at dad and the kids almost daily.

The quotes I like from his mum are: "Why don't you leave? You are only staying because you love the children"

"You will do anything for the children"

"You are only a paycheck"

I stayed in this abusive situation for two years till I was ordered out by the courts.

I have third party affidavits that show she abused a 4 year old child.

When I called 911 when she beat me up. I could not get the police too charge her - although she told the police "I was trying to kick him in the balls". Had a man (even) threatened to hit a female he would have been evicted and charged. In Canada 5000 men are dealt in this way annually.

I believe the problem stems from fact that society cannot accept that women are aggressive.

In the past women were abused and were not listened to. Now the pendulum has swung the other way. If a woman accuses a man of assault, it is assumed that the woman must be telling the truth. This puts enormous power in woman's hands. If means that women can tell lies and be believed. My wife (according to my son) told the housing authority that she was abused and do got subsidized housing immediately, instead of a nine year wait. She also "forgot" to say that she had 100s of thousand of dollars.

My son needs about 2000 cal/day. My daughter needs 800 cal/day. Renee feeds both the same amount of food. This effects my son physically and mentally.

I get to see my children 8 hours a week. Because I had a cash flow I had to represent my self and I discovered that my lawyer had never entered my affidavits into the court record.

My wife claimed that she was the sole parent of the children and that the children would be frightened to be with me. That was completely false, and I have the third party affidavits to confirm it.

My son has run away to me many times - yet no one in authority wants to listen to him. I have to explain to him that the people who are forcing him to live with his mother are not deliberately being cruel, that they are simple naive. My son is learning that society condones child abuse if is it practiced my women. He has also learned that is acceptable for women to beat up men. What will he do as an adult? What should I do to get him heard? Why should a child live in a hostile home where he is routine screamed and hit? What lessons does this teach him? -- C

Dear C: Thanks for writing me your story. It's sad indeed. I think you're doing the best thing when you don't pay her back evil with evil. That's the most important lesson your children can learn from it. Try not to criticize her and pray with them. God always brings good out of apparent evil. Thanks for writing and good luck. Write back later to tell me how things are going!
 

DrDriving

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Friday, November 19, 1999

Subject: your website & material

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi there, my name is Lincoln. I live in Brisbane (Queensland, Australia.) I am a Psychology student at the University of Queensland here in Brisbane.

I just wanted to pay a compliment to you for your website. I think it is fantastic. I recently completed a subject in Associative Learning. a major assignment for this subject involved me selecting and monitoring a behaviour then performing a functional analysis and finally designing a behaviour modification program in an attempt to change the original behaviour.

Over the past little while I had noticed myself becoming more and more of an obnoxious/aggressive road user. this seemed to be manifest by lots of horn honking. this I recognize is not too good (for a lot of reasons) so I thought I would take the assignment and use it to attempt an improvement. I decided to use horn honking as my behaviour as it seems that horn honking has been used extensively in research to suggest aggressive driving. I have been able to significantly reduce my horn honking and am working on some of the other inappropriate driving behaviours I exhibit. (I got a great mark too)

Anyway, I found your website(s) as a result of the research I was doing for the assignment and it was a fantastic help.

So thanks very much for a wonderful resource. I will keep checking back on a regular basis. -- Lincoln.

Dear Lincoln: Thanks! Write back on your future projects: tailgating? rushing? cursing?

DrDriving
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Sunday, November 21, 1999

Subject: Road Rage Information

Dear Dr. Driving: My name is Jim, and I am a student at Hunter College High School in New York City. I am writing a paper for my Introductory Psychology paper about road rage. I would be greatly appreciative if you could forward me some factual information about this condition. Any information would be very helpful. Thank you. -- Jim

Dear Jim: Good luck with your paper. You need to read some of the articles on my site!

DrDriving
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Sunday, November 21, 1999

Subject: Re: failing to stop at a stop sign

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi! Just a quick note to say thanks for your help. My mom and I used a lot of the info from your web site. I turned in my project last week on Tuesday and the were judged on Thursday and I received 1st runner up out of the four sixth grade classes. Thanks again! -- Keith


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Monday, November 22, 1999

Subject: news article for Tuesday's paper

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm doing an article about a new effort on the part of New Jersey officials to encourage motorists to "Drive Friendly," a rather daunting task in the NY-NJ metro area, as you well know.

I wanted to get your perspective, and some comments about Aloha Spirit and the like. I'd love to talk with you if you have ten minutes today. -- Paul


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Monday, November 22, 1999

Subject: Psychology

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello! My name is Johana. I am an eighth grade student studying at Shanghai American School. This school is an international school that attracts students from all over the world with different nationalities. I am Chinese and was born in Paraguay.

In science class, we are doing a project where we have to establish contact and correspond with scientists to discover more about their work. I wonder if you have the time and interest to assist me with this project. I hope of scientists in general and your field in specific. I might even find a suitable science fair project to do.

