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Date: Mon, 21 Jan 2002 06:37:35 -1000
Subject: apparent road rage incident on I-255 at I-64 on 1/20

http://www.ksdk.com/news/news_article.asp?storyid=21736

the local media hasn't spoken much because the Illinois State Police has yet to release many details as of now. However, the state police is looking for suspect(s) or vehicle description of the suspect(s) in this apparent road rage incident.

Kim


Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002 04:28:09 -1000
Subject: Road Rage Research Project

Mr. James,

I have gone to your website numerous times and I am not able to load your the exact test that you used to measure road rage in your nationwide study. Can you please tell me the test that you used and the reliability and is it the same test that is in your book. Which one do you suggest that I use when testing my college students for my project?

Thanking you Sincerely,

Neethi

 


Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002 19:31:49 -1000
Subject: Re: Road Rage Research Project

> I have gone to your website numerous times and I am not able to load
> your the exact test that you used to measure road rage in your
> nationwide study. Can you please tell me the test that you used and
> the reliability and is it the same test that is in your book. Which
> one do you suggest that I use when testing my college students for my
> project? Thanking you Sincerely,

Hi, Neethi,

Here are the various surveys I put on the Web--see which one you're interested in:

The survey mentioned in the book refers to the first two reports.  You can use any one of these, depending on your purpose. The articles above explain what each measures.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002
Subject: article for Montreal

Hello,

I am a journalist for Hour magazine, Montreal's leading alternative weekly. I am writing an article about road rage and would love a chat with you for the piece, as you seem to be an unparalleled expert. My deadline is today, so time is of the essence; would you have time to talk with me tis afternoon?

My phone number is below; if you can, please call me and I'll call you right back to avoid you paying long-distance rates.

Thank you,

Isa


Date: Wed, 23 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: Training Information Catalog (fwd)

Darling, please answer her too

---------- Forwarded message ----------

Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002 10:40:56 -1000
Subject: Re: Training Information Catalog

To Whom I t May Concern:

While browsing through your website I find that there is much information that Professional Transit Bus Operators could use everyday while performing their duties of transporting passengers. I am requesting that you send me a catalog of your training materials and a short description. I will post the materials on our North Carolina Department of Transportation Resource list for transit systems to use to gain information on training possibilities. This website is for all transit systems in North Carolina, Urban Bus systems and Rural Community Systems. They need all the help we can give them and have been given money to use for driver and or system training. If a catalog is available please send one and we will post in for you on our site.

Thank You,

Pattie Ralph
Driver Education Representative
North Carolina Department of Transportation
Employee Development Unit


Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002
Subject: When you were offline...

I want to become an instructor for my four teenagers. I live in Ohio what do I have to do to teach my children and is this allowed by law. If i hold a permit to teach. Thanks Gordan

 


Date: Mon, 21 Jan 2002
Subject: CAR RACING AND ROAD SAFETY

Dear Leon and Dianne,

I have recently found your websites relating to Road Rage and Aggressive Driving, which I found very interesting. I wonder if you have ever considered the possible impact of watching motor car racing events on driving behaviour or attitudes.

I have found considerable anecdotal evidence that watching car racing leads to dramatic short term changes in driver behaviour (e.g. more aggressive driving), but no hard evidence on this. It may also lead to long term attitudes that value aggressive driving. There is also the important issue of the combination of alcohol sponsorship and advertising with car racing - something that seems to be sending completely the wrong message about road safety. As well, racing events held on public roads are often associated with drivers playing "boy racer" around the circuit. I am searching for any research or information on the road safety messages and impacts of car racing. I have recently presented a paper at a Road Safety Conference on the impacts of the GMC400 V8 Supercar race in Canberra (attached).

I would be very grateful if you could provide any information/references (or leads) that you may have on links between road safety and car racing (e.g. has there ever been any consideration of this issue when questions of sponsorship of car events by road safety organisations in the US have been mooted?)

Do you have any ideas on how such a topic might be usefully investigated?

Best wishes,

Paul

Dr Paul Tranter
Senior Lecturer
School of Geography & Oceanography
University College
University of New South Wales
Australian Defense Force Academy


Date: Wed, 23 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: CAR RACING AND ROAD SAFETY

> I am searching for any research or information on the road safety messages
> and impacts of car racing. I have recently presented a paper at a Road
> Safety Conference on the impacts of the GMC400 V8 Supercar race in Canberra
> (attached).

Dr Paul Tranter,

Thanks for sending the article. Unfortunately I do not have anything on this topic. I'll keep you in mind if anything turns up in the future. I think this would be quite difficult research to accomplish given all the variables that are active in the situation.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Wed, 23 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: CAR RACING AND ROAD SAFETY

Thanks Leon,

Yes, it is a complex topic. I'm beginning to understand why there might be so little research on the topic.

Cheers


Date: Wed, 23 Jan 2002
Subject: training video

> Date: Tue, 22 Jan 2002 23:16:02 -1000
Subject: When you were offline...

> I want to become an instructor for my four teenagers. I live in Ohio
> what do I have to do to teach my children and is this allowed by law.
> If i hold a permit to teach. Thanks Gordan Thomas

Hi Gordan Thomas,

My best recommendation is for you to have them complete our RoadRageous Video Course either online or by purchasing the video and Workbook. I'm copying Mr. Chris Huffman, of AIPS, who will email regarding the details on how to obtain the video course.  I would also recommend our book--excellent for your teenagers:

Leon James, Ph.D. and Diane Nahl, Ph.D.
Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare
(Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000)
ISBN 1-57392-846-1


Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2002
Subject: A Magazine's Inquiry

Dear Dr. Driving:

The publisher read over your story and loved it. Here's the one we were thinking about reprinting with your permission and a mention of your site and what you do. It's not formatted yet or edited, granted, but the text from your site follows.

Thank you!

Sarah

Boat Rage Feature

A "Very Special" Ugly Yachtsman Installment!!!!

Did you ever notice that when your favorite show comes out with something "very special" that it's something "socially relevant" and may not even be entertaining? Well, this is my "public service" assault on one of today's most pressing problems.   BOOOOOAAAAAAAATTTTT RAGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!  Yes, BOAT RAGE is a growing problem on our waterways and in our sea-lanes.

Some may think that this is a new plague but my best information tracks this back to the dawn of time. Phlegm the Syphilitic versus Gilbert the Great? Boat Rage. Juttland? Boat Rage. Monitor and Merrimac? Boat Rage. What if the crew of the BISMARK would've just done the "yachting wave"? Many Cold War incidents were strict cases of Boat Rage. When man first ventured out to sea for "pleasure" one would've thought that they would've left Boat Rage to the professional sailors and warriors but it appears to also be a part of our recreational boating phenomena. How does one recognize the warning signs?

It has been my observation that it almost always begins with the actions of another boater. This is not limited to power. It can be the unsuspecting, unlighted, kayakers crossing your bow as you turn into your marina at dusk.

You boil the water behind you while backing down, straight-arm a piling, and terrify other boat owners. They've seen you in action before and have long memories.

Your last vision of the kayakers was their "Save the Whale" decal fading off into darkness as they move on knowing they've left the sea a safer place for eels and barnacles. They may even sniff and huff a little if they go through the cloud of diesel smoke you've emitted as you have dared your diesel to eat itself in order to save their lives.

What is that feeling?  You have an urge!

You are awash in the desire to take up your flare gun with your good arm (the one you straight-armed the piling with does not bend anymore) and light the way for these noble adventurers. BOAT RAGE!!!! Is that why, when you buy a new flare gun, that they give you a "white" shell to practice with? Has anyone EVER shot their "white" shell? If you were to shoot a red flare you'd be violating a CG regulation probably but you can "practice" with the "white" shell. "Yes, the white shell will do......... yes it will......" By then you've regained some of your composure and hopefully some common sense and abandoned these urges as passing whims. Communications adds a new dimension to BOAT RAGE. Aggression can be exercised but violence minimized as you can "QUICK!", hide the microphone after you've lamb-basted someone's parentage and boat choice, over channel 9, because of their tsunami wake. I recently found that I could contact a vessel, in more than enough time, for them to turn around and witness the carnage that they had left behind in their mountainous wake. I briefly discussed the "white" flare shell with them and quickly signed off. Even though they could not tell which of the metronome-like "boats with sticks" we were, I felt better!

This brings us to one of the founding theories of BOAT RAGE. It is affectionately known as The Ugly Yachtsman's Theory on Surprise Encounters. A surprise encounter can be anything from turning around and seeing "TUNA MARU" in large letters right behind you, a wake so large you can almost hear the theme song from Hawaii Five-Oh. The "white" flare Dan'o!

There are three phases to this theory.

Phase I: Phase I of the Surprise Encounter is after whatever sensory stimuli has startled you, you have to immediate urge to say or do something. This is just the first thing that popped into your mind.

Phase II: Phase II is what you actually did, or said, in response to this chance encounter.

Phase III: Phase III is the last and final phase. This phase usually takes place from minutes to months after the encounter and is generally characterized by thinking about all the snappy things you should've said, or done, in place of what you did for Phase II.

Now, if Phase I merges with Phase II in a millisecond and Phase III involves remorse then you are probably behind bars.  If Phase I is "nothing", Phase II is "nothing" and Phase III is like-wise, then you are least likely to practice BOAT RAGE and most likely to become a victim of it. This is the safest posture really.  I think most of us fall somewhere in the middle. I will illustrate this theory with a recent event.

We are headed out of Fisher's Island Sound into Block Island Sound. This is our FIRST trip to Block Island, Rhode Island. We might as well have set out to cross the Atlantic as this trip was a major milestone. We were in company with another boat but we had cleared Watch Hill Passage first. We were moving out smartly on a stiff breeze into open water. Listen to me "Talk the Talk"!

Though we were in open water I notice a beautiful 40-some foot sailboat coming up my starboard side. He's going to pass within a boat length of us and cross our bow but he has speed, I can fall off to port if need be, so I hold my course and speed and watch him overtake me and marvel at the beauty of this gray-hulled boat. We are within t-shirt reading range and almost a beam of each other when I yell over to him "You have a beautiful boat!"

Standby for Phase I. The bronze tanned, khaki-shorted polo-shirted yachty snapped back "Are you going to cross my bow?"

Phase I I think to myself : "Are you smokin' Crack?" That was pretty good but my actual Phase II response was â^À¦.   "NO!"

Somewhat annoyed with me now, the CEO larvae then responded something to the effect "read  RULE 13!!" "Don't you have the rules!"  Rule 13? Chapter 11? 5th floor?  Rules? He came into MY piece of ocean and wants to talk RULES?  To this blast, my Phase I initial response is unprintable.

My actual response was "Let's talk about it on Block Island!" So much for Phase II.  Oh that was good. Old guys fighting. Paints a real picture! His course was more northerly so I figure he went on to Newport. My loss I guess. I could've learned a lot from him.

Now, my Phase III responses read like "My rule book is down below under my carry permit!" or the simple New York-style response "I got your rule buddy!"  (complete with hand gesture) Even the pseudo foreign response "Parlez-vous BITE ME?" could've done the trick.

· BOAT RAGE and commercial vessels.