For this project, you only need to establish contact with me through e-mail, and answer some questions that I have prepared for you. If I wanted to know more about a certain topic, then maybe you con tell me more or give advice, and few documents. Please let me know if you are willing to participate in my project.

Thank you very much for your time and patience. Hope I can have contact with you soon. Best wishes. -- Johana


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Monday, November 22, 1999

Subject: Idea for road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm an older driver and have been thinking a lot about road rage and what might be done to minimize it. I searched "road rage" this evening and found your site. Thanks for collecting the data and completing the statistical analyses. You are dedicated.

I believe that everyone has experienced some type of road rage and you are right in showing that age diminishes road rage. At one time I gestured frequently at aggressive and dumb drivers--until I learned that many people carry guns in their cars. I stopped.

Now my idea. Is it possible to design a WEB site that people could contact and report license plate numbers of people they observe being aggressive on our highways? The license plate numbers could be stored and when, let's say, three or more reports are made on aggressive scofflaw driving, local law enforcement officials would be automatically notified. Unfortunately, the law officials may not be able to do anything unless there is an accident or other incident. But perhaps a warning letter could be sent to the owner of the car reporting when and where the three (or more) incidents occurred.

This may be a little bit too much like "Big Brother is Watching" but I'd love to report some of the aggressive drivers I've seen to someone or something. In fact, a person might drive a little more slowly and defensively knowing that the person behind can report bad behavior.

Think about it. Something has to be done to decrease this problem, a problem that will only continue to grow. -- Tracy

Dear Tracy: Thanks for your kind comments. About your idea: congratulations for thinking about it--but others have already implemented the idea in different ways: call local police (many communities have this) but not much gets done about it--I heard. Then there are Web places you can post the license plate number of the car and what you found offensive. http://www.comnet.ca/~chezken/duds.html  

DrDriving


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Tuesday, November 23, 1999

Subject: road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: I have briefed your page and find your work fascinating. I was hoping you could answer a question for me? Are there any stats on collisions caused by motorists driving below the minimum speed of 40, which seems to be the standard for superhighways? Also, do you believe that road rage could be caused by our sense of freedom, when we are told to do this, we do the opposite. Example: at 70mph and approaching a vehicle doing the minimum speed, who is at fault when the second car causes a pileup from a rear end collision. We have been reminded of the limit of speed for decades, most drivers know the roads not only in their surroundings but, nation wide. Highways are designed for a higher rates of speed than 45, 55, and even 75, do you suppose we are tired of being told how to drive and at what speed?

I'm of the opinion that it is time to change the speed limit to speed maximum on all 4lane highways or larger. I can understand a speed limit inside city limits, but not on the interstate networks. The song by Meatloaf a few years ago, "I can't drive 55," is an example of the state of drivers attitudes. I agree! Give us our freedom to speed and get the dangerous slow pokes off the interstates and on the back roads where they can drive as slow as they want.

I would ask for a response ASAP because I am doing a thesis on road rage and speed limits and your input would be so appreciated and valued. -- Don


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Tuesday, November 23, 1999

Subject: road rage in Alabama

Dear Dr. Driving: There was a case recently in the news and I can't seem to find it on the net can you send it to me if you have it. It was about a woman in Alabama who shot another woman and killed her over road rage. I have a friend who was involved in a recent incident and she needs the article for a charge of assault for her attorney. -- Joanne
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Tuesday, November 23, 1999

Subject: Road Culture

Dear Dr. Driving: I caught your comments on the NBC News. Do you have a web site or other place where I could learn more about your theories? R.


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Tuesday, November 23, 1999

Subject: Thanks for the cards

Dear Dr. Driving: Thanks for all the work you did on the cards, they look great. I don't think anyone else is doing anything like this and I am hoping we get the grant to try it. I sent the package off yesterday (11-23) and they are supposed to review the packets in December. Also I spoke with AIPS and they were kind enough to send me the video tape and student handbook as well as instructors manual for the course. It looks like a very good course, but I think there will need to be a lot of discussion in between the segments to give a law enforcement slant to the course. Otherwise the officers attending will take it as a Drivers Ed course and not give it their full attention.

If we do not get the grant I still plan to lobby the people with the bank accounts ($$$$) to put this together next spring. I think that with your help and the TEE cards as well as the video course we can make a positive influence here regarding aggressive driving.

In reference to the legislative packages I tend to agree with your classifications on the weak language. It seems that in those that have weak language the wording is very vague (example: reckless driving). But in the same sense most of the strong wording seems to duplicate language in the penal code system. I'm not sure about most of the other states but pointing a firearm or look alike at anyone is a criminal offense already, just as DWI. I agree driving over 30 MPH is definitely aggressive, but in most cases aggressive driving occurs at much slower speeds (speeding in a 50 MPH zone means aggressive is at 80 or more). Specific language using existing laws, following too closely, speeding, unsafe lane changes are signs of aggressive driving and getting cited for these offenses in a certain time period or in combination would be good. Requiring education courses such as "RoadRageous" would also go a long way to improvement as well as license suspensions and graduated licensing. The more serious offenses could be dealt with through penal charges such as Aggravated Assault, DWI, Reckless Conduct (pointing a gun) and so on.