If you see a brightly colored vessel, usually diesel powered, with a name like "Molly Theresa IX", even money has it that this is a "Lobsterman".  Seeing these mariners zig-zag across the channel dropping their pots is a common sight in many waterways. Even though I have probably cost them as much money as they have cost me, these are the LAST people I would ever want to put a dose of BOAT RAGE on. I have heard rumors that they are frequently armed. A lobsterman being armed is obviously in response to the ever-present threat of a "lobster insurrection" that could take place between the pot and dock. These professional mariners could be a welcome sight in a crisis and have helped more than one "pleasure craft" in distress.

The FERRY BOAT is another story. These ships come in many shapes and sizes.

Their courtesy seems to vary widely also. I generally hug the side of the channel when I am unfortunate enough to do a "Rules of the Road Dance" with one. The multi-hulled gas turbine screamers are my biggest fear especially if they have a name like "MISS BARDOL" or "WIDOW MAKER II". Our worst encounter was with one of the regular ferries that come and go continuously from New London. Inbound, hugging the edge of the channel, we watched one ferry come up on us for a good two miles. Being under sail, highly visible, and on the opposite side of the channel from the direction this ferry needed to turn, I felt reasonably secure. His need to run right up behind us concerned me. His not altering course to go around us in the wide channel coupled with his melodic blasting of the "Danger Signal" on his whistle was quite unsettling.

"Hey BillyBob, watch these people jump around like ants when I get real close and blows da horn a bunch!" Two boat lengths to the right of us the channel disappears into rocks. Once I heard the Danger Signal all bets were off. I lit off the diesel, jibbed violently to the left and cut right across his bow at "All Ahead Mother#&$@$&*^!" I never looked back. No Phase I, II or III.

The Coast Guard said they'd have a word with the Ferry boat skipper.

BOAT RAGE can also be levied against crew. If the crew succumbs to BOAT RAGE it is called "mutiny" though. It can get real tricky here. I am not even going to "go there" in this discussion, as instances of BOAT RAGE with crew are stories unto themselves.

See DrDriving's page on Boat Rage


Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2002
Subject: Driving School Association of Louisiana Convention.

Dr Driving,

We would like help and information about your course for our convention. Attached is a list of cost for ads or sponsorship.

Thanks

Glenda
Southwest Safety Training, Inc


Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2002
Subject: What can we do to prevent and stop road rage?

Dear Dr. Driving,

Hello! I am a student at Galloway Township Middle School and I am studying how my partner, Ed, and I can prevent road rage. We have gone to your web site talking about road rage, but we need your help and advice. I was hoping you could help us get information on how to prevent and stop road rage in our neighborhood. We would appreciate your help.

Sincerely,
David and Eddie


Date: Fri, 25 Jan
Subject: Re: What can we do to prevent and stop road rage?

> Hello! I am a student at Galloway Township Middle School and I am
> studying how my partner, Ed, and I can prevent road rage. We have gone
> to your web site talking about road rage, but we need your help and
> advice. I was hoping you could help us get information on how to
> prevent and stop road rage in our neighborhood. We would appreciate
> your help.

Hi, David and Eddie,

I recommend you read our book--that would be the best way to start:

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THE BOOK:
Leon James, Ph.D. and Diane Nahl, Ph.D.
Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare
(Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000)
ISBN 1-57392-846-1


Date: Thu, 24 Jan 2002
Subject: seat belts in semis with children?

Hi, nice story about the lady and the flat in the cold weather.

What I can't seem to find is any laws about a 3rd passenger in the semi cab. If there's only 2 seats with belts......then is the a law about ppl. riding in the sleeping area? If there's not, the there should be.

I know a guy who drags his wife and kid across the country week after week. And, I'm just wondering if it is against the law to have a 3rd person in the truck??

I have a friend whos hubby is a truck driver. They used to take the whole family...(3 kids) out on the road.  To me, that's just crazy!  How many times have you heard of a 3rd passenger getting thrown throuhg the windshield from a semi?

Thank you, T

 


Date: Wed, 23 Jan 2002
Subject: a concerned high school student

Hello I just read that "It is a well known that the traditional driver's ed. has remained inadequate as the means for teaching full competence and knowledge of safety, and only satisfies the bare minimum for getting driver's licenses into the hands of millions of young people.

Even less attention is given to teaching emotional intelligence skills.  The result is that most drivers are ill-prepared to manage their intense emotions behind the wheel. In my opinion, the New Driver's Ed should be taught K-12 for Emotional Intelligence Skills on the road:" which I believe is by Dr. Leon James, Professor of Psychology at the University of Hawaii.

I thought that it would interest you to know that I am 15 years old and currently taking a drivers education class at my high school. In this class we are required to do not only do "the bare minimum for getting driver's licenses" but to also complete many assignments that teach us more about driving and what responsibilities comes with our licenses.

That is how I came to reading what is pasted above, I had an assignment to get with a partner and come up with a two minute presentation on how emotions effect your driving. I thought that the best known emotional effect on driving was road rage so I decided that that is what I would do my presentation on. I thought that you may want a young persons opinion on your thoughts and theories. So here they are: while I agree on your theory that children learn bad habits (including road rage) from their parents, I disagree with what you said about TV and media has the same effect. I myself enjoy watching TV and videos and I do see many shows or videos in which road rage is depicted but I do not think that it has much effect on how I drive. Recently I bought the movie The Fast and the Furious I have watched it a few times and thought that the cars are neat and the racing looks cool, but because of this I am not going to take out my mom's Grand Prix and race one of my friends. I did also agree with you on that we should have more than the "bare minimum" and I think that at my school they are doing a pretty good job of providing that education on emotional intelligence skills.

Well I have to go now and finish my homework. Thank you for all of the information you have on your web sites they will help a lot.

Thank you,
Amber


Date: Fri, 25 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: a concerned high school student

Thanks for your comments, Amber. I would recommend that you really observe yourself and your friends while driving. You will notice that some of the driver's behaviors are aggressive or risky such as following too close, driving above the speed limit, cursing, yelling, looking away from the road, etc. These are all dangerous habits we acquire partly by watching TV drivers do these things. Go to this place, and read what my students have observed about TV scenes and drivers:

http://DrDriving.org/youth

I hope you have a chance to read our book. Write again after you read some more.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Sun, 27 Jan 2002
Subject: Congressional Testimony Query

Dr. James,

Your testimony of 17July1997 includes a section entitled 'Alarming Numbers' where it is stated that 'The problem is so serious that insurance companies are devising ways to deny insurance to aggressive drivers and cut rates for peaceful drivers.'.

That approach appears to have considerable merit. Where might I find further information on that strategy?

Thanks,
D.


Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: Congressional Testimony Query

Ms. Hughes,

I do not have specific numbers on the insurance companies. One way to find out would be to surf the Web for insurance companies and their policies.  If you do this, please share your results with me.

Aloha,
Leon James

 


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: Affordable Safety Program

Hi Doc,

My name is Pete Schmedtje and I work with Safety Alert Network, Inc.,  www.safetyalert.com, as the Marketing Director. I have been reading articles on bus safety and the GPS technology and thought to myself that this would be a perfect opportunity to let you, the general public and others make an evaluation on this expensive technology. After reading numerous articles, I asked myself: For an average of $895 per bus and $25 a month to access data over the internet, is that data truely giving us the full information that we need on that driver FOR THE SAFETY OF OUR KIDS? Let me explain with one or two scenarios:

- Is that driver that was going 63 mph on I-10 in a construction zone? Or better yet, is he speeding 35 mph in a school zone?
- Does that same driver have other risk taking characteristics such as improper lane changes, improper parking, or worst of all tailgating?
- Does that bus have a faulty tailight, turn signal or is the back left tire going flat?
- Are the passengers of that bus also acting in a safe manner(standing up, littering, making hand gestures, etc.)

I am in no fashion saying that GPS is bad technology for this application. Actually, I think that it is fascinating to see how far we have excelled over the years to protect our kids and making the roads safer with the ongoing task of lowering accident rates. With cell phones ever so present, a short photographic memory and a very cost effective internet service, we can, and will, go a long way. Our system solicits observations from the general public to provide timely reports on vehicle, passenger and driver performance. Thank you for your response.

Sincerely,
Pete
Marketing Director
Safety Alert Network, Inc.


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: interview question

Hi Diane,

Below you will find our answers to your two questions, as well as some selections from our book. We hope you can take a look at our two chapters in the book that are relevant directly to your query--one on teen driving and one on children and road rage.

Aloha,
Leon James
Diane Nahl
DrDriving.org

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"Why do teenagers often fail to yield and tailgate?"

Teenagers by definition are inexperienced drivers. It takes several years of driving to become good at it. The driver has a threefold self which covers feelings-attitudes, thoughts-judgments, and motor actions. All three domains of habits determine in combination how we actually drive.

Teenagers are low on all three types of skills. In terms of attitudes-feelings-emotions, they have less self-control over their emotions and impulses. In terms of thoughts-judgment, they make mistakes, they do not recognize their errors, they misattribute the causes of road events--typically remaining blind to their own contribution or mistakes in near-misses or crashes. In terms of sensory-motor behaviors, they lack skills in vehicle management under emergency conditions or bad weather. As a result of these lower skills in all three areas of the driver's personality, they get into more crashes.

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"When it comes to aggressive driving and rage, how does the way parents drive affect how their children will drive when they get older?"

See the passages quoted below. We remind parents that driver ed begins in childhood when toddlers get driven around by parents and other adults. The backseat of the car is a road rage nursery. We also give some activities parents can do with children in the car.

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QUOTING FROM THE BOOK:

Dr. Leon James and Dr. Diane Nahl
Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare
(Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000) ISBN 1-57392-846-1

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CHAPTER 7: CHILDREN AND ROAD RAGE

Road Rage Nursery

Road rage is a feeling of hostility that is inherited through the culture of disrespect condoned on highways. Motorists don't try to hide it because they are often proud of their aggressiveness, so it's common for children to hear parents and other adults swearing and demeaning other drivers:

While backing out of the parking space I heard a screech and felt a little bump when a woman and little girl in a Camaro appeared in my rearview. We all got out and I apologized, though I knew full well that she had been far away and had sped up to try to out run me, instead of waiting for me to leave the space. I felt miserable when her little girl started screaming at me, obviously repeating what she had heard her mother say about me in the car to excuse her own dangerous behavior, "Stupid lady!

She's a stupid lady mommy! Why don't you watch where you're going stupid lady? You have to pay for this stupid lady!"  Kids do whatever their parents do, they say the things they hear older kids and adults saying, and their emotional reactions are shaped by mimicking adult feelings. Children soak up the norms of behavior in their environment, and that's how the road rage tradition is passed on to the next generation.

The following dialog took place in a car between a middle aged man and his two very young children during a conflict over a parking space with two young men in another car. The father gave the young men the finger and yelled an obscenity. One of the young men got out of the car and ran towards the car with the kids. One of the most shocking parts of the transcript is this: 

Little boy: Look Daddy, one of the guys in the green car is running towards us!

Father: They can't do anything to us. Lock your door. Let's just get out of here.

Little boy: No, let's get them first!

Little girl: Get them Daddy, get them!

Little boy: Run him down Daddy! Faster Daddy, c'mon get him!