A major stumbling block always seems to be the judicial system. We can enforce all the laws on the books but if the courts do not back us up then law enforcement is just a paper tiger. There is no doubt that stiff prison sentences had a major effect on crime around the country and the same needs to be done with aggressive driving. Unfortunately, most aggressive drivers do not fit the criminal "profile" the public sees with murders, burglars and robbers. Public perception must also be changed so we can get tough on all aggressive drivers and they should expect harsh punishment in the court system for repeated violations.

Anyway just some thoughts, I will keep you posted on the progress of the grant and our efforts here in San Antonio. Adios...(Spanish for goodbye) for now. -- Tom
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Tuesday, November 23, 1999

Subject: re: Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving: My best friend was murdered by another driver on 11-8-99. I just feel that I should share this story with anyone who will listen. I copied & pasted this article that I found tonight on the Internet, so it would be easier for me to explain. I've lost the only person who I think knew me better than anyone else. Here is her story incase you are interested. Thank you for listening. -- Crystal

Yahoo! News Top Stories Headlines

Wednesday, November 10 3:14 AM ET

Road Rage Hits Placid Ala. Suburb

By JAY REEVES Associated Press Writer

ALABASTER, Ala. (AP) - It started with the two drivers jockeying for position during the maddening rush-hour commute.

Witnesses said Gena Foster had cut off Shirley Henson on Interstate 65, and the two then tailgated each other for miles, alternately getting ahead and slamming on the brakes, police said.

It didn't end when their cars came to a stop in traffic on an exit ramp, as Mrs. Foster got out and walked to Mrs. Henson's window. Seconds later, Mrs. Foster lay dying from a gunshot in the head.

Police blamed ``road rage'' and on Tuesday charged Mrs. Henson, 40, with murder. She was freed on $50,000 bond.

The women did not know each other, and neither had a criminal record, police said.

Mrs. Henson sat in her sport-utility vehicle, crying. A .38-caliber pistol sat on the passenger seat, right beside her briefcase. "Oh my God, I shot her! She's dying,''' a witness, Lisa Adney, quoted Mrs. Henson as saying over and over.

The 25-mile drive from downtown Birmingham to the exit can take up to 90 minutes. On Monday evening, witness Jim Hardy told The Birmingham News, Mrs. Foster, driving a black Pontiac Grand Prix, cut in front of Mrs. Henson's Toyota 4-Runner.

"One cut the other one off, and then they started tailgating each other and slamming on their brakes,'' said prosecutor Randy Hillman.

Both got off at what police said was their normal exit. Stopped on the ramp, Mrs. Foster got out of her car and ran toward the Toyota, which was stopped several feet behind her Pontiac.

Mrs. Adney pulled up right after the shooting and checked for a pulse on Mrs. Foster, sprawled beside the Toyota's driver-side door. Mrs. Henson was still seated in her vehicle, the window rolled down halfway.

"She said, 'She came at me and I shot her,'" said Mrs. Adney, who held Mrs. Henson's hand as the woman tearfully dialed 911 on her cellular phone. "Obviously from where the girl was lying she was right in the lady's face."

The prosecutor said Mrs. Henson had plenty of options other than opening fire, including pulling around Mrs. Foster's vehicle.

Prosecutors said they did not know if Mrs. Henson had an attorney. She did not return a telephone message Tuesday, and no one answered a knock at her two-story home in Alabaster, a bedroom community south of Birmingham.

Mrs. Foster lived outside Columbiana, about 15 miles away. Ex-husband Chris Foster said she had `"the biggest heart in the world."
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Wednesday, November 24, 1999

Subject: Permission wanted

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm a writer working for a trade/association magazine called "Textile Rental." Most of member companies have trucks and drivers, and I'm preparing an article on road rage -- I'd like permission to use some of the information on your website for my article. The article will be printed in our February magazine.

If you'd like to find out more about our organization, our website is www.trsa.org  

Thanks for your attention. -- Nancy

Dear Nancy: You have my permission to quote from my site. Just to make sure you're aware of these two items: DrDriving's Trucking Safety Page

DrDriving's RoadRageous Video Course (of interest to truckers too)

If you want an "exclusive" for the article, you can e-mail me a couple of questions and I'll send you the answer, or by phone if you prefer that. Let me know. If possible, please e-mail me a copy of the article. Thanks!
 

DrDriving

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Wednesday, November 24, 1999

Subject: NBC Nightly News

Dear Dr. Driving:

Ron and I saw you 11/22 on NBC Nightly News re the major segment on road rage. It's great that you, your work, and the road rage problem are getting such exposure!