The two children aged 5 and 3 were caught-up in the hostility that their father generated when he chose to assume a comic book persona to aggressively compete for a parking space. He modeled this combative persona for his children, teaching them how to deal with challenges on the road: with opportunism, hostility, and threats of violence. Years before they get behind the wheel of a car, children absorb and imitate the values of their parents and other authority figures. Clearly, we need to focus attention on how children learn to interact with drivers on the road while they're still very young passengers.

How can drivers deal with uncontrollable kids? Is this the one area where drivers need more control and can't get it? We need to help children develop emotional intelligence as future drivers by modeling appropriate behaviors in the car, and holding them responsible for being safe passengers. Show them what kind of passenger behavior you value and what the community values, and reward them for learning it and practicing it.

Children can be taught to learn good passenger skills, and they will love it. All it takes is rewarding them for doing what you want, instead of merely punishing them for doing what you don't like. For example, if they won't wear seat belts, don't leave unless they are buckled in, remove a privilege, or give them something they want for wearing the belt for the entire trip. Give them something nice after each successful trip, but don't give it to them when they break the rule. Give them something small but rewarding like positive comments about their good behavior, some special time alone with you, a colorful sticker, a small notebook or purse, a certain privilege, a special food, time on the computer, or special TV time. Rewarding kids for becoming good passengers is a useful idea because it helps them learn to value doing a good job as a passenger.

The power of this strategy is in frequent but small rewards that help shape the child's behavior into a desire to do a good job of being the best possible passenger. Without backseat management techniques driving kids is a major headache because your emotional territory is constantly breached:

Verbal Rewards For Good Passengers

Children need lots of frequent positive reinforcement for doing the right thing inside the car. The rewards can include charts of their progress, badges, certificates and awards of merit for safe riding, verbal compliments and commendations, and earned privileges. Some ideas for verbal rewards include:

1. "Thank you for being a very good passenger today."

2. "I was so glad that you helped me concentrate on where I was going."

3. "You wore your seatbelt the entire trip so I felt you were safe."

4. "You helped us have a peaceful ride because you didn't fight with your brother in the car today."

5. "You were very good, ignoring the kids in that other car who were jumping around and yelling at you."

6. "Thank you for telling the other kids to be quiet while we were driving to the market. You really helped them calm down and be safe in the car."

7. "Thank you for reminding us to wear our seatbelts. I'm glad you care about us being safe in the car."

8. "I was so happy that you didn't stand up while the car was moving today."

9. "I was so proud of you today for teaching your friend how to behave and be safe in the car."

10. "You did a good job of cleaning up your mess in the car, thanks I really appreciate it."

Affirming statements like these give kids messages about what adults value, and since they want to please their parents, they will adopt these values. Parents can help children internalize these values by acknowledging good passenger conduct. Kids need acknowledgment for being good in any situation, but moving vehicles are extremely perilous environments, where it's of the utmost importance that kids learn to become mindful riders. Acknowledging their contribution to a successful driving trip will instill in them a desire to become safe and kind drivers later in life. In addition, they will become more discerning of others' driving behavior and be able to decide when not to ride with someone who is rash.

From our book -- see here.


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: Aggressive Driving and Road Rage Article

Dr. James;

I am a Sergeant with the Allegheny County Police Department in Pennsylvania. I have been asked by my department to make 2 one hour presentations at our local Community College on the subject of Road Rage.

In my searches of the internet I have come across your article on the subject and found it most informative. I would like your permission to use parts of the article in my presentation. Particularly the section titled, Anatomy of an Epic Road Rage Tragedy taken from a Court TV broadcast. I assure you that this is not a for profit presentation, but a public service put on by my police department. I would give clear credit to you as Arthur of the article.

Thank you for your consideration in this matter.

Sincerely Yours,
Sergeant David M.
Allegheny County Police Department


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: Request to Interview

Dear Dr.Nahl:

My name is Joyce A. Hunter and I am a retired 30 year veteran from Delta Air Lines.  After my retirement, I entered into a doctoral program at Argosy University to receive a DBA (Doctor of Business Administration-Marketing).

Currently, my status is ABD and I am beginning to work on my dissertation which is investigating and researching the new phenomena "Air Rage".

My dissertation will focus on "Has the perception of the overall decline in "customer service" within the airline industry contributed to the increase in "Air Rage" incidents and can this perception be reversed?

I would like very much to interview one of the experts in this field, like yourself, as part of my dissertation. Will you advise me if this could be possible?

Thank You,
Joyce A.

 


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: Aggressive Driving and Road Rage Article

Yes, you have my permission Sergeant S. Maybe one day you might explore our RoadRageous Video that traffic judges assign to aggressive driving violators in several states. It's also used for law enforcement training. The video also comes in 15-min. segments you can order separately. Information on law enforcement use and the video segments can be found in these two files:

http://DrDriving.org/video

http://DrDriving.org/police/teecards.html

Good luck with your presentation. You might like to get a copy of our book for future presentations!

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002
Subject: (no subject)

Please send information on tee cards, and thanks so much for all of your research and insight!!!!

 


Date: Sat, 26 Jan 2002 
Subject: aggressive driving, UW student inquiring!

Dr Driving-

Hello I'm a Psychology student at the University of Washington and I came across your web-site because I am writing a paper on a deviant behavior (for a sociology class, social deviance to be specific), and the topic of course I chose is Road rage. There are several areas that I must discuss such as how and this behavior comes to be defined as deviant. I thought I would e-mail you and find out what your thoughts are on this subject matter since you have a lot of background knowledge on the subject. So far I looking at in the perspective that it defined as deviant because it is a dangerous act to the public at large. I would greatly appreciate any advice you may have on this matter.

Thank you,

Lindsay

 


Date: Tue, 29 Jan 2002
Subject: PSYCHOLOGY STUDENT JAMES COOK UNIVERSITY - CAIRNS AUSTRALIA

Dear Drs James & Nahl

ROAD RAGE AS A TOPIC FOR HONOURS PROGRAM 2002 JAMES COOK UNIVERSITY - CAIRNS CAMPUS

I am a Honours student studying Bachelor of Psychology at James Cook University - Cairns Campus and I wish to do my Thesis on ROAD RAGE and how personality, gender differences and risk taking behaviours affect the incidence of road rage.

I have become interested in this topic over the past 18 months when I first read your article published in 1998 which mentions your topic of interest and I have included this information into assignment for Social Psychology.

I would be grateful for any information on related topics, related literature(besides yours) and I would like to keep the information lines open as I may be able to give you some perspective on the incidence of road rage and how it affects Australians.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Yours sincerely
Leanne

 


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: TEE cards

> Please send information on tee cards, and thanks so much for all of your research and insight!!!!

Thanks. At this point the TEE cards have not been produced for sale. However, if you want them for personal use we can arrange for permission for you to copy them off the Web. Just let me know what you have in mind. Are you familiar with our book?

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: aggressive driving, UW student inquiring!

Hi, Lindsay, One way to handle it is to look up deviant behavior definitions in textbooks (many of them do it, some specialize in just this topic--consult your librarian). Also: books by sociologists on "rage" and "violence." Then, see how the definitions apply to road rage.

For definitions on road rage, you can quote our book (see below) and Web site articles, e.g., my congressional testimony where I define road rage:

http://DrDriving.org/articles/testimony.htm

I hope this helps.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: PSYCHOLOGY STUDENT JAMES COOK UNIVERSITY - CAIRNS AUSTRALIA

On Tue, 29 Jan 2002, Leanne wrote:

> I am a Honours student studying Bachelor of Psychology at James Cook
> University - Cairns Campus and I wish to do my Thesis on ROAD RAGE and
> how personality, gender differences and risk taking behaviours affect
> the incidence of road rage.

Hi, Leanne

thanks for your comment. With respect to the topics you mention for your research, I put all the info I have on the Web. So if you haven't already checked these files, please try them now:

http://DrDriving.org/articles/gender.htm

http://DrDriving.org/surveys

http://DrDriving.org/articles/

http://DrDriving.org/philosophy.html

http://DrDriving.org/courses

And our book:

Leon James, Ph.D. and Diane Nahl, Ph.D.
Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare
(Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000)
ISBN 1-57392-846-1

Research on driving by others are included in this large bibliography:

http://DrDriving.org/facts/references.htm

Hope this helps. And do keep in touch.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving


Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002
Subject: Teenage Drivers

Drs. James and Nahl,

I am a freelance writer in Raleigh, NC, working on an article about how parents should drive when their children are in the car. The piece will advise parents on how they can drive better so their children will be grow up to be safe drivers. I hope to sell it to Carolina Parent, a monthly publication for parents here in North Carolina.

One of the issues the article will address is aggressive driving and road rage in teenagers. I would like to get your responses to the following questions:

Why do teenagers often fail to yield and tailgate?

When it comes to aggressive driving and rage, how does the way parents drive affect how their children will drive when they get older?

Thank you for your responses.

Diane


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: Re: TEE cards

Oh, God do I have your book, I'm reading it right now.

I live in the Philadelphia metro area, just moved here from Trenton, NJ.  I can't believe how bad it is. I don't believe I have road rage but it's an OBVIOUS problem here. Do you think it will get better????

Send me info on the tee cards, and if there is ANYTHING I can do in this area to help decrease the problem, it's such an unnecessary ill of society, everyone wants to 'get there first' and don't seem to regard anyone else, how sad. I've thought about beginning and aggressive driver awareness group in my area but 1) I am in school and work 50 hours/week right now beside playing sport jiujitsu and living with girlfriend and 2) really didn't have faith that too many people would be interested. 9/11 seems to have made it worse. Let me know please, and THANK YOU for all of your work.

Mark


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: article questions

I am researching an article for the NY Times on the driver training law enforcement officers receive....essentially are they better (or better trained) than the average citizen.

Clearly, looking at the minimal driving instruction (just geared to pass a test) the average citizen gets, police would HAVE to be better trained!

But I don't find uniform standards the more I look into this subject. Is there any Federal oversight?

Can you comment on the state of police driver training in the US......what are your observations on how it works........what would be better?

Thanks,

George, Connecticut.


Date: Fri, 1 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: article questions

> enforcement officers receive....essentially are they better (or better
> trained) than the average citizen.
> Clearly, looking at the minimal driving instruction (just geared to pass a
> test) the average citizen gets, police would HAVE to be better trained!
> But I don't find uniform standards the more I look into this subject. Is
> there any Federal oversight?
> Can you comment on the state of police driver training in the US......what
> are your observations on how it works........what would be better?

Hi George, Connecticut,

Here are a few samples of what they are offering in terms of driver training for police:

http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/people/injury/enforce/pursemannoun.htm

http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/people/injury/enforce/pursemannoun.htm

http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/people/injury/enforce/pursemannoun.htm

http://members.aol.com/ohprabbit/ 

http://www.evoc.org/

http://www.osuokc.edu/pdtc/

In terms of training of law enforcement for aggressive driving, AIPS has been using our RoadRageous Video Course, for which I wrote a law enforcement component. It is being used for training state troopers and military personnel as well. Some of this activity is described in these two files on my site:

http://DrDriving.org/police/teecards.html

http://DrDriving.org/video

You can reach AIPS as follows:
President and Chief Operating Officer
American Institute for Public Safety
12000 Biscayne Blvd. Suite 705
N Miami Fl. 33181
888-458-2477 ext.
223

In terms of my own experience with law enforcement: They are trained by daily experience and the requirement of their job, in addition to their specialized driver training courses in pursuits, traffic stops, etc. Their daily experience allows them to operate a vehicle while multi-tasking: pursuing another car, talking on the radio, looking at computer screens--sometimes two or three. Their performance proves that it is possible to multi-task behind the wheel (cell phone, GPS screens, voice email, eating, etc.) and do it competently--as long as sufficient training opportunities exist. In the case of law enforcement and other professional drivers, this training is achieved through experience and in-service refresher courses.