Aloha. -- E
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Wednesday, November 24, 1999

Subject: questions about road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi, I'm a student at Washington State University, working on a road rage project. I was wondering if you would mind if I sent you some questions through e-mail, if you could give me answers to them. Thank you. -- Daniel

Dear Daniel: You can send me a couple of questions, but if I've already answered them somewhere you can find on my site, I will simply direct you to the article. If that's acceptable, then send the questions.

Dear Dr. Driving: Thank you for taking the time to respond to my last message.

I looked through your website quickly, but didn't find information regarding the focus of my paper.

I know that in Seattle, there has been a police program/unit that has been in existence for a little over a year now. The program involves unmarked cars designed to blend in with traffic, sport utility vehicles, taxi's, etc.

The intention of the program is to stop aggressive or raging drivers before they can cause any serious harm.

My question is: Do you think that a program like this does anything to alleviate this problem? Why or why not?

I guess my other question for you then would be: What other police actions might be affective in alleviating the problem? Or can the police do anything significant to stop the problem? -- Daniel

Dear Daniel:

It would be easier for me to answer if you told me first why you're asking, or where are you asking for, or what's your view on it and why. Then I can give you an intelligent answer, and then also, you might be involved enough to receive the answer!! So back to you with this one.

> What other police actions might be effective in alleviating the problem?

I have answered this question in this article
 

DrDriving

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Wednesday, November 24, 1999

Subject: I have a link

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi. My name is Amanda and I am a final year undergraduate psychology student at Leeds University, England.

For my final project I have constructed a questionnaire to test responses to everyday frustrations (including driving violations) and its relation to health i.e. is it health for you to let your frustrations out!

The questionnaire is now online. Would it be possible to add a link to my page on your web-page?. The URL is: http://members.aol.com/AJNutter/index.html  

Thanks! -- Amanda

Dear Amanda: I've put a link to your test in this file

Send me the results and I'll publish it on my site. sounds real interesting!

DrDriving

Dear Dr. Driving: Thanks for linking me. The results won't be available until the middle of next year, but I'll definitely send the results as soon as I have finished the research. -- Amanda


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Wednesday, November 24, 1999

Subject: Road Rage Presentation

Dear Dr. Driving: I am a sophomore in high school and in a drivers' education course. For the completion of the course, we are required to do a power point presentation on any subject dealing with driving for the class. Many students have chosen Alcohol as their topic, but I have chosen Road Rage.

The reason I'm email you is because I, in all my research, am having a tough time trying to find even the simplest of information. Is there any facts that you would say are important that they need to be put on the 5 page presentation? If you do have any, I'd appreciate it. This presentation is due on November 30th. Thank you for taking the time to read my email. -- Sadie


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Friday, November 26, 1999

Subject: Test on Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello, I really like this site and I'm giving a speech next Friday, Dec.3, 1999 and I wanted to know if you could e-mail me some information and the test. I would like to give a test to my class mates if possible. I figure at one time or another every person that drives has done road rage. Thank You. -- Lillian

Dear Lillian: You're welcome to use the tests for your class. You can find several on my site, and you can simply choose the items you want them to fill out.

DrDriving
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Friday, November 26, 1999

Subject: "From%20your%20tprintro.html%20File"

Dear Dr. Driving: I think your traffic psychology is a wonderful addition to drivers education. I would like to enforce this idea in drivers education classes in Illinois , where driving is taught in high schools. I think if your ideas and concepts were taught hand in hand with learning how to drive, we would have safer streets to drive in. Please send me some information on who I can go to. I am in the Chicago and Suburban areas. -- Diane

Dear Diane: Thank you for the kind works about my work. I hope you have a chance to see my DrDriving site at http://DrDriving.org  

Please look it over and let me know what area you'd like to start working. One suggestion: look at these three files specifically, then let me know:

Children and road rage  http://DrDriving.org/youth  

Quality Driving Circles

Traffic Enforcement and Education

DrDriving
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Friday, November 26, 1999

Subject: Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving: I am finding your web page to be very informative and useful. I am a college student at Park College in Missouri. I am conducting research and a public relations project on road rage. If you have any extra's, I would love them. -- Amy


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Saturday, November 27, 1999

Subject: HPD's Poor Driving Habits

Dear Dr. Driving: All of us watch how the operator of a police vehicle will conduct himself in traffic. It's amazing how many of their vehicles have broken turn signal indicators. I know they have to be broken because if these police officers were too lazy or self-centered to use their signals, THEN THAT WOULD REALLY PISS ME OFF. See you on the roadways. -- Kevin


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Sunday, November 28, 1999

Subject: Road Rage -- Interview request

Dear Dr. Driving:

I am a Swiss-American journalist working on an article about "Road Rage" for the Tages-Anzeiger, Switzerland's largest newspaper. I would like to set up an interview with you on this topic, ideally for early next week. Please let me know as soon as you can if you would be available and when. I would be happy to call you at the time/number specified (I'm in San Francisco). The interview would take approximately half an hour of your time. I would be grateful for your response. -- Sarah

Dear Sarah: Thanks for your interest in DrDriving. I would be happy to give you a phone interview.

DrDriving

Dear Dr. Driving:  Some of the questions I will be exploring in this article are (and yes, I'm aware that some of this info can be found on your website):

What are the root causes of "road rage"? Is it mainly an American phenomenon? Is it primarily a consequence of the increase of traffic, the long commuter drives, the speed of "modern life"? What is the role of cultural factors such as the much quoted "loss of manners"? Does road rage have different causes/manifestations in men and women? How successful are reeducation programs for aggressive drivers?

Since the article is for the "Science" section of the paper, I'm particularly interested in scientific studies that have been conducted in connection with "road rage".

I'd also be interested in talking to other experts on the subject, and would be grateful if you have any referrals. -- Sarah
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Saturday, November 27, 1999

Subject: Are there any aggressive driving laws passed by congress?

Dear Dr. Driving: Hi, I was wondering if there is any laws being passed by congress, or any major actions being taken by congress to pass laws having to do with aggressive driving that I would be able to find out-please let me know of anything of this sort. -- linz

Dear linz: Yes, check this file on the Web

DrDriving
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Sunday, November 28, 1999

Subject: Entering intersections

Dear Dr. Driving: My daughter just completed a science project that showed that men are at least twice as likely to enter an intersection where the light has already turned yellow than women. Some days they are 4 times more likely. She may pursue this more next year. Last year she determined which was the most dangerous intersection in our city. Any suggestions? -- FS

Dear FS: Good idea for her to do that! Please look in these two files for more ideas for her to do as projects: here and here.
 

DrDriving

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Sunday, November 28, 1999

Subject: Great Web Page

Dear Dr. Driving: This is a great web page and a very interesting program. This is certainly something we could use in the S.F. Bay Area . H.


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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: Re: Permission to use

Dear Dr. Driving: It's quite an honor to hear from you. I've read quite a bit about you and your work and have always found the information to be quite intriguing. I've cited you many times. Feel free to use the crashing truck graphic. I downloaded it from a web site that offers free web graphics so there is no copyright problem. -- C.


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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: S-B Article

Dear Dr. Driving:

Yipee! Your message is getting such wide coverage. Ron and I saw the your picture and the article in the 11/27 Star-Bulletin - front page no less. I was glad to hear about the distribution of the TEE cards. Keep up the good work. -- E
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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: Front page

Dear Dr. Driving: CONGRATS TO YOU AND DIANE ON THE FRONT PAGE STORY - WHAT A SUCCESS FOR YOU AND PSYCHOLOGY - KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK - YOU ARE SAVING LIVES - DOESN'T GET BETTER THAN THAT! ALOHA. -- TONY
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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: curious

Dear Dr. Driving: I am getting ready to talk about road rage to my speech class, can you give me some stats on the holiday season and rr?


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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: Driving rage

Dear Dr. Driving:

I've been living in Bucharest now for eight months, driving for about six months. You may not have a clue about bad driving until you come to a place like Bucharest. I also lived in Colombo, Sri Lanka for two years. I never drove there because I would not have lived through the two years. Another driver would have killed me for sure.

Back to Bucharest. My comment to your article is, "As a cure, send all of Hawaii's bad drivers to Bucharest, Romania. Here, they will be able to hone their bad driving skills to the max. There are no clear driving rules, except "Do what you want, when you want, and to hell with the others." If the police stops you, pay a fine and continue on your way. If you're connected somewhere, then continue on without stopping. Just ignore the cop.

But the thing that does not occur here is fighting. Name calling is allowed. Fist waving is allowed. And other obscene gestures are allowed, but frowned upon. So as bad as the bad gets, violence is socially unacceptable. So send your bad drivers here to learn proper fist waving, name calling and other obscenities, but no fighting."

You guys have it good. You don't know what bad driving is all about. Nor do you know what bad roads are all about. And you don't know what bad pedestrian behavior is. If you want to know, come to Bucharest. Driving here will give you an appreciation of how good, driving wise, road condition wise, you have it in Hawaii.

You don't have manholes without manhole covers in the middle of the street. Watching for open manholes, potholes the size of a 55-gallon drum, pedestrians who ignore traffic light, and cars that ignore lines is a real challenge. You gotta watch for everything. Plus, they place traffic lights where you cannot see them. And they have "round-abouts" just like in Paris, just like in Washington DC, and just like in Colombo. Maneuvering about a round-about should be part of the driving test given in Hawaii. Can't maneuver, no license.

Well, just another day in chilly Bucharest with ice on the cars and ice on the roads. Did I say "Ice on the roads." Yup, just one more challenge. Ice on "cobblestone roads." -- ET

Dear ET: Thank you! I enjoyed your description of the traffic situation and driver relations--sounds like Las Vegas under booming construction (but I know there is a difference...).