But when it comes to driving psychology, law enforcement is not prepared for it and driving experience on the job does not necessarily provide a favorable learning opportunity. In our book (see below) we explain that the car is driven by the drivers "threefold self"--that is, emotions, thoughts, and motor actions. Driving on the job trains your motor reactions mostly, and to some extent your thinking, but it doesn't train your emotions. This is where law enforcement driver training has not yet caught up to reality. In our RoadRasgeous course for law enforcement, we give them the opportunity to learn the psychology of the driver, including themselves, so they need to address such issues as:

Why do I drive aggressively? What makes me mad? How am I influenced by my expectations or prejudices of other drivers? How do I train myself to control my emotions and reduce driving stress? How do I learn obey driving regulations? How do I drive when I'm off duty? How do I behave towards drivers and passengers in traffic stops? And the like.

I hope this helps. Email me if you have more specific issues you want me to consider.

Aloha,
Leon James
Professor of Traffic Psychology
University of Hawaii


Date: Fri, 1 Feb 2002
Subject: One little question ...

Dear Dr. James,

We had one quick question we thought might help our readers. When you have a moment, I'd love your feedback:

Dr. James, can you explain to our readers how you got to that point?  Leon James, Ph.D., is a reformed aggressive driver. He often took risks on the road, such as weaving in and out of lanes.

"I acted like I was in a hurry all the time, even when I wasn't,'' he says.

"It becomes a habit.^Ò People who have a habit of getting ahead of everybody else get panicky when they get stuck behind somebody.''

Now, Dr. James is much more relaxed in the driver's seat.

"The one thing that's most helpful is to learn to leave earlier,'' he says. Dr. James regularly allows an extra 15 or 20 minutes to reach his destination.

"The same events do not stress me out as before,'' he says. "I am able to be patient."

Thank you for your help!

Sincerely,
Deb


Date: Fri, 1 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: article questions

Dear Prof. James:

Thanks for your thoughtful reply to my query. Do I have permission to quote you with attribution?

George

 


Date: Fri, 1 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: One little question ...

On Fri, 1 Feb 2002, Deb wrote:

> Dr. James, can you explain to our readers how you got to that point?

Hi, Deb,

How I got to the point of being a rushing maniac is the similar to how 85% of all drivers get to be aggressive, whether rushing maniacs, or tailgaters, or left lane bandits (driving the speed limit in the passing lane and not moving over), or red light runners, and the emotional use of the gas pedal (which makes our foreign oil dependence much worse than it needs to be if we all used our gas pedal rationally). And we all get to be aggressive because we learn it from our parents and TV while we are still children and teenagers. Then when we start driving at age 16 we automatically drive in the same way that we've been exposed to for all those years. We call the backseat of the car "the road rage nursery."

Then I was confronted by my passenger, who is my wife Dr. Diane Nahl, co-author of our Rad Rage book. She courageously kept demanding her rights as a passenger, which is that the driver take responsibility for the passenger's safety and feelings. After several years of battling her demands, I finally started recgonizing the legitimacy of her demand. I then became a reformed driver--but it took several years for a total driving personality makeover. I carried a tape recorder and spoke my thoughts out loud, then listened to the tape later. This way I came to realize I was a rushing maniac and an aggressive driver. Then I had to work on one little skill at a time, for each trip, and I kept a Driving Diary for years in which I recorded details about myself behind the wheel:

When did I get mad? How long did I stay mad? What kind of risks was I taking regularly? What happens when I leave home earlier? etc.

Today I can honestly say that I enjoy traffic! I look for opportunities to be a supportive driver, which is the opposite of the aggressive driver. I always let other cars into my lane, I drive with other drivers' comfort and convenience in mind, not just the passengers. I feel responsible for the comfort and safety of others. I enjoy it. It reduces stress and increases safety for everyone. I also save gas.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

P.S. What publication is this for, Men's Health?


Date: Sun, 3 Feb 2002
Subject: Interested Driving Educator

Hello,

I am a driver education instructor (21 years) in a high school and have recently started teaching an advanced driver education course that I designed for students with a driver's license. I am still in the process of gathering information and came upon your website. I find it most interesting and helpful. I would like to find out more about the instructional and performative services and consultation mentioned in the web site. I would be interested in both traditional and online media

I have ordered "Road Rage and Aggressive Driving" and look forward to reviewing that, as well as any other information you have.

Please contact me regarding other services and products.

Thank you,

Debbi

 


Date: Mon, 4 Feb 2002
Subject: photo enforcement for speeders

Dr. James,

What do you think of this subject? I would support it if it was to catch people going 15 to 20 mph over the speed limit. But for going one to 10 mph over the speed limit? Lets get real here. Now some people are going to be watching their speedometers to make sure they don't go over the speed limit, hence, will be causing more accidents because they are not keeping their eyes on the road. Also, don't you need to increase your speed while passing a car letting you go into the next lane provided there are no cars in front of you?

Brandon

 


Date: Mon, 4 Feb 2002
Subject: RE: Road Rage Article Interview

Hello Dr. James:

The editor of Westworld Is very pleased with the road rage article and has allocated some additional space. And so I would just like to get another comment from you on the fact that although studies are showing most drivers know aggressive driving is a serious problem, they continue to do it. Why?

Thanks again. Hope all is well in Hawaii.

Cheers,
Lawrence

 


Date: Mon, 4 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: photo enforcement for speeders

I agree with you, Mr. S. Still, drivers can train themselves to control their speed, but it takes many hours, as I have discovered. Try it, you'll see.

Aloha,
Dr.James

 


Date: Mon, 4 Feb 2002
Subject: RE: Road Rage Article Interview

On Mon, 4 Feb 2002, Lawrence wrote:

> The editor of Westworld Is very pleased with the road rage article and has
> allocated some additional space. And so I would just like to get another
> comment from you on the fact that although studies are showing most drivers
> know aggressive driving is a serious problem, they continue to do it. Why?

Mr. Herzog,

In our book we discuss the "awareness gap" and the "definition gap" to explain this. The awareness gap refers to the fact that most aggressive drivers are not aware that they drive aggressively. They believe that others around them drive aggressively, but they do not. Example: When asked what percentage of times they drive aggressively, they say about 45% of the time. When asked What percent of drivers are aggressive on the road, they say 85%. There is thus a 40% gap, indicating the extent to which people are not aware they drive aggressively.

The definition gap refers to the fact that the majority of drivers do not define as aggressive driving some of the behaviors they engage in, even though aggressive driving laws designate these behaviors as aggressive driving. Example--see this Table from our book on the percentage of drivers who do NOT consider these behaviors as aggressive:

Making obscene gestures 14 30

Passing on the shoulder 17 38

Failing to yield to merging traffic 17 42

Flashing high beams at other drivers 32 40

Speeding up to a yellow light 42 50

Changing lanes without signaling 42 47

Blocking the left (passing) lane 45 53

(first number applies to National sample; second number to Los Angeles only)

These numbers show the definition gap since all these behaviors are considered aggressive driving by law enforcement, but not so by these drivers.

Hope this is what you wanted.

Aloha,
Leon James

 


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: RE: Road Rage Article Interview

Thank you very kindly, Dr. James. This is very valuable information for the article and I am grateful for you assistance once again.

Regards,
Lawrence

 


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: A study?

Dear Dr. Nahl and Dr. James,

I'm reviewing the Road Rage chapter for little things, and came across some statistics, specifically:

Research shows the average commute in the United States is 32 minutes.  Driving in the fast lane generally saves about 10 percent of that time. So, the average commuter who rushes, gets to his destination only 3 or 4 minutes ahead of the slower driver. Don^Òt believe it? Time yourself and see.

Is it possible to get a copy of the study faxed? Or if you could give me a citation, that would be helpful.

Thank you in advance for your help.

Sincerely,
Deb

 


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: speed limits and speeding

Dear Professor James:

I was the auto editor at Consumer Reports for 29 years until my retirement in 1999. Since then, I have been working on a book on driving^Ë^Ëspecifically, driving fast and assertively, but competently and courteously.

Some months ago, you were quoted in a newspaper story (alas, I didn¹t save the clipping, though I made a note of your comment). You estimated that 9 out of 10 American drivers exceed the speed limit. I was hoping to discuss that with you.

First, of course, I¹d like to confirm that you did indeed make that statement. I have no doubt that it¹s true, at least from my own experience in the New York metro area, but I¹m curious whether your estimate was intuitive or based on research. Also, do those 9 out of 10 drivers exceed the limit occasionally or regularly? And can you give me any insight into how state and federal statistics are managing to cover up this widespread flouting of the law? The compliance figures issued by various agencies seem quite incredible.

If you can spare the time, please e-mail me to let me know when I could conveniently telephone you. Or if you prefer, you can reach me at 914 693-0882. I¹m working from home, so you may call as late as about 11 pm eastern time. If I quote you, I¹ll clear the wording with you before I submit it for publication.

Thanks for your consideration.

Alex


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: When you were offline...

I sure wish they'd look at this issue. Hell, I had a car come up extremely fast from way down the road and I was coming to a red stop light. They tried to get around me, but I sped up so they wouldn't hit my car and slowed down to let them know there was a light there. They finally got out of the no-pass yellow left lane and pulled back into the lane behind me finally turning right. What can one do if a person was to plow into the back of another's car and the idiots had no insurance? Press criminal charges? My mom had that happen to her, too. But she wasn't so lucky. An idiot woman did hit her car. Luckily, mine's never been hit yet. Only in the parking lot parked and when I got back to my car (this was long before today) its side was scraped and $300 worth damage and the culprit was gone. They should make it a high felony-road rage. It kills children, families, and innocent pedestrians. When will this country ever learn to protect the victims and not the criminals. I'm not

a fanatic, I'm just scared that one day it'll all catch up and hurt someone. How about you? Not just for me, but for other people's safety sake.


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: speed limits and speeding

Mr. M.,

My observations were based on my own driving history over the years: If I drive at precisely the speed limit what percent of cars behind pass me? I find consistently that less than 1 in 10 cars stays behind me, and therefore approximately 90 percent of drivers drive above the speed limit.

I found this to be the case on all types of roads at various speed limits. Of course this is not a statistical result in the usual sense but I predict that my own observations will be confirmed. I do not know of any research that tracks driver speed on a continuous basis and relates it to posted limits. That's the kind of data we would need to prove the point.

Aloha,
Leon James


Date: Tue, 5 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: A study?

Commute times are reported in each region around the U.S. The figure we give is an average. If you want more specific results, take a look at these national and regional data:

http://www.sptimes.com/News/080601/Census/Getting_to_work_takes.shtml

http://www.ott.doe.gov/facts/archives/fotw180supp.shtml

http://www.berkeley.edu/news/berkeleyan/1996/0306/commute.html

http://newsobserver.com/standing/collections/roadworrier/1100000045099.html

http://denver.bcentral.com/denver/stories/2001/11/26/weekinbiz.html

http://www.psrc.org/datapubs/pubs/trends/t11trend.htm

http://www.ocedc.com/commute.html

http://www.heritage.org/cd_ranking/58time.html

Hope this helps.