DrDriving
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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: information

Dear Dr. Driving: Hello. I printed out some information I think was wrote by you, it had your email address at the bottom. I lost the site where I got the information. The information included title topics like THE SYMPTOMS OF ROAD RAGE , ROAD RAGE AROUND THE NATION, and THE COMPONENTS OF ROAD RAGE. Can you please send me the site? -- Ehende

Dear Ehende: The document is my Congressional Testimony here: http://DrDriving.org/articles/testimony.htm  
 

DrDriving

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Monday, November 29, 1999

Subject: information, please

Dear Dr. Driving: I am doing a science project on the subject of safe driving. My overall problem is to determine the affects of the color of a person's vehicle on their ability to drive safely. "If a person purchases a red car, will they automatically be an aggressive driver?" and etc...I read some of your conclusions and I noticed that there were none involving the affects of color on safety. I'm hoping that you may have this information and just haven't gotten it out yet. If this is so, I'd greatly appreciate it if you could send me any information, research, and/or statistics you may have on the affects of vehicle color on safe driving so that I may continue my research. If you don't have this information, could you please point me in the right direction to find it? Thank you for your cooperation. -- V.

Dear V. : Sorry I haven't analyzed the data on color--too busy right now. Try searching Web engines (different ones) on "color +automobile or +car I did find a couple of articles once.

DrDriving


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Tuesday, November 30, 1999

Subject: Survey

Dear Dr. Driving: Can I print this without using 16 pages? I'm fairly new with this computer. I want to take the test to the class of 25 people and I don't have enough paper to print 16 pages for each person. -- Lillian

Dear Lillian: I suggest you work with your browser and word processor, both open simultaneously. Then select with your mouse the text or item you want to use, switch to the word processor and paste it. Go back and do the same for all the items you want. Then fix the word processor file and print it. Now you can photocopy as many copies as you need.
 

DrDriving

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Tuesday, November 30, 1999

Subject: A few questions???

Dear Dr. Driving: I'm doing a report on road rage and was wondering if you know of any web sites that relay any facts regarding the number of road rage incidents annually. How many own cars and how many are on the highways everyday in Southern California? -- KB

Dear KB: You'll need to do some research. Try the search engine on my site first.

DrDriving
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Tuesday, November 30, 1999

Subject: story for the road rage/kindness page

Dear Dr. Driving: I don't believe in this "touchy-feely" tone your page promotes, but I do believe in common courtesy and obeying the law.

Recently I was driving a company vehicle, a large panel van that blocks out a lot of the vision of the road. Where I live, the law says you can't enter an intersection unless you can go through it completely. So, because the next block ahead was full of cars waiting for a light to change, I waited behind at the previous corner so I wouldn't block out cross traffic. But that's not the payoff.

A vehicle from my right was waiting to turn left but couldn't see through my vehicle, and in the other lane going my direction, cars were still approaching the red light. So what I did was hold up my fist signaling "two" with fingers extended, then a car passed, and I signaled "one"; then it passed, and then the car on my right could now safely make the left turn to the opposite direction I was going, knowing no cars were coming. He gave me a courteous wave in reply. -- B.


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Wednesday, December 1, 1999

Subject: road rage

Dear Dr. Driving: My Name is Mike and I am a student At Harford College in Bel Air, MD. I am doing some research on road rage. You seem to be an expert on the subject. Is there any new information on to eliminate aggressive driving. I am doing a research paper on road rage and the solution to the social problem, any current information on the topic would be greatly appreciated. Looking forward to hearing from you. -- Michael


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Date: Mon, 1 May 2000 19:12:27 -1000

To: DrDriving@DrDriving.org

Subject: Your misunderstanding of the issues and premises never cease to amaze me...

These aggressive laws are about jobs and dollars.. nothing more.

1. Each time you go through a red light (engaging the intersection when already red) A significant number (majority) of traffic light are not timed in accordance with MUTCD guidelines or on the basis of engineering that have determined the prevailing speed of traffic being regulated.

a Many times resulting in short yellows and irregular timing sequences. (equivalent of speed traps)

b Many red light camera are placed at intersections with low accident rates, but high volumes and/or other traffic sites with design flaws where the cameras record significant violations yet have no effect on accident rates. The cities profit from there in action.

c AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, the latest AAA study out of Minnesota and a like one out of England shows that doing an engineering review of an intersection and bringing the devices up to standards and specifications (MUTCD) (timing) resulted in accident reductions of up to 50%.

d. Excerpts of another report

"So far I have measured 13 intersections. I take at least 20 readings of amber time at each signal. I measure the clearance distance also. Where appropriate I measure the uphill or downhill grade as the case requires. All the data is then statistically analyzed and calculations specific to the intersection are made. Out of the 13 intersections I have measured and analyzed so far, five (or 38.5%) failed to provide the minimum amber needed to make a so called safe stop. All 13 (or 100%) failed to provide the minimum amber time required for a vehicle to make safe passage and clearance of the intersection, which happens to be a CODE OF VIRGINIA requirement. "

2. Each time you go through an amber light (visibly speeding up to make it, not just getting caught in it) See above

3. Each time you switch a lane without signaling first These citations are always grouped with speeding as a primary component of aggressive drive laws. Before you jump on this band wagon go look at the actual data. Here in Nevada, even with urban cities like Las Vegas and Reno, out of 70,000 accidents last year there were only 5 were caused by changing lanes without signaling in total, with another 8 as contributing cause. ZERO on the interstate/open highway with free flowing traffic, yet it was the most popular secondary citation written here by the NHP on these classifications of highways.