Aloha,
Leon James
Diane Nahl
DrDriving.org

Google
 

Date: Wed, 6 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: A study?

Dear Dr. James and Dr. Nahl,

Thank you for the links and for your time. This should be perfect!

Sincerely,
Deb

 


Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2002
Subject: Music and driving

Dear Dr James and Dr Nahl

I am a final year part-time mature student (actually at 55 I am 'mature' all the time but a student part-time!) in applied psychology at the University of Leeds in the UK. My final year project concerns music, mood and driver behaviour. I would like permission to quote from your very useful website in my report. I would, of course, quote the reference but it is so good to find a reality based website and it has been of great interest. The experiment I am running involves using the university driving simulator and introducing 3 conditions of no music, stimulating music and calming music as participants undertake a car following exercise on the simulator. I do hope you can give me permission to quote your material.

Regards

Ruth (Mrs)

 


Date: Wed, 6 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Music and driving

Yes, you have my permission. Your study sounds interesting--good luck.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: interview request

Mr. Washington, the address is:

http://DrDriving.org/surveys/

Give the Find Command (Edit Menu) for Texas and you'll get to the first mention. Then do it 11 more times if you want to get all the passages where I mention Texas.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Quick question about auto collisions...

Greetings from California, Dr. Driving! I have been visiting/enjoying your web page for nearly 2 years.  I'm writing because I'm working on a research grant on traffic congestion (due to distractions such as billboards, crashed vehicles, rubber-necking...). I'm trying to gather information on secondary collisions, yet I can hardly find any literature on the subject.

Would you, by any chance, know where one could find information on on secondary collisions, or at the very least, any keywords relating to them that might help my search? I've already spent 4.5 hours searching, and have found very little.

Any advice you could give would be GREATLY appreciated.

Fondest regards,

Michael
Research Assistant Extraordinaire (:

 


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Quick question about auto collisions...

Mr. Gage,

I typed in "secondary collisions" at google.com and got some interesting articles. Try it.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Quick question about auto collisions...

Thanks so much for your suggestion... but it led me to more airbag and molecular/atomic stuff. I've been sifting through that for hours.  Frustrating.  I'm almost ready to give up.

Again, thanks so much for you time. I shall attempt to journey onwards.

-Mike

 


Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2002
Subject: "From your tprintro.html File" -

Hey, I've read the page

http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy/traffic/otsc.html#rehab

and I loved it! I've just turned the corner on a serious speeding addiction. Luckily I'm also very interested in what makes a "good" driver, so your page really stimulated me. All made sense.

Tom.

 


Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2002
Subject: traffic psychology

Thanks, Mr. S. I hope you have a chance to explore our DrDriving.org site and read our book.

Aloha,
Leon James

 


Date: Wed, 6 Feb 2002
Subject: interview request

Dr. James:

My name is Jesse; I'm writing a story for the Houston press about auto accidents in Houston, TX. We have the highest rate of accidents in Texas. One factor that has been cited for our high rate f accidents is anger behind the wheel. I'd like to talk to you about this topic.

I'm not sure what time it is is Hawaii compared to Houston (we're in the Central time zone). Please let me know a good time and number to call.

Thanks...

Jesse


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/409ss98/ching/report1.html

> Thanks Mr. M, for bringing this to my attention. All the affected
> reports were removed until they can be edited to remove the email id of
> quoted newsgroups messages.

Thanks for that. By the way - I've just looked at your website and had a go at the Driver Personality survey.

Interesting, but a couple of points are:

1) The website is *very* garish! In my point of view (of course):

a) There is too much information on a single page - Better to use a tree structure and have a means of navigating between branches.  Perhaps use frames?

b) There are too many colours being used at one time. Makes it difficult to pick out information of particular interest.

c) Use BOLD fonts only where needed. As with b), this makes it difficult to pick out what *really* needs to be emphasized.

d) All of the above make it very difficult to find links that one has already followed, but would like to re-visit!

2) In the survey it is not clear what you mean by the terms such as 'give them a scare', 'teach them a lesson' and 'vigilante drivers'. I can imagine what you mean, but I consider that I carry out actions such as this by reporting bad driving to the police. It appears that, in the UK, if    driver is reported for bad driving on more than one occasion by members of the public then the police will visit them to talk to them about it. If there are witnesses, then a prosecution may started.

Hope this helps. I have tried to be constructive in criticising the website as I'm sure there is a lot of very useful information there. Unfortunately I think the appearance will cause a lot of it to be missed.

All the best

john
Best Regards
John


Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2002
Subject: remodeled

Thank you Mr. M. I'm afraid your assessment about the old site is correct. However DrDriving.org site has now received a complete facelift, if you care to explore it.

Aloha,
Leon James

 


Date: Sat, 9 Feb 2002
Subject: ROAD RAGE BOOK RECOMMENDED

Just to let you know that today I recommended your Road Rage book to the Car Talk guys. On their show this morning a woman called to ask why her kind, mild-mannered husband turned into a monster behind the wheel.

Click and Clack said they knew of many people like this and hoped listeners would respond with ideas about why drivers drive with rage and what to do about it. Aloha, Ellen

 


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: remodeled

> Thank you Mr. McCabe. I'm afraid your assessment about the old site is
> correct. However DrDriving.org site has now received a complete facelift,
> if you care to explore it.

I'm impressed - what a difference. That was quick! It's certainly easier to read and to see your way around. Well done.

Best Regards
John

 


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: ROAD RAGE BOOK RECOMMENDED

Thanks Ellen! We need that help to get the message out. BTW, the site is redesigned and still needs work, looks more corporate and less individualistic. aloha, Diane

Dr. Diane Nahl, University of Hawai'i at Manoa
Information and Computer Sciences, Library and Information Science Program
2550 The Mall, Honolulu, HI 96822
www2.hawaii.edu/~nahl   voice: 808-956-5809 FAX: 808-956-5835

 


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Singing while you drive.

Hello Dr. James,

I just read a little blurb in The February 19 issue of Women's World that quotes you as saying "studies show that any kind of singing relaxes the body" and "Singing relaxes your breathing pattern, so you draw more stress-reducing oxygen into your lungs."

Could you be so kind as to tell me where I could find the studies and research that addresses this? Have you yourself written anything on singing and road rage, or singing in general while driving? I am a singer and am forever trying to collect information about the many different ways singing is beneficial.

Thanks for your time, and I think what you are doing around road rage is very timely and very good. Are you now thinking about doing the same for air rage?

Thanks,

Meredith

 


Date: Sat, 9 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: teen drivers

Ms. S,

Nice hearing from you again. I'd be happy to discuss the teen driver psychology issues you raise. You can call me Mo-Fr 8:30 to 10:30 AM (1:30 to 3:30 Philadelphia time):

808-261-2382

Here are a few relevant selections from our book, as a prelude:

CHAPTER 9: LIFELONG DRIVER EDUCATION

Teenagers at Risk

Teach teenagers in high school driver's education class how to be non-aggressive. Show them plenty of videos of fatal car accidents with the blood and gore that was caused by aggressiveness behind the wheel.  (Teenage male)  

Most adolescents look forward to getting a driver's license. But the love affair between teenagers and cars is often deadly. Car crashes kill more young people 15 to 20 years old than any other cause. About 14 percent (8,054) of drivers involved in fatal crashes in 1996 were 15-20 years old. Most of the fatalities of inexperienced 16-year old drivers are the result of driver error (8 out of 10 crashes).

According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, a 16-year-old driver is 42% more likely to be involved in a crash than a 17-year-old who has just one additional year of driving experience. In 1996, 16-year-old drivers were involved in 10,337 crashes, while the crash rate was two-thirds less for 17-year-olds (3,229). Parents are right to be concerned about these alarming statistics, since nearly half of the 16-year-olds in the U.S. hold a driver's license.

Besides inexperience in handling emergencies, young drivers often engage in more risky behaviors. Research sponsored by the International Association For Accident and Traffic Medicine (IAATM) shows that inexperience combines with immaturity and risky driving practices to increase the fatal crashes of 16-year-old drivers. Researchers examined the nighttime fatal crashes of 16-year-old drivers in California between 1989-1994 using police reports and newspaper accounts.

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 The data indicate that the crashes of 16-year-olds are more often single vehicle events, more likely to result from driver error, involve speeding and higher passenger occupancy rates (often other teenagers).

In response to the appalling statistics and the mounting concern over teen drivers, many states and some countries have instituted a graduated licensing approach that provides for several licensing phases: learner's permit, intermediate or provisional license, and then full license.

A graduated licensing system supervises young, novice drivers in progressively more difficult motoring experiences at a controlled pace. Proponents believe that the more supervised practice teen drivers obtain the more experience they gain, so it is less likely they will be involved in a crash. Since young people typically have difficulty resisting peer influence to take risks and show bravado, proponents also hope more supervision will help build safer attitudes. Restrictions may include:

Six months of crash-free, conviction-free driving

Zero tolerance for alcohol

No driving between midnight and 6:00 a.m. without authorization

Provisional color-coded drivers' licenses

Successful completion of a driver education course

During the permit stage at age 15 or 16, young drivers must be supervised by an adult, pass a drivers' education course, and remain conviction-free to proceed to the next level. The provisional or intermediate license includes on-road testing and a requirement to remain citation-free for the license period. Other restrictions often apply, such as more supervised driving and a curfew or prohibition against late-night driving. The third stage of full licensing occurs after successful completion of the first two stages and includes a zero-tolerance alcohol law. After New Zealand adopted a graduated licensing system, studies showed that the injury and fatality rated among young drivers decreased. By 1999, 20 states had enacted some form of graduated licensing.

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Clearly, the need for driver education is high especially among teens, yet states rarely require it or fund it at insufficient levels.   Driving courses are seldom available in public schools, and those that offer courses cannot meet the demand. Private driving schools often service the courts as a form of re-education or rehabilitation for driving offenses. Officials frequently comment that the weakening of society's resolve to deliver driver education knowledge is associated with the worsening driving environment. The American Driver and Traffic Safety Association believes that the majority of drivers are rude, simply ignoring traffic rules. In the 1970s 90 percent of people took drivers' education courses, while today, it's 35 percent:

Driving instructors say it's hard to preach proper driving when so few practice it. In a survey of more than 1,000 adults, the consumer coalition found that 64 percent believed people are driving much less courteously and safely than five years ago. The solutions they offered include more driver education, warnings or tickets from law enforcement officers and refresher driving courses for all adults similar to those required in some states for senior citizens. 

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In addition to teaching their kids to drive skillfully and appropriately, parents can take steps to help prevent or reduce the number of crashes involving teen drivers:

We need to target children aged 11-15 for education, and follow up with kids later--they are learning aggressive driving behavior from day one, even from parents who only get angry occasionally. Parents have to tell their kids at a young age that they are wrong when they overreact to mistakes made by other drivers. We all need to remember and recognize that everyone makes mistakes sometimes--assume that the person who angers you either didn't do it on purpose, or is a misguided soul who should be pitied, not hated. (Middle aged woman) For example, parents can:

Supervise the teen's driving time

Give the teen sufficient supervised practice during the learner's permit period and throughout the first year of licensed driving

Put a limit on the number of passengers allowed

Limit the teen's driving during periods of increased risk such as weekends and particular holidays such as New Year's Eve

Establish a curfew

Insist that the teen and passengers wear safety belts

Set limits on the areas and locales where the teen is permitted to drive

Prohibit the teen from driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol

Encourage the teen to use good judgment both as a driver and as passenger

Be a good role model as a driver

The potential for a crash can heighten with aggressive driving, driver inexperience, and inappropriate interaction with passengers. Along with parent supervision, graduated licensing allows initial driving experience to accumulate under less hazardous conditions, and prohibits recreational, nighttime driving that has proven to be particularly dangerous for young, beginning drivers. Driving instructors are aware that teenagers often lack the ability to exercise rational control over their behavior when driving a vehicle in a reckless manner. Today's more complex driving conditions demand that traditional driver education be re-designed to incorporate judgement and self-control in addition to the rules of the road and handling techniques.

(etc.)

The above is from our book

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Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: Driving comfort zone

Hi Dr. Driving,

I was wondering if you know of any good technical papers or references that discuss the "comfort zone" analogous to the concept of distances people use to separate themselves from others (e.g., intimate, personal, social-consultative, public) of driving and of drivers. I am familiar with the concept of headway, but thought you might have some insights.

Thanks,

Erik


Date: Sat, 9 Feb 2002
Subject: enquiry about In Car System

Hello,

My name is Shojiro, and I actually contacted with you 2 years ago for my project focusing on a beahviour of motorcyclists England.

I am about to apply for a PhD at Institute for Transport Studies in The University of Leeds in England. I have been doing a research for my potential PhD study concerning : New developments of In-Car Systems which have been designed by the motor manufacturers to reduce driver errors, lapses or the effect of stress might not appear to have considered the detailed responses of drivers with different psychological profiles (driving styles) to these systems.

However, I have done MSc in Occupational Psychology and I am currently out of the circle of the study which I am interested in now. I have checked Nissan and Ford's website to see if any innovations going on the field, however I can see it as a commercial purpose....

I am wondering if you know and introduce me any websites discussing the effectiveness of In Car Systems for human errors.
I am looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Shojiro

See DrDriving's page on Bicycling


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Singing while you drive.

Hi, Meredith,

There still are no research studies that I know of on singing and driving, so we have to go by anecdotal and observational evidence of individuals under informal conditions. And also--logic and common sense.  I keep whatever information I have on music, singing, and driving on this Web location--check it out:

http://DrDriving.org/articles/gender.htm

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Driving comfort zone

Sorry, Mr. Olson, I'm not familiar with such research. In general there is very little literature on most interesting driving issues. But maybe this might change in the future.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Sun, 10 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: enquiry about In Car System

Hi, Shojiro,

Nice hearing from you again. I'm sorry but I'm not familiar with this type of research. It might be that driving simulators have looked at this, but I doubt, knowing the paucity of research on any driver related variables.

Good luck in your search.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Mon, 11 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Singing while you drive.

Hi Leon,

Thank you so much for your prompt response. I appreciate it very much. I shall check out the website you gave me.

Meredith

 


Date: Mon, 11 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Singing while you drive. (fwd)

>From the International Index to Music Periodicals. Other periodical indexes/databases may have more. Your local college or university librarians can help you find more.  The search terms were: singing and health

Fisher, Maria Jo

Document Title: Sing for Your Health

Publication: The Voice of Chorus America 24:4 [Summer 2001] cover, 10

Abstract: Reports on a study conducted by the University of California, Irvine, that measured the amounts of disease-fighting proteins in the saliva of choir members before, during, and after rehearsals, and at one performance of Beethoven's "Missa Solemnis." States that the study found that the levels of one antibody used to fight disease, Immunoglobulin A, increased 150% after the rehearsals and 240% after the performance.

Discusses three other findings: (1) the immune system rises from a baseline level after extended amounts of singing, (2) this is heightened during a performance, and (3) the more passionate a singer feels, the more this effect is heightened.

Document Type: Research and Analysis
Subject Categories: Music and Other Disciplines Vocal Music

Subject Terms: Diseases
Health
Immune System
Performances
Singing

University of California Irvine
Publisher(s): Chorus America
Country of Publication: USA
Language: English
ISSN: 1074-0805

Scientific report on the same study. The search terms were: singing and immune system

Beck, Robert J
Cesario, T C
Enamoto, H
Yousefi, A

Document Title: Choral Singing, Performance Perception, and Immune System Changes in Salivary Immunoglobulin A and Cortisol

Publication: Music Perception 18:1 [Fall 2000] 87-106

Abstract: Reports that in a naturalistic pre-post design, samples of saliva were collected from the members of a professional chorale during an early rehearsal, a late rehearsal and a public performance of Beethoven's "Missa Solemnis." Notes that as measures of immune system response, mean levels of secretory immunoglobulin A increased significantly, as a proportion of whole protein, 150% during rehearsals and 240% during the performance. Indicates that cortisol concentrations decreased significantly an average of 30% during rehearsals and increased 37% during performance. Concludes that as measured through performance perception rating scales, a group of emotions and other experiential states that singers associated with professional singing were highly predictive of changes in level of secretory immunoglobulin A during the performance condition, but the results for the rehearsal condition were not significant. Includes references.

Document Type: Research and Analysis
Subject Categories: Music and Other Disciplines Vocal Music

Subject Terms: Choral Music
Cognitive Psychology
Emotions
Immune System
Music Perception
Music Psychology
Musicology
Performances
Physiology
Professional Musicians
Rehearsals
Singing
Stage Fright
Statistical Analysis
Stress (Psychological)

Publisher(s): University of California Press
Country of Publication: USA
Language: English
ISSN: 0730-7829

Dr. Diane Nahl, University of Hawai'i at Manoa
Information and Computer Sciences, Library and Information Science Program


Date: Tue, 12 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Singing while you drive.

Hello again Leon,

Thanks again, this time for passing on the info to Diane. The info she sent me is very exciting! How wonderful to think that as we sing it's possible our immune systems are benefitted.

All the best,

Meredith


Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002
Subject: teen drivers

Dear Dr. James,

My name is Susan and I spoke with you about a year ago concerning road rage. You were very gracious and generous with your time and information and I wrote a column for the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette based on the information you gave me. I believe you included the work in your list of articles about you on your web site.

I'm back to ask you for help once again. This time, I'm writing about how adults can help teens be safer drivers. We recently saw four teenagers die tragically when they were out "joy riding," for pathetic lack of a better phrase.

They weren't drinking and no trace of drugs was found in them, but the driver simply let loose on a country road and crashed into an embankment and another car while driving around 80 mph. All four teens in that car died and the driver of the other car was injured but not seriously.

From my perspective as a rather typical person, I know that there is a wildness that comes with adolescence and there is a great increase in some teens in their willingness to take risks. From my limited knowledge of psychology, I know that teens go through a very natural and necessary process of detaching from the authority of their parents. It's that stage where parents tend to try to maintain the controls they've had all along (or at least thought they had) and kids try to disentangle themselves from that control.

Is this playing a part in how some kids drive? Is the freedom of being in control of a car causing them to take more risks? And could you talk about this feeling of immortality that teens have?

Once you kinda define what's going on in teens, can we help people understand what can be done? The high school these kids attended had drivers' ed programs, and they had the Pennsylvania Department of Transportation's safety officer in several times to talk about driving hazards. The Pennsylvania State Police have also run programs, so it seems that despite everyone's best efforts, teens aren't listening.

Can you help me with this one? I'll leave my number or I can call you, if you prefer. It was a pleasure working with you before, Dr. James, and I hope to do so again soon.

Thank you,
Susan

 


Date: Wed, 13 Feb 2002
Subject: ENCYC SOC BEHAV SCIENCES

Hi - thought you'd be interested to know of a new publication. You are in the index, under Jakobovits and James, referencing several volumes.

Title: International encyclopedia of the social & behavioral sciences / editors-in-chief Neil J. Smelser, Paul B. Baltes.

Publisher: Amsterdam ; New York : Elsevier, 2001. 26 vols.
Call Number: Ref. H41 .I58 2001
Location: UH Manoa: Hamilton Main Reference-Library Use Only

Aloha, Ellen

 


Date: Wed, 13 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: tight parking spaces

Ms. Lum, the parking rage site is at

http://DrDriving.org/rages/parking.htm

Let me select a few things on that page that relate to parking rage:

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The Psychology of Parking Rage

DrDriving's Threestep Program For Prevention

by Leon James and Diane Nahl

Parking rage is very common. Most drivers experience anger and frustration in busy parking lots on busy days at busy times. This frustration and anger needs to be dealt with, or else it comes out into the open as a hostile or aggressive act. Once you express anger or hostility towards others, you have lost control of the situation because you never know how the other is going to react. If you don't express your anger you retain control over the situation.

Parking lot fights are territoriality disputes, turf wars, or power struggles, and are carried out as symbolic fights that arouses our pride, stubbornness, and negative stereotypes. There is a general lack of civility in public places along with a cultural "in-the-face" attitude that goes with a sense of entitlement to do as we please and to retaliate when we're displeased. People use various words to describe what happens to a car parked next to another car: the car was dinged, banged, bumped, gouged, nicked, scatched, keyed, and others.

We can all reduce our stress and aggressive reactions by following the threestep program we describe in our book: Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare.

Step1: Acknowledge

This is the hardest step. We need to come clean and confess that we are aggressive on parking lots and our emotions are out of control. Even our thinking needs to get more emotionally intelligent. People resist this first step out of pride, stubborness, and a sense of entitlement of doing what we please in public places.

Step 2: Witness

Be a Witness to yourself. Self-witnessing of your emotions, thoughts, and behavior are essential so that you can get to know yourself objectively and not rely on the reputation you have of yourself--which thends to be superlative since we are excellent drivers ourselves but it's the other driver who is incompetent. By monitoring your thoughts and feelings while you are in a parking lot or some other venue where people park, like the street in front of someone's house.

After witnessing yourself you have an accurate idea of what ticks you off, when you get frustrated or angry, how you retaliate, what you think, how you reason, how you behave, what you do with your face and hands, what your mouth is saying. 

Step 3: Modify

One baby step at a time. For each parking episode decide in advance what you're going to modify on that occasion--whether some way you act or some thought or emotion you experience. Consciously switch from an angry response to a supportive response. Think of parking as a community activity in which all involved can participate together positively and with mutual support.

Try different things, especially, gving up the compulsion to park as near as possible in the most overcrowded areas. What's wrong with walking for 60 seconds? Disconnect your ego and pride from it. Be conscious of the "Law of Least Effort" that gets people to circle around for 15 minutes instead of park further and walk for 2 minutes. Keep a Parking Diary in which you take notes about your progress and your lapses.  

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PARKING LOT RAGE

Advice from DrDriving

PARKING AGGRESSIVENESS SYNDROME

Parking aggressiveness is made of the following 15 behaviors. This Scale can indicate how aggressive is your parking persona and what type of parking personality makeover you need.