4. Each time you make a turn without signaling See above - Yes you should signal when making a turn, but it is not an aggressive driving type of offenses. Normal citation should suffice.

5. - 10. Each time you go over the speed limit by more than 1 mile See the study I conducted in Montana. Speed enforcement, as practiced, has not shown to have any effect on vehicle speeds or accident rates. Most enforcement occurs when traffic is light, lowest accident frequency sections of highway, during the times of day when accidents are least likely to occur, targeting the safest vehicles in the bell curve on roads that have the limits set well bellow the finding of the engineering recommendations.

http://www.motorists.org/pressreleases/montana.html  

The charts speak for themselves without my commentary. The changes or fluctuations in the fatality rate had nothing to do speed limit changes. However, it is interesting to note they recorded there lowest rates ever when there were no limits whatsoever.

http://nj.npri.org/nj99/03/fedagency.htm  <---- this is a sad truth

http://nj.npri.org/nj99/04/rule.htm  <---- this is a parody

11. - 14. This type of behavior is unacceptable at all times. Interesting to note that the Governor of MN vetoed a "slower traffic keep" right bill primarily at the request of the state patrol - what's up with that. Here in Nevada I wrote a bill that was signed into law that says you even if you are exceeding limit , yet impeding traffic, you can be cited.

15. Each time you drive without a valid driver license. The number one cause of lose of license is not having the money to pay for traffic fine. Primary Victims.. those that don't have money and work from pay check to pay check.

16. Each time you drive with an alcohol level above the legal limit AGGRESSIVE DRIVING??? There are sufficient laws on the books for this one.

17. Each time you drive while drowsy enough to have droopy eyes In bridge (transit) states like Nevada the Fed highway monies are not enough to repair and replace the highways, and there is no funding available to operate rest stops. Well in excess of 70% the open highway accidents are single vehicle events. Yet rest areas are virtually non-existent. NONE on the high accident 15 corridor between Vegas and the California line... and Casinos do not qualify as rest areas.

18. - 19. Each time you drive and use a hand held cellular phone when not in an emergency situation Despite all the hype, accidents caused by technology are low and the benefits from cell phones has been enormous. when accidents do occur, before the vehicles come to a stopp the 911 centers receive multiple calls and live reports on the severity and nature of the event. Furthermore, the idiotic recommendation to pull over to shoulder and stop to talk is the most dangerous act a motorists can perform. The act of leaving and entering the stream and dramatic speed differentials creates an extreme hazard and is never a good idea unless you leave the roadway at an off ramp.

Technology is here and there is no turning it back... This week the President lifted the military scrambling of the GPS signals to enhance transportation electronic device applications and navigation. As with driving, flying or any other endeavor we will as species adapt. And our survival and lower accident rates says we aren't doing to bad a job

20. Each time you drive in a car whose windows are dark tinted enough so other drivers cannot see you What does this have to do with aggressive driving???

21. Each time you drive and other drivers can hear your radio or music blasting loud enough that it can be clearly heard in an adjacent car whose windows are up What does this have to do with aggressive driving???

22. Each time you unmistakably rev your engine in order to intimidate someone or to show them your displeasure Rare occurrence.. and if vehicles are stopped what does this have to do with aggressive driving???

23. Each time you get to a traffic light and stop too close behind another car (you cannot see the other car's tires) What does this have to do with aggressive driving???

24. Each time you approach too fast another car that's stopped, fast enough that the other driver feels threatened Way too Subjective

25. Each time you follow too close and keep it up for more than one minute (even when you're travelling in a pack) 6,000 cars an hour traveling at speeds up to and excess of 80 mph are daily routine on most urban interstates... at less than 1 second intervals.. What does this have to do with aggressive driving??? I have the actual Caltrans reports if you would like to see them.

26. Each time you're cruising in the passing lane, refusing to move over as soon as you can Already against the law in most states... virtually never enforced.

27. Each time you're waiting in traffic and blocking an exit or intersection, when you could have stopped sooner Already against the law in most states... virtually never enforced.

28. Each time you can be seen making an obscene gesture at another road user Freedom of speech... seems to come to mind even if offensive.

29. Each time you can be heard hurling an insult to another road user Freedom of speech... seems to come to mind even if offensive.