Ask yourself how many of these bad parking behaviors apply to you on a regular basis.  feeling stress and impatience when parking in a crowded area having denigrating thoughts about other drivers or pedestrians acting in a hostile manner (staring, presenting a mean face, moving faster or closer than expected)  

parking much slower than the rest of the people 

not yielding or giving up when it's the polite thing to do 

driving on the left of a crowded lane where most cars drive on the right 

muttering at other drivers, pedestrians, or parking attendants touching or bumping into other cars leaving behind scratches or paint spots

not apologizing when expected (after bumping by accident or coming very close in attempting to pass)

making insulting gestures or leaving behind insulting notes

hogging or blocking the lane, acting uncaring or unaware

expressing pedestrian rage against a driver (scratching, insulting, or throwing something)

feeling enraged at pedestrians or drivers and enjoying thoughts of violence

feeling competitive with other drivers, hating to give something up

These 14 bad behaviors define the parking aggressiveness syndrome. They are all significantly intercorrelated. This means that if you do one of them regularly, you will also do many of the other 14 on a regular basis.

You need a parking personality overhaul!

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Ms. Lum, you will also find several other articles by others on parking rage. It's all included on that page.

On top of the screen, left, you have other articles, as well as particulars about me and Dr. Nahl, in case it's relevant. You can also call me any time at 261-2382 for more information.

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Now let me quote a few passages from our book dealing with parking:

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THE BOOK:

Leon James, Ph.D. and Diane Nahl, Ph.D.
Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare
(Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books, 2000)

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Parking rage:

On April 2 [1998], a Cal State student almost died over a parking space.

The suspect, whose name is being withheld, became involved in a verbal argument with another student, who was driving a Porsche, after parking his GMC truck. The driver of the Porsche then stabbed the GMC owner in the torso four times as he walked away.

A new permissiveness frees more people to become openly enraged in a wide variety of public places, sometimes in jest, sometimes in horrific mayhem.

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Daily Titan Interactive,

http://dailytitan.fullerton.edu/issues/spring_98/dti_04_15/news/parkingrage.html

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Two researchers at Penn State university observed people in a shopping mall parking lot as they were leaving.2 They noticed that departing drivers (both men and women) took eleven seconds longer to vacate their spot when someone else was waiting for the space than when no one was there. Even the implication of "pressure" by just waiting can evoke resistance. Instead of hurrying up, they tend to take longer. This power-based behavior is counterproductive because it takes longer for them to leave and engenders hostile reactions. So why do people do it? They investigated the issue further by sending in cars driven by a student who honked at the departing driver. Drivers who were honked at took even longer to depart than drivers who were not honked at. The researchers attribute this "territorial behavior" to people's desire to proclaim rightful occupancy of a space. When this right is questioned by a hostile honking motorist the tendency is to reaffirm rightful ownership, and this is accomplished by taking even longer to vacate the place because the power struggle is the focus.

Passive-aggressive road ragers can also be pedestrians, cyclists, and passengers:

She always bugged me whenever I gave her a ride home up the hill. It's a winding road with lots of switchbacks, and she'd always brace herself by slamming her hand on the dashboard at every turn, as if she would fall over. Why couldn't she just hold the door handle like everyone else? Why does she have to make a scene on every turn? I couldn't stand driving her because of that. She never said anything, and neither did I, but I silently resented her during our rides, so I wasn't really outwardly nice either, I just acted like I was in a bad mood. (Young woman)

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Even a simple trip to the shopping mall can be upsetting when one is emotionally unprepared to handle crowded conditions:

On a Saturday afternoon during a sale at the mall, I arrived at the parking structure. Glancing at all the cars circling round and round looking for parking made me cringe. I knew I was doomed. As usual, I started off in my calm, cool, and collective manner. However, after circling around 15 times looking for parking, my blood pressure began to rise.

After circling a few more times, my patience ran very thin and once again I became angry and hostile. I felt like eliminating all the people in sight. I kept thinking: "Why does everyone have to shop at this mall at this particular time?" It frustrated me that I couldn't start shopping until my car was properly parked, but there were no spaces available. Every time I saw people walking to their car, it was located behind me. Or else they would just drop off their packages and head back for another round of purchasing. My two famous quotes for the occasion: "This is CRAZY!" and "I hate these people!" I was wasting my time looking for parking space when in fact I could've been looking for a nice pair of jeans.

She's obsessed by the idea that she's wasting time finding a parking space rather than making purchases. Unfortunately, her mind has set up a no-win situation that is torturous. She separated the act of the purchase from the act of parking and this illogical distinction only allowed her to torment herself. Verbal road rage seldom works to achieve goals and increases strife.

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Checklist: Your Verbal Road Rage Tendency

The following statements were taken from self-witnessing reports of drivers. Check each statement that normally applies to you behind the wheel.

1. ___ Hey fool, get out of the way.

2. ___ What's wrong with this driver? I can't believe how slow he's going.

3. ___ Nope, I won't let you sneak into my lane.

4. ___ Hey, what's the big rush. Don't be so pushy.

5. ___ I'd like to see you squirm, you pushy geek.

6. ___ Did that scare you? Good. I hope it teaches you a lesson.

7. ___ I'm tailgating you now. Pay you back. So who's the smart one, huh?

8. ___ Figures, it's a woman. Women can't drive for #%*! (also said about different social class, orientation, ethnic identity, and age groups)

9. ___ I hope you break your neck!

10. ___ Who do you think you are, creep?

11. ___ Get a life!

12. ___ Look, that airhead left his blinker on.

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Aggressive Competitor

Competition is seen as a good thing in America, but lethal and dangerous on the road, taking others' lives into hands, risking others and self.

Some drivers are so competitive that they need to be in the lead at all times, and feel a sense of loss and rising anxiety if another car passes them. There are those who, when they make a mistake, are deeply embarrassed and worry about what other drivers might think. But when other drivers make a mistake, it's their turn to ridicule them. We do this automatically, by cultural habit and childhood upbringing. Getting a parking space brings a sense of victory and superiority, while missing one leaves can leave us with a sharp sense of personal defeat. It's not unusual for someone to get depressed over losing a parking space to a competitor shopper. But we pay a high price for this type of gaming. Compulsive competitiveness is an ego-centered orientation that shreds everyone's nerves and by provoking a simplistic game of winners and losers, it contributes significantly to driver rage.

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Exercise: Identifying Wrong Assumptions

As additional practice in debunking oppositional thinking, consider the following letter we received.

Hello, I was arrested for DUI because I was sitting in a parked car in a parking lot when a public safety officer came up behind me and started blowing the horn at me. I was not in an actual parking space but pulled off to the side where I was not blocking traffic. People had been passing me for half an hour when this guy pulled directly behind me and started blowing the horn.

I was not driving nor was I planning on it but was sitting in the driver's seat listening to a game with a friend. After blowing the horn back, he blew again. I then got out and asked him why the @#$* he was blowing the horn at me. He told me to move my car into a parking space. I got irate that he blew the horn to tell me, when he could have pulled beside me to ask me.

After he told me to move the car, I did. He then realized I was drunk and I had him really mad by now asking him why he was blowing the horn instead of going around if I was not blocking traffic. He then called in five other public safety officers, who weren't even there when it happened. All they knew was that I was drunk. They tested me, hand cuffed me, and took me to jail. I did lose my temper but I feel I was provoked.  It has cost me $2000 and a company vehicle. I go to court next month. What do you think? (From a correspondent in 1999)

Now re-read each paragraph and identify the wrong assumptions this young man makes. When you're finished, check to see if you noted these points.

In paragraph one, he ignores the crucial distinction a safety officer must make between someone being parked in a designated parking space or not. He fails to empathize with the officer's duty and perspective, and considers only his own perspective that he was not blocking the way. In paragraph two, he fails to note the significance of his "blowing the horn back" as a gesture of non-compliance. He then compounds the oppositional behavior by leaving his car and confronting the officer in a belligerent manner. His focus is egocentric ("he blew the horn to tell me, when he could have pulled beside me to ask me") and ignores the officer's official role and legitimate behavior. He focuses on style and symbolism, not substance and function. In paragraph three, he has not backed down and continues to escalate, failing to focus on his legal state of intoxication. Even now, as he wrote the letter he has failed to come to terms with his oppositional thinking, its symptoms and consequences.

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Well, that should be enough, Ms. Lum. Good luck with your special program series on traffic hell!

Aloha,
Dr. Leon James
Dr. Diane Nahl

 


Date: Thu, 14 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: media query - Cosmopolitan on deadline

On Thu, 14 Feb 2002, melissa wrote:

> A recent AP article notes that agressive driving among teenage girls
> seems to be increasing (as evidenced by their increasing rates of auto
> accidents);

Hi Ms. G,

Yes, this trend has been noted, though it's not clear what causes it. One explanation is that young women drive more than they did before and so this puts them at greater risk than before. Also, they drive at a younger age. Also, there is less driver education than before. Finally, they are naturally influenced by parents and boyfriends (who are aggressive drivers) and by the media that portray women drivers doing what men do--and getting away with it.

> I have read over
> the results of the two surveys on your website, and if you agree that
> the following is accurate based upon their results, I would like to
> report the following:
>
> "surveys on road rage have noted an increase over the past several
> years in aggressive driving habits like speeding, tailgating, and
> gesturing at fellow drivers among 20-and-30 something females."

Yes, this is correct.

> Please note that I will also make clear that men still outdistance
> women in regard to road rage rates, but the gap may be closing.

It's worth pointing out that the road rage men have is not the same as the road rage women have. The proportion of men who commit assault in road rage cases is 9 to 1 in relation to women. Even if a woman flips someone off or yells and insults another driver, the meaning of it is not the same as when a man does these things. That's because when a man does these things there is an threat of violence behind them, but not so when a woman does them. Women do not pose a road rage threat to other drivers even if they behave aggressively on the outside. On the inside their show of aggressiveness is not backed up with an equal intention to become violent.  And that makes a big difference.

> I'd
> also like to get your estimate, since I know you're the pre-eminent
> source on this subject, of how many deaths per year might be
> attributed to road rage.

The answer varies with how one defines road rage. The older definition is to consider only assault and battery due to a duel between two drivers. By this definition experts estimate about 1,200 cases per year. Others define road rage as any hostile action in a duel between drivers--insults, threats, chasing, blocking, suddenly breaking, stopping and arguing--as in the famous Simpson case a few months ago in Florida: He stopped, argued, reached into the car and took the man's glasses. There was no evidence Simpson intended or performed any violent act, yet it was called road rage in the media.

We explain these issues in our book and relate it to gender, type of car, children, health, media, parking, legislation, law enforcement, and what's the best driving philosophy to adopt, and how. Perhaps you might like to mention the book for those who want to find out more.

Well, I hope this helps. Good luck. Feel free to write again, or call.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Wed, 13 Feb 2002
Subject: DRIVE YOURSELF HAPPY

Dear Drs. James and Nahl,

A while back I found your website as I was working on my book and found your work to be most interesting. I find that I will be in Hawaii from March 29 - April 5 so I was motivated to connect with you. I am happy to announce that my book, Drive Yourself Happy, is finally complete and may be of interest to you given the focus of your book and your work. I am eager to learn more. If your schedule permits, perhaps we can meet, or at least share a few moments on the phone.

Travel lighthearted,

Rhonda Hull, Ph.D.

 


Date: Tue, 12 Feb 2002
Subject: Greetings!