30. Each time you don't make a full stop at a stop sign Most stop signs have been placed contrary to the MUTCD (no supporting justification) many could be replaced with yield signs or removed all together. When rational motorists determine that there is no safety hazard... they will proceed with caution without coming to a complete stop. This is why the yield signs in are recommended instead of stop signs. Save the stop signs for true hazards. There are many many areas where accident rates could be reduced, the solutions are not to found in aggressive driving laws, particularly as they are being enforced. Worse yet, NHTSA has been holding back studies and field reports from publication that are contrary to their stated objectives... anyone one can claim success when they withhold publication of the projects that failed, alter data and quote out of context.

From: Leon James

Date: Fri, 05 May 2000 11:56:41 -1000

Subject: your amazement

thank you for your detailed commentary on the survey about how to define aggressive driving. Perhaps you'll be surprised to hear that I agree with most of your comments. My role is to make sure people's opinions are voiced and so the items I have in the survey don't necessarily mean that I consider these aggressive. I have included all items that law enforcement and legislative bills mention as aggressive driving--no standards yet and things vacillate enormously. A few areas of disagreement remain with respect to insults (which you see as a freedom of speech issue) and things a driver does that intimidate other drivers (approaching too fast or too close--maintaining distance between you and the vehicle ahead of you, either moving or stopped). I consider it aggressive (if you ask drivers--they feel intimidated, and that's the line I draw). Still, I support the idea of giving these things different weights since some are more serious than others. I'm writing a revision of my aggressive driving prevention course for law enforcement (recently given to Texas and Florida traffic officers). Since you and your organization are very knowledgeable and have definite views, perhaps you'd care to give me some suggestions on what to include in such a course regarding how officers should orient themselves in traffic stops involving traffic infractions.

Take care.
Leon James
DrDriving Says...The way you drive is contagious!


From Fri May 12 14:25:49 2000
To: leon@hawaii.edu
Subject: Note on your request for comments..

Here is the note I attached to this email that I sent out to our national Issue advisory group. This group not only includes engineers and other such professionals, it also includes several former law enforcement officers, one captain that ran the states accident reduction program and another was a former highway patrolman.

DR DRIVING poses an interesting question at the end of this email. We as a group should collect a list of items and send it to him. The comments were scarce, yet consistent, and several of us simultaneously sent back the same reply. Truth.. "how officers should orient themselves in traffic stops involving traffic infractions" had us a bit puzlled. Once an officer decides to make stop.. no assumptions can be made. He must approach with caution and remain in control of situation.

The other truth that became apparent is most of the high profile tactics and publicized operations such as Michigan used using unmarked cars driving slowly in the fast lane, then arresting those that pass is Wrong, Antagonistic and illegal here in Nevada and many other states. The real problem.. much of the aggressive driving issues were very subjective, ignore this problems core and most prevalent form of aggressive behavior. Traffic 101, accidents are conflicts in flow, and to reduce accidents, flow management is always the best policy. Slower traffic keep right, use signals, courtesy and etc. are the tenants of this flow strategy. Long ago safety engineers have documented that slow driving (slower than the mean) is wrongly assumed safer.

The enemy in the aggressive driving problem is not those that are the current target... to the contrary, it is the PASSIVE Aggressive Driver who stays in the left lane because of ignorance, self righteous entitlement and and and. The George Carlin skit is the answer here.. anyone slower is an idiot.. anyone faster is a maniac. Pretty close to the truth except that the slow driver in the left lane creates a constant and ongoing flow obstruction point that the traffic traveling at the prevailing speeds has to navigate past.

My feeling is the person who needs to cited is PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE DRIVER who failed to yield or act with road courtesy that is maintaining a constant and intentional dangerous flow conflict strategy.. why.. doesn't really matter does it.

My conclusion.. if you want to really have an affect on road courtesy/safety. Promote Road Courtesy Slower Traffic Keep Right AND!! Start citing the PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE DRIVERS IN FACT we might want to suggest they initiate an Anti Passive Aggressive program rather than having law enforcement agencies being the aggressor and using this wrong and misguided behavior as justification to write citations - to what end?? On every safety chart, motorists traveling above the mean are the least likely to be involved in an accident. (plus 12 mph safest) (except one by NHTSA/TRB that incorrectly stated the mean was the safest speed, using false info and data supplied by NHTSA in 1998, after they blocked the publication of one study for 5 years and simply chose not to report others because their findings were contrary to NHTSA's public positions.)

PS.. the mean on most interstates in the US is greater than the posted limits. There fore the primary focus of speed enforcement continues to targeted at those who on the relative risk charts are the least likely to be involved in an accident during the safest times of the day on the sections of highways with the lowest accident rates. Without exception, I can prove this is what is going on in any state and I have used this often with members of the press.. you pick a highway.. I will do the research or show you what to look for.. and the results are always the same. Most speeding citations issued in way that has no possible effect on accident reduction.