We have met with our local District Attorney, who will prosecute dangerous and overly-aggressive drivers with our video tapes. We have introduced ourselves to local law enforcement agencies, who have given us a thumbs-up to proceed. We have begun "The Traffic Surveillance Team".

Please check out our page at

http://hometown.aol.com/roadsurveillance/index.html

Your thoughts are welcomed and invited. We would also like to know if we could get your permission to refer to your site on our page.

Since we have begun, we have had an article printed in the Aspentimes.com on January 16th, 2002 (page 3) and have since done radio interviews on radio stations (from Seskatchewan to Denver), and have received requests for interviews from CBS's Inside Edition, and an agent with 20/20. We have also received a resume' for the future.

We are currently a small group of volunteers (in desparate need of financial support), and will continue our efforts as long as possible. If you have any ideas, we would love to hear back from you.

Thank you in advance for your time,

Thomas E

The Traffic Surveillance Team

 


Date: Thu, 14 Feb 2002
Subject: media query - Cosmopolitan on deadline

Dear Dr. James:

I am contacting you on behalf of Cosmopolitan magazine because I am preparing an item on road rage for an upcoming issue's health column. A recent AP article notes that agressive driving among teenage girls seems to be increasing (as evidenced by their increasing rates of auto accidents); I aso noted on your website that you are quoted as saying that women in general are becoming increasingly aggressive behind the wheel (more 'seethers'). However, as our readers are in their 20s and 30s, I'd like to find out if there's any evidence that women in this age group are becoming more susceptible to road rage. I have read over the results of the two surveys on your website, and if you agree that the following is accurate based upon their results, I would like to report the following:

"surveys on road rage have noted an increase over the past several years in aggressive driving habits like speeding, tailgating, and gesturing at fellow drivers among 20-and-30 something females."

Please note that I will also make clear that men still outdistance women in regard to road rage rates, but the gap may be closing. I'd also like to get your estimate, since I know you're the pre-eminent source on this subject, of how many deaths per year might be attributed to road rage.

I'm sending this request via e-mail because our deadline is super-tight and I wanted to reach you as quickly as possible (I'm in Pa., on EST).

However, if you'd prefer to discuss by phone, I'd welcome the opportunity to do so today (Thurs, Feb 14) or as early Tuesday (my deadline day) as you might be able to. Many thanks for your patience and assistance; I

look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,

Melissa
for Cosmopolitan magazine

 


Date: Wed, 13 Feb 2002
Subject: tight parking spaces

Aloha:

My name is Stephanie. I am a news reporter with KHNL News 8 in Honolulu, Hawaii. I came across your website dedicated to the parking perils in Hawaii and am very interested in learning more about it for an upcoming news story topic.

I tried to access the links provided on your website however it didn't patch me through.

Hope to hear from you soon!

Stephanie


Date: Sun, 17 Feb 2002
Subject: Canada-US differences

Ms. Solyom,

here is the address of the table of differences in aggressive driving between states and provinces:

http://DrDriving.org/surveys/surv1_usacanada_bystate.htm

DrDriving's Web address your readers might like to visit for more information is DrDriving.org

Aloha,
Leon James
Diane Nahl
DrDriving.org

 


Date: Tue, 19 Feb 2002
Subject: Permission (fwd)

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Date: Tue, 19 Feb 2002 
Subject: Permission

Hello, I am a writer who is interested in writing articles for newspapers, newsletters etc. who is seeking permission to use selected information in my writing. Most of my writing is on health issues and I have also written books on Depression and Anxiety and as a Psychiatric Nurse, such issues are of great interest.

The issue of Road Rage is very much in the media and I believe it needs to be addressed. We have had a cyclist killed a few weeks ago and many others who have been injured or threatened on motorways but there is still a great deal of ignorance on the topic. I have not seen anything that addresses the problem as extensively and sensibly as your website.

Your permission would be greatly appreciated. Also could I please include your Website address in these articles for people to seek information?

Denise

 


Date: Tue, 19 Feb 2002
Subject: emotional spin cycle

Hi, Dr. Senay,

If your article is more general than road rage and driving, we should have mentioned our current book project and research on the daily emotional spin cycle. The title of our book is: Seeing Red, Feeling Blue and you can read about our project and research in this brand new Web article:

http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy16/g16reports-instructions.html

Also, if you want to look at our survey results for the rage-depression items, you can access our summary and charts through this file:

http://DrDriving.org/surveys/rage_depression.htm

Aloha,

Leon James
Diane Nahl
University of Hawaii

 


Date: Tue, 19 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: Permission

Ms. Scanlan,

You are welcome to quote from our Web site materials and book as long as you email me on which article you're quoting from and include a reference to our book or Web site for each quote in your article.

I agree that this would be a good topic for your focus and area--lots of health implications of course. Good luck in your project.

Aloha,
Leon James
DrDriving

 


Date: Tue, 19 Feb 2002
Subject: Hi Dr. James ( I'm an undergrad psychology student from W. Chester
Univ.)

Hi Dr. James,

I'm an undergraduate student at West Chester University in Pennsylvania. I am taking research methods this semester and I am interested in doing a meta-analysis of the current literature pertaining to "road rage" and testing a hypothesis that individuals who have a poor locus of internal control and a view of an unjust world are more frequently involved in incidents of "road rage". Any ideas or suggestions as to what areas of psychology, testing etc to focus on would be truly wonderful. I apologize if I have taken up your time for such an amateur idea but I came across your website while searching for journal articles and this is my first experience with traffic psychology of which i had no idea existed.

Thank you,

Edward K.
West Chester University


Date: Fri, 15 Feb 2002
Subject: Sources of Road Rage

Dear Dr. Driving,

We all know road rage is a major epidemic, but I have yet to see ONE article or study touch on the role played in the problem by local governments. We live in a global society where people are interested in events on the worldwide and national level, and sometimes state. Local politics are of little interest to them. As a result, some very, very weird people are able to get elected to local seats of power. Like condominium association members, a little power in the hands of a little person is a very dangerous thing.

Many localities have adopted some very sleazy and insidious practices, and Southern California is foremost among them. First, the practice of shortening the time span of yellow lights. The goal is to trigger the camera more frequently to be able to collecte more revenue through the citation process. This revenue is then divided between the local government and the private corporations who make and provide the cameras. The city makes money! So what if a few citizens die?

But the most disgusting practice is that of staggering the lights to  deliberately turn motorists into scofflaws. In major California cities such as Pasadena, Burbank and Santa Clarita, you experience this sequence on every major street:

1. You get trapped at a ridiculously long light.

2. The light turns green. You proceed at the posted speed limit.

3. The next signal turns red just as you arrive, trapping you behind the full time span of another inappropriately long light.

It doesn't take a PhD in psych to understand that this not only infuriates drivers, it causes them to either speed to make up for lost time or run the lights to break the cycle. The purpose is to entrap motorists into breaking the law so more citations are written. So what if, when motorists drive in a state of anger, run lights and speed, people die?

The aforementioned members of local government obviously don't care, feeling secure in their positions due to the apathy of the local voters.

As this practice spreads, some form of organized public back pressure will be necessary, and even Federal intervention.

John S.
Santa Clarita, CA

 


Date: Thu, 21 Feb 2002
Subject: Re: your question

Hi Dr. James,

Thank you so much for your response. In response to why i think a low locus of control may be a variable associated with aggressive driving behavior "road rage" is because of poor impulse control and thus the impulsive act of aggression. As for the unjust world view is in response to a finding in the research that subjects when asked why they reacted in an retaliatory manner to an aggressive driver was that they didn't want the person to get away with it and wanted justice. This reaction is relative to the severity of the situation. I predict that individuals with and unjust world view would likely be another variable in the profile of an aggressive driver.

Thank you for your suggestions on search terms and have redefined my operational defintions.   I have your book on order from our library.

It is wonderful to have your input. Thank you so much for your time it helps more than you can imagine!:)

Thank you,

Edward K.

 


Date: Thu, 21 Feb 2002
Subject: OK here it is

Hi Ed,

I've created a brief page that you can just copy and paste into your Guide site. Let me know if this is suitable.

Aloha,

Leon

 


Date: Fri, 22 Feb 2002

Attached is an article that has been circulated to media outlets, agents, brokers and other interested stakeholders in teen driver safety.

It talks about preparing for prom night and the other 365 nights a year. There is a particular focus on female passengers. The article is formatted so you cay print and photocopy it onto your own letterhead for distribution.

Please feel free to do so, or to post on your web site or to place in a newsletter.

The feedback received thus far has been positive, such as from this news editor in Wenatchee, Washington:

Thank you for the helpful tips on prom night. I will pass them along to the appropriate editor with a suggestion for a story. Also, as the mother of a 16-year-old daughter, I found the information useful and supportive and plan to have my daughter read it too.

Vanessa
News editor
The Wenatchee World
___________________

And this response from an insurance agent in the US:

Thanks Gary for sharing this article. I am a member and State representative for the Independent Insurance Agents of Camden Gloucester County and as a county we do campaigns against Drunk drivers and safety. Thank you. This article will be circulated.

Nancy
_____________________________

Please be informed that the I Promise Program will be presented at the World Health Organization's 11th international conference on Safe Communities. This conference coincides this year with Canada's 5th national conference on safe communities. The conference takes place the first week in May, in Fort Frances, Ontario. This means the I Promise Program has gone from conception to launch to the international stage in just two years.

Our task at present is to get the program to the attention of parents of new teen drivers. Any support you can provide will be helpful and very much appreciated.

www.ipromiseprogram.com

Best,

Gary
Gary Direnfeld, Executive Director


Date: Fri, 22 Feb 2002
Subject: speeders/gps

CAR RENTAL AGENCY CITED FOR SPYING ON SPEEDERS

Acme Rent-a-Car, based in Connecticut, has been cited by the state's Consumer Protection Commission for its practice of tracking customers' driving habits via GPS devices and assessing customers $150 each time they exceeded 79 miles per hour. The commission said the company violated Connecticut's unfair trade practices act by not notifying customers of the monitoring, and ordered Acme to pay back "every single customer who they took money from illegally." Many car rental agencies use GPS to locate their vehicles in case they are stolen or taken out of the country. (Reuters/CNet 21 Feb 2002)

http://news.com.com/2100-1040-842821.html

Dr. Diane Nahl, University of Hawai'i at Manoa
Information and Computer Sciences, Library and Information Science Program
2550 The Mall, Honolulu, HI 96822
www2.hawaii.edu/~nahl voice: 808-956-5809 FAX: 808-956-5835


Date: Thu, 21 Jun 2007 20:47:49 -0400
From: robin <rp@eznet.net>
To: interviews@drDriving.org
Subject: book recommendation
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I find your site interesting and much needed. I apologize that this is not an interview
request, but I think AXLE ANNIE AND THE SPEED GRUMP, a picture book for the primary grades, would be a good one for you to recommend as a read-aloud for kids.

 http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ssAnnie+and+the+Speed+Grump&Go.x=11&Go.y=8   

I am the author of a number of children's books, including AXLE ANNIE AND THE SPEED GRUMP.

Axle Annie is a school bus driver who must deal with Rush Hotfoot, the "speed grump."

You can find excerpts from reviews at my website:
http://www.robinpulver.com/speedGrump.html

Thanks for your time and your work.

Robin
www.robinpulver.com  

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